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Is Andrew Yang 2020’s Unlikeliest Feminist Truth Teller?


The sixth Democratic debate held in December 2019 wasn’t quite filled with surprises, but it did have a few good zingers—one of which was delivered to us by none other than Andrew Yang, the sole person of color in attendance and perhaps the unlikeliest candidate on stage. (He just missed the cutoff for tonight’s debate in Iowa.)

“If you get too many men alone and leave us alone for a while, we kind of become morons,” Yang said.

For much of the 2020 race, Yang was a virtual unknown in a crowded field; he’s never held an elected position, and the position he talks about with the most passion isn’t health care or student debt, but universal basic income—which, he maintains, could help deal with problems like health care and student debt.

Yang believes that advancements in AI will eliminate entire swaths of the American workforce. To cope with the destabilization, he wants to put a little cash in people’s pockets each month—no strings attached. Yang is an optimist about human nature and a realist about the issues we all face. Hence, the “men can be morons” quip.

Sure, the line shouldn’t be that impressive. But in the context of a presidential debate, the admission that groups of men left alone in rooms can and do wreak havoc on the world (and the women) around them felt momentous.

A few weeks later, I called Yang to talk about it as he was driving around rural South Carolina and I was heading from Palm Springs to Los Angeles. We chatted about feminism, tech, child care, reproductive health care, and, as Yang put it, a lot of “bullshit, frankly.”

Molly Jong-Fast: How did you get here? How did your views on sexism evolve?

Andrew Yang: I’ve been working in the startup world for a number of years. And it doesn’t take anyone that savvy to figure out pretty quickly that the startup world is highly male dominated and chauvinistic. I saw dozens of aspiring female entrepreneurs who would interact with potential advisors or investors who were men, and the men were more interested in hitting on them than helping them.

You see that and you think, Wow. Any thought that the startup ecosystem is somehow a meritocracy of ideas and [the process is fair] is completely farcical.

My husband is a [venture capitalist] so we talk about this a lot—women in tech and how women in tech are treated.

I’m sure he sees a lot of the same. Bullshit, frankly. I mean, just the level of bullshit that women have to put up with is staggering. So that was one input.

Another was seeing so many incredibly talented women that I went to school with end up running into all these headwinds when they were in various corporate environments. The companies seemed to alienate women in ways big and small. I saw so many women friends eventually just say, “Is this worth it? I have to armor myself up when I go into the workplace every day.”

On top of that, many of them also have families and all of their responsibilities were just multiplied 10 times over, 20 times over, a 100 times over. I saw it with my wife’s experience even when she was pregnant and had our boys.

Is that how you realized that paid leave was such a big problem?

You have to ask yourself, “How the heck is the United States nearly alone on a global list of countries that doesn’t recognize something as basic as a need for moms to take time off when they have kids?” It’s because we’re pathologically anti-woman, anti-family, and we treat everyone like their [only value is] their economic output.



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Sophia Bush Isn't Afraid to Speak Truth to Power


This article is part of a series profiling the inspiring women of Together Live, a band of all-female storytellers who will travel across the U.S. this fall, spreading love, laughter, and hope. In 10 cities, big and small, the intimate one-night-only events serve as a reminder that no matter what divides us, women are strongest when we come together. Learn more about Together Live here—and get excited to join the party.


You may remember Sophia Bush as the it-girl of the early aughts. Starring as Brooke on the teen juggernaut, One Tree Hill, and as Beth in the ultimate revenge film, John Tucker Must Die—the media feverishly covered her every move. But what they weren’t writing about was what was happening beneath the surface—the fact that Bush was coming into her own as an activist. Bush first became vocal about humanitarian causes in regard to the environment, but since has spoken out about everything from the harassment she’s experienced on sets, to voting rights. Last year she participated in the viral hashtag #WhyIDidntReport movement—thanking Christine Blasey Ford and sharing her own experience of assault. Before that, she was also a founding member of Time’s Up.

Here, Bush let’s us in on the people who have told her to not speak out, but rather to stay in her lane, and why she refused to listen.

