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Colton Underwood Admits He Wanted Tia Booth to Be The Bachelorette: 'We Needed More Time'


The Bachelorette‘s Colton Underwood had one of the more emotional moments on tonight’s Men Tell All, with the focus less on his feelings for former contestant Tia and more about his decision not to have sex. “People think I’m less of a man because I haven’t had sex, and that’s hard for me to hear,” he said as he teared up. “I feel like a normal guy, so it’s hard when you hear all the negative things. It’s my choice and hopefully it’s something that’s respected from women and in the public.”

After the show taped, it was clear that Underwood was still affected by what happened on stage—especially because of a comment fellow contestant Jean Blanc made about Underwood’s virginity. “I will never talk to him again,” Underwood tells us. “His comment was disgusting and uncalled for.”

But with his journey about to continue on Bachelor in Paradise, there’s obviously more drama in store for the former football player. After all, his former fling Tia Booth will joining him in Mexico. “It’s emotional,” he says of the experience. “It’s full of unexpected surprises.”

Until then, Underwood shares more about his experience on The Bachelorette. Read on.

Things got emotional on Men Tell All tonight. How do you feel now that it’s over?

Colton Underwood: I still obviously feel a little emotional. I didn’t have plans to talk about my virginity because I feel like it was played out and it’s been a hot topic for the last couple weeks. [My virginity is] never easy to talk about, but anytime I do, it helps me grow as a person. So, I do feel good about that. It was hard for me to even bring it up at first on the show. I kept beating around the bush by saying I’m not that experienced. Now I can finally say, “I’m a virgin. I haven’t had sex” without a tremble in my voice.

Before you filmed the season, did you know this was going to become a topic of conversation?

Colton: I didn’t have a game plan with my virginity going into the show. I didn’t know if I was going to bring it up. When I did bring it up in the Bahamas, I wanted to make sure that [Becca] knew before she made her decision on whose family she wanted to meet. As hard as that conversation was, it was so good for me to actually say it out loud and go from six people to now six million people knowing it. People can agree or disagree with me, but hopefully some of them have a respect for me and my choice.

You and Jean Blanc had a tense moment during Men Tell All after he insulted your virginity. Did you address him after?

Colton: Jean Blanc is one of the guys that I never talked to after the show and, moving forward, I will never talk to. I think his comment was disgusting and uncalled for. It was so inappropriate in 2018—in the year of the women—and [he’s] going to be disrespectful to a whole gender? He’s going to use that word to describe the female anatomy and to call me out? And think he’s doing something positive [by saying that]? It is what it is, but I’m never going to talk to the dude again, so I don’t care.

Moving on: Was there any part of you that had hoped Tia would be the Bachelorette?

Colton: I’m not going to lie, yeah. The one thing that hindered Tia and I’s relationship and played a factor into it…it was hard for me to get a read off of that weekend that we spent together, whether we could be good for each other. She was going back to Arkansas, and I was going back to Colorado. We needed more time. I needed more time in that relationship to see [where things could go]. I was very up and front and honest, like, “I hope it’s you. I’m just letting you know I’m going on.” She knew from day two of us talking that I was a finalist for the show, and I said how cool would it be [if it was Tia]. When I found out it was Becca, [Tia] said, “Becca’s a great person, and I can’t wait for you to see your journey and hear about your experience. I’m so jealous. That’s awesome. You’re going to be with my friends.” That was it. It was very supportive. Tia and I’s relationship moved more into a friendship those last two weeks leading up to me leaving for filming.

You’ll be on Bachelor in Paradise with Tia. How did that go?

Colton: Paradise is emotional. I think there’s a lot of conversations that need to be had. It’s full of unexpected surprises that are both good, happy, sad, funny, all the emotions. I felt everything in Paradise.



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Prince Harry Reportedly Wanted Kate Middleton's 'Seal of Approval' Before Proposing to Meghan Markle


Before Prince Harry proposed to Meghan Markle last year, he first asked for permission from his grandmother, Queen Elizabeth II, who was required to give her formal consent. But, according to royal expert Katie Nicholl, there’s another very important royal in Prince Harry’s life whom he asked for advice before popping the question: his sister-in-law, Kate Middleton. “Harry and Kate are very close, she’s been like a mentor to him and he wanted her seal of approval,” a source told Nicholl in Grazia U.K. this week.