Glamour: You’ve been a loud and proud advocate for the causes close to your heart, whether it’s your work with Time’s Up or I Am a Voter. How did you first decide to trust your voice, and fight for the things you care about?

Sophia Bush: In my experience, the truth itself has an energy, like a drum beat. It makes noise inside of me. And there is nothing to do but speak it. It will never quiet down, nor should it. I’ve always been outspoken about justice, but I do remember when that personal tendency went public after Deepwater Horizon and the Gulf of Mexico oil disaster it caused. As a lifelong lover of this planet of ours, I was incensed at the environmental injustice I was witnessing. And I still am! We have so much work to do. But the work won’t get done if we don’t first have the conversation about the issue at hand. That’s step number one. And we can take our action steps from there.



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Here's the Truth Behind That Meghan Markle-Priyanka Chopra 'Feud'


Last month, rumors popped up that longtime friends Meghan Markle and Priyanka Chopra were in a “feud.” According to Page Six, their relationship was “on the rocks” because the pregnant Duchess of Sussex skipped Chopra’s wedding to Nick Jonas in India. So, in return, Chopra reportedly opted out of Markle’s New York City baby shower. We called B.S. on that story and still stand by our opinion.

Now, a new source is telling E! News the two women are 100 percent fine. “All the rumors that Priyanka and Meghan aren’t friends anymore are totally not true,” the source says. “Priyanka and Meghan are still very close friends and they talk frequently. Meghan confides in Priyanka about the adjustments she has to make with being a royal.”

“Just because Priyanka didn’t go to the shower, or that Meghan couldn’t come to her wedding(s), doesn’t mean anything about their friendship,” the source continues. “They’re still very close friends and Meghan considers Priyanka one of her closest confidants.”

Considering the way Chopra has talked about Markle in the past, this makes makes sense. “This ever-smiling, strong free spirit found her prince, fell in love and in turn made a cynical world believe in fairy tales again,” Chopra wrote about the now-duchess for Time‘s 100 Most Influential People issue in April 2018. “But more than anything else, Meghan is an important influencer in a world that needs strong public figures to respect and look up to.” Last summer, Chopra said Markle was doing “amazing” in her new royal life, and it was rumored she and Nick Jonas stayed with the Sussexes at their Cotswolds country home.

And there you have it, folks: nothing to see here except two very busy women who, unfortunately, couldn’t make their schedules line up. That’s not a feud. That’s adulthood—mundane, normal adulthood.



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The Bachelor Season 23, Episode 7 Recap: Who's Telling the Truth?


After a week full of eliminations and not one, not two, but three warnings, tonight’s episode of The Bachelor was a little lower energy. Still, a lot went down so let’s get right into it, shall we? Spoilers ahead.

The episode opens with Colton filming a late-night video about his feelings. (So emo.) Long story short, he’s confused and upset because three different women warned him that some of the other dozens of women he’s dating aren’t ready for marriage. To be honest, this doesn’t feel like that groundbreaking of a reveal to me—statistically speaking, at least one woman there doesn’t want to marry a guy she’s known two weeks, right? But Colton says this is his “biggest fear.”

He has good news, though: “We’re heading to Denver!” Woo.

Once stateside, Colton meets up with former Bachelor Ben Higgins for a drink and “advice.” Colton needs it: The hometown dates are next week, so the stakes! Are! High! Oh, and he’s falling in love with multiple people and feels weird about it. Ben’s advice? “Lean in!” (My advice would be “yes, that is weird which is why you should just pick one,” but nobody’s asking me.)

When Colton joins the women later that day, he brings his dog, Sniper, along. Their first reaction upon seeing Sniper is “OMG DOG!” I don’t think they even notice that Colton’s there too, which…yeah, that feels right. Unfortunately instead of more Sniper content, Colton has to take one of the women on a date.

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Tayshia is the chosen one, and their date consists of sitting in the loudest food market of all time. Seriously, I could barely heard their conversation—so what a convenient, not-at-all annoying place and time for Tayshia to drop the “I know who isn’t ready for marriage” bomb. At first, Tayshia tells Colton she’s not going to name any names because she’s not a tattletale. Then, not two seconds later, she’s all, “It’s Cassie and Caelynn!!!”

She claims she heard through the grapevine they were talking about their Bachelorette chances and all the parties they’ll get to attend after the show ends. Again, this isn’t that big of a reveal—even the winners go to events after the show ends. Who cares? I don’t think Colton does, but he is listening when Tayshia says they’re not ready to get engaged.

This throws Colton off, but he puts it on the back burner to concentrate on enjoying the rest of the date. He takes Tayshia to his apartment, where they play games and talk about hometowns. She says her family, dad especially, might be tough because they’re still processing her divorce. This doesn’t phase Colton, and he gives her the rose. They end the night making out in his room, which he describes as the spot “where the magic doesn’t happen.”

The next day, Colton takes Caelynn snowboarding. It’s uneventful—until he tells her about the conversation with Tayshia. It’s all a lie, Caelynn insists. Once she’s away from Colton, she tells a producer, “Dude, I better get a rose because I will call that bitch out.”

When they meet up later for dinner, Colton cries because he’s so confused. Caelynn assures him that she’s there for him and ready to be engaged. She feels like she can be herself with him, she says, and it’s scary that a lie could compromise that. She was planning to tell him, before all of this happened, that she’s falling in love. This reassures Colton, and he gives her the rose and says he’s falling in love too.

The next morning, Caelynn confronts Tayshia. When asked why she would call her out, Tayshia claims everyone noticed that she and Cassie were the most nervous after Katie warned Colton. So, she says, they’re probably the guilty ones. “If I really wanted to talk smack about you,” she adds, “I would be talking smack about you every single day, but I haven’t.” That’s her evidence? Tayshia doesn’t seem like a liar to me—but those receipts are weeeeaaaak.



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Black Women Want to Be Excited about Kamala Harris. The Truth Is More Complicated.


When Senator Kamala Harris announced her presidential run on Martin Luther King Jr. Day—47 years to the week after Shirley Chisholm announced her historic run in 1972—I should have been thrilled.

Harris is, after all, California’s first black woman and first Indian American to be elected to the Senate. Her decision to declare on a holiday constructed to commemorate the fight for racial equality was a good omen, as was the banner under which she announced: “Kamala Harris, for the People.”

The slogan is meant to communicate Harris’ commitment to justice. It’s also an oblique nod to a prosecutorial record that progressives and black women in particular have taken issue with. By putting it at the center of her campaign, Harris seems to have a message for us: I can explain this. Well, I’m one of those women who needs a further explanation, and I’m listening.

When I first read almost two weeks ago the rumors that Harris would run, I tweeted that I needed to do more research on her prosecutor background because I did not want our black womanhood to be the one attribute we have in common. The hesitation echoes an old African American proverb, “All skinfolk ain’t kinfolk.” When I went online to see how other black women felt, I found emotions that ranged from exultant to vitriolic.

Harris and President Donald Trump were both voted into office in 2016. Ever since, Harris has emerged as one of his most formidable critics. She’s advocated for Medicare for all and free college tuition for families who make under $140,000 a year. She’s expressed determination to end the wage gap for black women and has gone after big corporations that have benefited from tax loopholes. (Within an hour of her announcement, her campaign said she’d raised small-dollar donations from people in all 50 states.) And she’s shined in congressional hearings, a setting in which her intellect, rigor, and facial expressions have earned headlines and fans—myself included. It’s no wonder the speculation escalated over the past few months: With 2020 around the corner, would she run? In text threads and DMs, black women had questions too: Yes, a black female president would be historic. Yes, she has the credentials. Yes, we need to beat Trump. But is Harris the representation we’ve waited for?

For some, support of Harris was obvious. When T. Campbell of Los Angeles heard Harris might run, she breathed a “sigh of relief.” Harris is a Howard-educated AKA (Alpha Kappa Alpha) who tweets with pride about her fellow sorors and her favorite jams, from Salt-n-Pepa to Aretha Franklin. “I feel that…her running means I will have proper representation again,” Campbell says to Glamour. It’s a sentiment that Victoria Johnson of Ridgeland, Mississippi, shares: “As I’ve watched her over the years, I see a very strong leader, not just a strong woman.” And Tina-Rose Brown, who lives in Brooklyn, is excited not just about Harris’ public persona but about her commitment to marijuana legalization and restorative justice practices. “I believe if elected she’ll have a broad coalition and cabinet to help make the necessary changes to stop the cradle-to-prison pipeline,” Brown said.