Beyond merely giving her approval to Prince Harry’s marriage, the Duchess of Cambridge has reportedly also made an effort to take Markle under her wing since her and Harry’s relationship turned serious. “Kate is different to Meghan in many ways, but she has made great strides to help Meghan settle in,” the source told Nicholl. “It’s a friendship that is still slowly blossoming. Kate has gone out of her way to be friendly to Meghan, and Meghan has been very grateful for that.”

Nicholl reports that Middleton has shown Markle “the royal ropes,” introduced her to several of her favorite designers, and told the newly titled Duchess of Sussex that she’s “always welcome” in Apartment 1A of Kensington Palace, where Middleton and Prince William live with their children. “Kate has her hands full with the children and baby, but ensures she makes time to touch base with Meghan,” the source said.

Prince Harry and Middleton have long shared a special bond. Last year, in a profile of Prince Harry, Newsweek‘s Angela Levin noted that his sister-in-law had helped to “fill some of that gap” left by his mother Princess Diana’s death. “When she and William got engaged, Harry called her the big sister he never had. He often pops into their apartment at Kensington Palace, where she cooks him a meal — roast chicken is reportedly a particular favorite,” Levin wrote.



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Democratic Voters Wanted Something Different. They Got Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez.


When Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez set out to topple one of the most powerful Democrats in Congress, only one thing was certain: The odds were not in her favor.

On Tuesday night, she beat those odds: The 28-year-old Latina crushed incumbent Rep. Joe Crowley in her first run for office—and his first primary challenge since 2004.

Victory in hand, Ocasio-Cortez thanked her supporters and made a prediction. “This is the start of a movement,” she tweeted.

It’s a simple statement that gives rise to a lot of questions.

It’s a big deal that Ocasio-Cortez fought her way to a win in New York’s 14th Congressional District. After all, Crowley is no back bencher. He heads the House Democratic Caucus. There’s been talk of him becoming speaker. He had money. Still, voters looked at that and resoundingly dumped Crowley in favor of a sweeping progressive vision carried by a community activist (and self-identified democratic socialist) half his age.

The Ocasio-Cortez campaign might have been a longshot, but it wasn’t a fluke: In a midterm cycle that’s generated excitement around contests that could elevate female candidates, including women of color, Ocasio-Cortez presented herself as someone not only for, but of, the people of an ethnically diverse district.

She appealed to working class voters by framing her campaign as a chance to break free of centrist compromises and snugly embrace a left-leaning platform: A universal jobs guarantee. Free public college. The end of ICE, for-profit prisons, and corporate money in politics. Her agenda bore more than a passing resemblance to the kind of planks offered by the presidential hopeful she backed in 2016, Bernie Sanders. On the socialism issue, Vogue quoted Ocasio-Cortez as saying, “When we talk about the word socialism, I think what it really means is just democratic participation in our economic dignity, and our economic, social, and racial dignity.” She is a member of Democratic Socialists of America, which describes itself online as an activism group, not a political party, and specifies, “As we are unlikely to see an immediate end to capitalism tomorrow, DSA fights for reforms today that will weaken the power of corporations and increase the power of working people.”

And up against a better-funded candidate, Ocasio-Cortez weaponized her disadvantage in campaign cash by telling voters, “We’ve got people. They’ve got money.” The strategy—and a lot of legwork—carried the day, but it also matters that Crowley represented a district that’s seen big demographic changes since he took office in 1998 and that he’d opened himself up to criticism by sending his kids to school in Virginia, not New York.

While the race involved only one district, two candidates and fewer than 30,000 voters, Christina Greer, an associate professor of political science at Fordham University, told Glamour in a phone interview that the Ocasio-Cortez win suggests Democrats haven’t resolved internal divisions exposed in 2016, when Sanders electrified young progressives by taking on the more moderate Hillary Clinton.

“I do think as far as the party is concerned, [this] particular win signals to establishment Democrats that clearly voters want change,” she said, “and it doesn’t matter how many years or decades you’ve been in office: If there’s a message that resonates with voters, we will vote you out.”

Among insurgents who think they have a winning message, “We’re seeing they’re not waiting for these folks to give up their seats,” Greer said. “They’re coming to take it.”

Tracy Sefl, a Democratic strategist who has worked with Hillary Clinton, said it’s better to interpret contests like NY-14 as showing there are more routes to office than there used to be instead holding up any one particular case as the prototype for a win.

“If there’s anything that it all means, it’s that the usual rules, the tried-and-true playbook, doesn’t apply [anymore],” she said. “That has been true since the day Trump won the election.”

Strategist and commentator Symone Sanders, who worked on the Bernie Sanders campaign, contended that what happened Tuesday night in New York and elsewhere shows the party doesn’t need to pressure candidates to soft-pedal why they’re running: “You can be a progressive person, and stand in your truth and in your values, talk about those things on the campaign trail, and if you’ve got a good ground game, you can win,” she said.

As to the idea that Crowley tanked because he “didn’t look like the district anymore, that’s just not what it is, because he has done really great work, and he should, in fact, be commended,” Sanders said. “But the fact of the matter is, there were new voters who were primed and ready for someone to speak to them, and the other candidate spoke to them. So she won.”

Some analysts saw Tuesday’s outcome as a rejection not just of Crowley, but of House Democratic Leader Nancy Pelosi and the direction of the party itself. There was some evidence to support the theory: Pelosi rushed to burnish Crowley’s legacy—and minimize his defeat—in a post-primary statement that specifically celebrated his “relentless determination to defend the inclusive America symbolized by the Statue of Liberty.”

The Democratic National Committee’s official response saluted Crowley too, but also made a point of saying Ocasio-Cortez “represents an important voice in our party and the next generation of Democratic leaders. She is an inspiration, and we know she will be a tireless fighter for working families.”

President Donald Trump made a point of mocking the Democrats as being in a general state of “turmoil.” While the president also took a personal jab at Crowley, it’s not hard to see the political utility of suggesting the opposition can’t get it together.

The Republican National Committee’s reaction to the vote, meanwhile, offered a preview of a double-edged attack designed to slime establishment Democrats as too extreme for mainstream America: “If there was any doubt that their party has moved drastically to the left, Democrats just elected a self-avowed socialist over the current Chair of the House Democratic Caucus.”

Asked by Glamour whether the optics of Ocasio-Cortez’s great night (and Crowley’s bad one) would reverberate through November, a Democratic Party aide insisted voters in NY-14 came out to make a choice about their own district, “not to send a message about a member of Congress from California, Washington, or anywhere else.”

“As much as beltway insiders may want to try to paint this as a story about Washington, D.C., it’s not — it’s a story about the Bronx and Queens.”

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Jake Tapper on 'Hellfire Club': I Knew I Wanted to Write a Strong Woman


If you’ve taken Fiction 101, you may be aware of the golden rule: Write what you know. CNN chief Washington correspondent Jake Tapper stuck to this idea when he wrote his debut political thriller—to an extent. The Hellfire Club is rife with Beltway intrigue and backroom deals, but Tapper’s leading lady is what kept us turning pages. And we’re not alone: Margaret has been praised by Nicole Wallace and Elizabeth Banks, and is perhaps best described by a member of Senator Kirsten Gillibrand‘s staff as a “resourceful badass” and “true queen.” We checked in with Tapper to find out how it feels to be the creator of a woman readers won’t be able to stop thinking about.

Glamour: I know you’re getting all kinds of praise for your Margaret. Can you tell me a little bit about how she came to be?Jake Tapper: As a reader of thrillers, I was well aware that the usual formula is for a single, studly James Bond type to jump from martinis to romance to shootouts. I knew I wanted Charlie Marder to be married to a woman he was madly in love with, and I knew I wanted her to be strong. I think that’s sexier and more romantic than the normal prototype. As a fan of Nick and Nora from The Thin Man, I started off wanting them to have what I hope is witty repartee. As Charlie begins to compromise his principles, Margaret objects to what’s happening to the man she loves and admires. From there, she took on a life of her own.

Glamour: Have you been surprised by the response?JT: Absolutely. I don’t pretend to be Mr. Woke 2018 or to have any special insight into women. I’m just a normal meatheaded man, though I do read, so I’m aware of feminist criticism of art made by men—the Bechdel Test and such. So I’m kind of amazed readers out there think I pulled it off.

Glamour: What was it like to write a woman who is pregnant? I’d love to hear a little bit about your research here.JT: The first challenge was to give Margaret her own complicated backstory, involving her own family struggles and interests and ambitions. Then I wrote for her as I would for any character, though with more noble motivations, since she’s such a kind person of such character. When the book starts, Margaret has just found out she’s pregnant, so I did a lot of checking with my editor, who happens to be a woman, and also my wife (we have two kids), to make sure the physical challenges she faces as she enters her second trimester were even possible. There were some scenes that had to be rewritten because my editor insisted there wasn’t a pregnant woman alive who who would have Margaret’s stamina.