Her time in the Senate suggests as much. But her earlier work has turned this into the issue I’m most worried about. Prosecutors have upheld laws and a criminal justice system that disenfranchises people who look like me. The prison system with its relation to black and brown people and the hyper-surveillance of our communities are subjects that need to be addressed head on. Can I trust Harris, who served as district attorney in San Francisco and then attorney general of California, to do this?

Harris has of course accomplished much in her career that would relieve some initial concerns. The Guardian and The New York Times have dug into the era of Harris’ political career that predates her reputation as a progressive leader. She opposed a proposition that would have made it harder to invoke the “three strikes rule,” which can trigger an automatic life sentence for someone convicted of multiple crimes and pushed legislation that would jail parents of truant children. But at the same time, as a district attorney in San Francisco, Harris created the Back on Track program for young first-time offenders that reduced the recidivism rate from 54 percent to an incredible 10 percent in just six years. Later, in her statewide office, she helped expedite the processing of rape kits and made police across the state undergo implicit bias training. In other words: It’s complicated.

What kind of voice would Harris be for us in the White House? And what would it take for us to back Harris’ historic bid?

But what sticks out to me is the fact that while she has said she’s committed to such progressive goals as weed legalization and restorative justice, she’s only just begun to reckon with and apologize for the part she played in strengthening systemic disparities among communities of color. She’s earned the nickname Top Cop for a reason. In the era of the Black Lives Matter movement and countless articles and books that document police surveillance and brutality toward black and brown people, for some black women the question is, What kind of voice would Harris be for us in the White House? And what would it take for us to back Harris’ historic bid?

Odds are Harris won’t be the most conservative candidate on criminal justice reform in the Democratic primary. But for some black women, that’s not quite the point. The issue is personal. Mass incarceration as a weapon of the state has disproportionately affected black families. Black people are imprisoned at a rate five times higher than that of white people, and 15 percent of African American men have gone to prison (as opposed to 6 percent of all adult men). “I’m surrounded by black men—uncles, nephews, grandparents—[who] have some kind of connection with the prison system,” says Courtney Humphrey, a media consultant based in Bowie, Maryland. Like Harris, Humphrey is an AKA, but their shared past makes her more disappointed in Harris’ mixed record. “I don’t feel like any of the things I identify with her [about] is enough to get me to completely ignore her politics,” she says. Humphrey isn’t sure who she’ll support in the primary, but she’s interested in Senator Elizabeth Warren, who has called American criminal justice policies racist.

“Most of [Harris’] policies are good, but what most people are shaky about is her stance on prison reform,” adds Josie Deese, a student at Texas Southern University. “I’m personally on the fence because she hasn’t made any statements about [the criticisms against her]. I feel torn.”

Even so, Niah Tobarri, a student in Boston, thinks Harris can win the support of black women, who turned out in historic numbers for Barack Obama. And Simone Mitchell (her name has been changed) perhaps best speaks to the ambivalence that some black women feel. “I would love to support her, but I want direct answers about her past policies,” Mitchell, an attorney based in New York, explains. “People are allowed to change. She can be remorseful…and be transparent.” If she is, Mitchell is prepared to move on: “I would be super happy and rally behind her.”

Still the more I dug into Kamala Harris’ background, the worse I started to feel. I wondered whether I was being too hard on her or even holding her to a higher standard than I would a white male Democrat. Former Vice President Joe Biden admitted that he hasn’t been “always right” on issues of criminal justice. No candidate is perfect, and the idea that I might not support a black woman who is qualified for the job is excruciating. My life’s work is centered on black women and their stories, no matter how complicated those narratives might be. Was my hesitation premature and unfair? But the alternative is almost as painful—giving someone who looks like me a pass on actions that have hurt our communities. I want a black female president. But I want an end to mass incarceration for all black women, for all black families, even more. Who can deliver that? Could it be Harris? Maybe, but I need her to make that case.