Glamour: Do you think the experience of writing Margaret has made you a better colleague, husband, or friend—or a more empathic one?JT: The simple answer is no. But I do think it’s make me a more critical reader when it comes to the roles of women in fiction, as written by men, and more appreciative of authors who make the effort to include many different types of characters. Look, I think part of it is, at least as far as I’m concerned, I didn’t want to mess it up. I felt a similar anxiousness about an African American character I wrote, in terms of: Who the hell am I to even attempt to create this character? That trepidation might be part of the issue for some authors. But I’m really glad I tried.





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Chrissy Teigen and Luna's Matching Avocado One-Pieces Are Back in Stock, Because We Know You Wanted One


If you follow Chrissy Teigen on Instagram, you’ve probably noticed that avocados, in various forms, are a constant in her life. It didn’t come as a huge shock, then, when she posted a photo of herself on the last day of shooting for her second cookbook (!) and was wearing a long-sleeved one-piece with an avocado print all over it. Oh, and Luna had a matching one. Cute overload.

Naturally, we had some questions—well, mainly just one: Where can we buy one, Chrissy?

Teigen knows to tag her outfit credits, though, so it didn’t take much sleuthing to discover that these mommy-and-me suits were by Mott 50, a brand that specializes in sun protective apparel.

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Mott50 Kelly, $125

Chrissy wore the Kelly (pictured above), which retails for $125, and Luna sported the Mini Mila (see below), which you can purchase for $44.

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Mott50 Mini Mila, $40

However, Mott 50 quickly sold out of the avocado-printed styles after Teigen posted her Instagram. However, those who were still hoping to cop Chrissy and Luna’s looks are in luck: The brand announced a restock of the two styles. And you can pre-order them right now!

The suits are expected to ship out between December 5 and December 15—right in time for the holidays. So, if you have a little avocado enthusiast in your life, we highly suggest gifting her with one of these and then taking a video with Beyoncé and Nicki Minaj playing in the background, like so:

While we patiently wait to see what Chrissy’s second cookbook has in store, we’re going to go ahead and replay that video (and pre-order some avocado onesies) until our boss’ catch us.

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Jane Villanueva of 'Jane the Virgin' Is the Style Icon I've Always Wanted


I first discovered Jane the Virgin after watching Gina Rodriguez’s emotional, inspiring acceptance speech at the 2015 Golden Globes, where she won the award for Best Actress in a TV Comedy. I was compelled by her charisma and vulnerability. I felt moved by her mantra of “I can and I will.” I also couldn’t ignore that she was a fellow Latina, and that she won an award for playing a character who wasn’t a maid, mistress, or any other Latinx trope.

I immediately started watching the CW show, which is now on its fourth season, and I’ve been hooked ever since.

Perhaps what’s most remarkable to me about Jane the Virgin is how it showcases a Latinx family in a way that I relate to—save for the less-than-normal circumstances under which we meet the titular character. But when I was growing up, Latinx representation on mainstream television was limited. The Brothers García was the only show I recall watching with a predominantly Latinx cast. Beyond that, you had to catch Latinx characters where you could: A.C. Slater (Mario Lopez) on Saved by the Bell, Matt Santos (Jimmy Smits) on The West Wing, and George Lopez on his eponymous show come to mind. You may have noticed those are all men. That’s because, for many years, I felt that Latinas were largely missing from the television landscape—and even when they were on screen, they were often typecast as seductive sexpots (i.e. Gabrielle Solis on Desperate Housewives) or frumpy, vindictive maids (like Rosario Salazar on Will & Grace.) Then Jane came along.

When I watched Jane the Virgin, it felt like being reunited with my long-lost twin: She’s bookish, a perfectionist, and an aspiring writer. She comes from a family of immigrants and works her way through college. But the similarity I was most struck by—and still am, three seasons in—is how closely Jane’s wardrobe resembles my own. She may lead an abnormal telenovela life, but her clothes are actually, well, pretty normal. And that’s precisely why I love them.

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Seeing that normalcy represented through fashion is important to me because, for far too long, Latinas on TV have been stylistically one-dimensional. They were in skin-tight dresses, uniforms, or chola garb. I don’t ascribe to any of those sartorial depictions of Latinas, but they were the only ones available to me as a kid. And because these were the only ones I saw, it made me question my own latinidad on more than one occasion—after all, I was a brown girl from Nebraska who didn’t speak Spanish, was of mixed race, and didn’t have many Latinx friends. I wore glasses and shopped at Target, Old Navy, and TJ Maxx. My clothes were generally unimpressive, although I definitely tried way too hard to be trendy: If prep was in, I’d wear polos; if it was punk, I’d rock the plaid. Fashion was my way of fitting in, especially in a world where I constantly felt exoticized—so while my clothes didn’t necessarily reflect my personality at the time, at least I belonged.