Despite our near-unified support for Democrats, black women will have to weigh their priorities in this race, which means that no one candidate commands our vote as a bloc. In the next few months, we’ll need the media to illuminate these differences and pay attention to black women’s concerns about all of the candidates. While there’s no lack of stories about white working-class voters, newsrooms seem reluctant to hire the diverse staff this election demands.

Over the next few months, Harris will have to defend her record on criminal justice just as other candidates have to defend their own votes and positions. And black women know that for a black female presidential candidate, the stakes will be far higher than for her white male peers. Criticism of her character and policies is bound to be influenced by a lethal combination of racism, sexism, and cultural ignorance. (Look no further than a reporter who mistook AKA’s trademark “skee wee” sound as screeches.) When the media missteps, I’ll be the first to call it out. But black women shouldn’t have to do a job for free on social media that newsrooms could do with a diverse staff, and people shouldn’t expect that because we won’t tolerate sexism and racism, it means we won’t examine how Harris’ policies have affected people who look like us.

There needs to be space for black women to have honest conversations about Harris’ record—and not just in our DMs. The fact that Harris will in all likelihood face unfair critiques doesn’t invalidate that. Black women are one of the most important bases for progressive candidates to cultivate. More than 90 percent of black women voted for Hillary Clinton in the 2018 election. The next presidential candidate will need our help too. But no matter who he or she is, that person will have to earn our votes.

Morgan Jerkins is the author of This Will Be My Undoing.





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'Riverdale' Season 2 Episode 19 Recap: The Truth About Chic Is Finally Revealed


Two people were held for ransom during tonight’s Riverdale episode, and that’s not even the craziest thing that happened. We haven’t even gotten to Betty pointing a gun at Chic yet, but we’ll get to that. Read on as I take an Alka Seltzer:

OK, so all episodes of Riverdale from here on out need to begin with Cheryl in a black Vixens outfit, singing a funeral hymnal. Basically, everyone’s shook over Midge Klump’s death at the hands of someone who claims to be the Black Hood. Archie thinks this person is the real deal, and that the person they thought was the Black Hood, Mr. Svenson, was a fake.

Hot Sheriff Keller doesn’t believe him, though, and for the first time in my life I’m going to say these words out loud: Archie’s right. He’s actually being smart in this situation—hot and smart! Mark this down in your history books, because it won’t last long. The Black Hood is 100 percent still out there. Anyway, the town’s pissed at Sheriff Keller because he continues to be dumb about these murders. Midge Klump’s mom slaps him à la that scene in Jaws where a mom smacks Chief Brody. Cheryl says his days of “failing” this town are numbered. I’d heed her warning, dude. Cheryl literally doused herself in blood last week! She’s on edge!

Jughead thinks Chic is the Black Hood, which is a plausible assumption to make because he’s creepy and randomly murdered someone in Betty’s kitchen. Archie, on the other hand, is fully convinced the Black Hood is still out there—and even starts hallucinating him behind bushes, like he’s Jamie Lee Curtis in Halloween or some shit. Veronica wants Archie to drop this bone, which obviously means he won’t. Chest-puffing is Archie’s favorite activity, right after “playing the guitar.”

“It came from the core of my bosom.” — Cheryl, saving this episode one iconic line at a time.

Betty thinks Chic should leave town before Keller interrogates him, which Alice says is a horrible idea because it’ll make him look guilty. Meanwhile, Archie thinks his father, Fred, should skip out because the Black Hood threatened to kill “all those who escaped him.” Fred says no, and if this is foreshadowing for Luke Perry’s death, then I’m writing a stern letter to The CW. All this accumulates to Betty suggesting to Jughead that they look into Chic as a potential Black Hood suspect. Whad’ya know: Detective Bughead is on the case again. Where are their Scooby Snacks?

They go to Sisters of Quiet Mercy, where Svenson and Chic both spent time and might’ve crossed paths. However, the photo in the file for Chic isn’t Chic, confirming something we’ve known all along: “Chic” is a lying scam artist who’s pretending to be Betty’s brother. And may even be the Black Hood!

Jughead and Betty go home to find “Chic” with Alice in the kitchen. They confront him about not really being Chic, and he grabs a knife and starts swinging at them. Thankfully, though, Betty comes in clutch and knocks “Chic” out with a rolling pin. If Alice still thinks “Chic” is harmless after this, then I’m done with this damn family.

Nope, they finally come to their senses…and Chic comes clean: He knew Betty’s brother, Charles. They lived together in that crappy motel where Betty and Alice found him. Apparently one night, the real Charles attempted to get in contact with the Cooper family, but Alice shunned him. He overdosed on Jingle Jangle as a result. Oof. That’s intense, but I won’t lie: The phrase: “He overdosed on Jingle Jangle” made me chuckle. It literally just sounds like he ate too much candy at a carnival. Alice is devastated and relays all this information to Chic’s real father, F.P.

Switching gears: Hermione Lodge has a stake on Sheriff Keller’s head and asks Cheryl to write an op-ed calling for his removal as sheriff. Veronica, however, wants nothing to do with whatever scheme her parents are cooking up. Someone then throws a rock at Keller’s cop car, and I’m pissed. Listen, leave my salt-and-pepper snack alone. He’s doing the best he can! The campaigning works, though, and Keller steps down as Sheriff.

“Shut the hell up, impostor!” — Jughead, who always needs to “shut the hell up.”

But who cares about this because Archie gets attacked by weird men in black hoods outside an abandoned house. One of them is Nick St. Clair, Veronica’s old NYC friend who assaulted her and tried to assault Cheryl. He calls Veronica from Archie’s phone and says he “has Archie” and it will cost her a “cool million” to get him back. Wow, this show’s really taking a turn for the gruesome, isn’t it?

Veronica gives Nick the money, but it’s not enough. He says she can pay him the rest by sleeping with him. It’s disgusting. Even more disgusting is that Nick St. Clair is setting up a feed so Archie can watch this as it goes down.

Plot whiplash: Now we’re back to Betty. The Black Hood—the real one—calls her and says she knew deep down their game wasn’t over. He then rattles off a bunch of nonsense about sinners and hangs up. Betty, for whatever reason, lies about this call to Jughead, but says they should go to Chic’s old motel to investigate his claims about Charles.

A neighbor essentially claims Chic murdered Charles—which makes more sense than his convoluted “Jingle Jangle overdose” story. Chic neither confirms nor denies it, which drives Bughead crazy. The Black Hood calls Betty and says she can “deliver” Chic to him and make this problem go away. This is just so much blood and carnage and not enough Cheryl, TBH.

Betty and Alice get Hal involved in this mess. He thinks they should go to the police, failing to realize that would also incriminate Betty and Alice for the time they helped dispose of the body for Chic. So Betty takes matters into her own hands, grabs a gun (???), and leads Chic out the backdoor of their basement and to a graveyard, where the Black Hood is waiting. Bye, crazy Chic!

Later, Betty goes home, lies about how she got rid of Chic, and is shook to find that Hal is now missing. Apparently, he “went out to look” for Betty, but the ominous music that plays as Alice explains this obviously implies some other fuckery is afoot.

“For all we know, daddy, Nick’s cutting off Archie’s ear right now” — Veronica, being the most extra.

Meanwhile, Veronica is on a “date” with Nick St. Clair in a suite as an imprisoned Archie watches miles away. Archie manages to escape Nick’s goonies and starts heading toward the suite. Nick, a monster, says drugging Cheryl was “school boy mischief” and “all in the past.” Horrifying. The way Veronica stares at his champagne fluke, though, makes me think she’s somehow poisoned his drink.

Yeah, she did—and Nick’s knocked out cold by the time Archie shows up, bloodied up and out of breath. The two of them then tie up Nick and hold him for ransom. This is so much violence for a show about teens. Aren’t normal high school shenanigans dramatic enough?

Nick’s parents pay $1 million to free him, and now Hiram Lodge has to explain to Archie why he did nothing to stop Nick’s ransom scheme. Archie’s oddly cool about it and just says he wants Hiram’s help bringing down the Black Hood. That’s his mission now. Whatever. I’ll never understand straight dudes.

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