Yet even when I did see characters on screen that dressed like me, they didn’t look like me. And if I couldn’t see myself reflected in the stories I was consuming, did that mean my story wasn’t worth telling? And was I Latina enough if I didn’t look, act, talk, or dress like the ones on TV?

I wish I could say that I eventually reached the definitive answer of, “Yes, of course I am,” but it’s honestly a question I still grapple with. Fortunately, Jane Villanueva has helped alleviate some of those insecurities. She isn’t a caricature or a cliché. And through sense of style—which is largely unremarkable and isn’t a plot device on the show—I’ve finally found a Latina style role model who doesn’t just get me, she is me.

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“It’s absolutely ridiculous that Latina women have been put into this over sexualized box,” says Rachel Sage Kunin, costume designer for Jane the Virgin. “I feel privileged to be able to show off a character like Jane.”

In earlier seasons, she explains, Jane gravitated toward a variety of prints:We saw her in everything from florals and tie-dye to stripes and polka dots. She even rocked pineapple prints a couple of times. And although Jane doesn’t come from wealth or affluence, she’s almost always put-together, proving that great style doesn’t have to break the bank. “I shop a lot at Target and Kohl’s for her,” Kunin said. “I also do a lot of sales hunting. Even if Jane could afford an expensive dress from Neiman Marcus, she’s too practical to buy it at full price.”

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Just like Jane, I’ve done my fair share of experimenting with prints, especially in my early twenties, when I was figuring out my post-college sartorial identity. I’ve since outgrown them, and now favor pieces with minimal or more subtle patterns. And, as Jane made the transformation from 23-year-old pregnant virgin to young mother and widow (does that count as a spoiler?), her wardrobe followed an evolution similar to mine.

“She may have chosen a polka dot dress then, whereas now she’d opt for something a bit hipper or more modern,” Kunin says. “She may have chosen a fit and flare dress before, but now she’d opt for a sheath dress.”

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After Michael’s death last season and the subsequent three-year time jump, the costume designer explained that viewers saw a more grown-up Jane. “Jane has had to mature since Michael’s death,” Kunin said. “She’s always had a cute sense of style, but it’s evolved quite a bit.”

In the second half of the third season, for example, she wears sleeker silhouettes in solid colors like blush, magenta, and orange. She still incorporates florals and stripes occasionally, but other prints have largely disappeared from her new adult wardrobe.

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When Jane chose this slinky Lovers + Friends mini dress to commence her fling with Fabian, an incredibly attractive telenovela star she meets on the set of her father Rogelio’s show, I related to her line of thought: I’ve definitely worn uncharacteristically provocative pieces to give myself that little ego boost before a rendezvous. It’s a sartorial move that’s a clear departure from, say, her super-casual denim-and-knit look back in season one (which, to be fair, I proudly own a version of). But that’s part of what makes Jane’s style feel so refreshing to me: She mostly wears accessible, cute, and on-trend apparel. When she does get dolled up, it’s feminine yet modest. She’s rarely outrageous or oversexed, unless it’s part of the storytelling—like with the aforementioned Fabian plot or with any of the show’s numerous fantasy sequences.

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When it comes to collaborating with Rodriguez, Kunin said that they’re usually on the same wavelength about Jane’s style evolution. “Gina and I find common ground on where Jane’s head is at,” she notes. “Often we’ll find something and agree that we should save it for down the road. It’s where we see her going, but perhaps she’s not quite there. Or we’ll agree and say, ‘That’s so Jane season two!’”

Rodriguez understands that relationships with fashion are complex and constantly changing: The actress previously told Glamour that because she “grew up as a tomboy,” she wasn’t sure how to engage with fashion.

“[I grew up] with a mother who didn’t really wear makeup and didn’t really put an emphasis on wearing labels or anything like that,” Rodriguez said. “If you asked anybody who knew me in college, they’d be like, yeah, she doesn’t care, she’ll throw on a T-shirt and keep it moving.”

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She acknowledged that she’s becoming “more adventurous” and learning how to embrace fashion as a tool for self-empowerment.

“I’m discovering myself and what I like,” Rodriguez said. “That’s huge for me. Fashion is about treating yourself well and being your own hero in your story.”

The fourth season of Jane the Virgin premieres tonight at 9 p.m. EST on the CW.



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