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Prince Harry and Meghan Markle's Neighbors Reportedly Received Super-Strict Rules About Behaving Around Them


No one would ever really be prepared to live next door to royalty (I mean, how could you be?), but the royal family is reportedly making sure that Prince Harry and Meghan Markle‘s new neighbors certainly are. According to reports, a “well-meaning” palace official stopped into a recent Windsor residents’ meeting to provide the neighbors with a few rules on interacting with the royals.

The rules, The Sun reported on Friday (July 26), include never asking to see Archie, not slipping mail through their letterbox, never offering to babysit or to walk their dogs, and never petting their dogs, even if the dogs come bounding over to you. Also: never say “good morning” to the royals unless they say it first.

“It would be funny if it wasn’t so over the top,” one local shared with The Sun about the list of demands.

“It’s extraordinary. We’ve never heard anything like it. Everyone who lives on the estate works for the royals and knows how to behave respectfully,” another told The Sun.

As The Sun noted, most of Harry and Meghan’s neighbors are palace officials, employees, or royally-adjacent people—so it’s not like they’re unused to palace culture. Those neighbors, it added, include the Queen’s right-hand woman and dresser Angela Kelly, as well as Prince Charles’ old nanny Mabel Anderson and the governor of Windsor Castle.

Another local expressed concern over the tone of the royal demands, adding even the Queen doesn’t make such requests. “We aren’t told how to behave around the Queen like this. She’s very happy for people to greet her,” the neighbor added.

But the palace has been quick to say that Harry and Meghan had nothing to do with this. A palace official told The Sun that protocol was set not by the Sussexes but rather by an “overly protective palace official.” Another palace source told The Daily Mail, “The Duke and Duchess had no knowledge of this briefing and no involvement in the concept or the content.”

This isn’t the first time there’s been reports of strict rules laid out by their staff. Just a few short weeks ago, the entire cast of The Lion King—including Beyoncé—was given a wild list of instructions on how to properly greet Meghan and Harry at the event.

“In the days leading up to it, they email you a protocol of how you’re supposed to greet Prince Harry and Meghan. They are very intense about it. I’m not kidding,” castmember Billy Eichner told Jimmy Kimmel in an interview after the premiere. “You’re supposed to say, ‘Your royal highness.’ You can’t speak until your hands are, like, in a handshake with his. My plus-one—my guest I brought with me, my very good friend Jared—they said he had to stand behind me and not speak unless he was spoken to. I’m not kidding! I was like, ‘Does that same rule apply to Jay-Z?’ I have a feeling it doesn’t.”



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11 Rules of Being Friends With Benefits


Kicking off a friends with benefits relationship can be a lot of liberating fun. After all, it’s a hookup with no strings attached between two people who genuinely like and trust each other. But, of course, that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s uncomplicated.

It’s hard to prescribe a clear-cut set of rules for being friends with benefits—every situation is different. But there is one thing these relationships all have in common: a need for some good old fashioned communication. It’s always a good idea to talk about what the expectations are—at some point! maybe not in bed!—and even set a few guidelines about what’s going to go down before things go down. That’s a lot of frank talk before the fun stuff, but things can get a little knotty if both parties are aren’t on the same page. We asked the experts for their best advice for navigating a friends with benefits situation with minimal drama.



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Vanderpump Rules Season 7 Trailer: Watch Here


Were you worried now that Meghan Markle and Prince Harry’s royal tour is over there might be a pop-culture hole in your life? Or perhaps the stress of the upcoming midterms is weighing you down? Don’t worry, because Bravo is here to save the day with a glorious new trailer for the upcoming seventh season of Vanderpump Rules.

It’s truly got everything you could ever want from the reality series: a look inside Brittany and Jax’s engagement, the opening of Tom Tom, screaming fights that include acrylic nail pointing, tears, and copious amounts of alcohol. The core S.U.R. gang is all back, including Jax, Britt, Sandoval, Ariana, Schwartz, Katie, Kristen, Stassi, Lala, James, and their boss/surrogate mother Lisa Vanderpump. And it looks like we’ll be seeing more of James’ girlfriend Raquel and Stassi’s new man, who Bravo describes as “eccentric” in a press release accompanying the trailer. I cannot wait to find out what that means. But given that he utters the quote, “It’s like you dick-punched my heart!” in the clip below, I think he’ll fit in just fine.

Take a look, below:

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I am being 100% honest and transparent when I say that Pump Rules is, to me, the very best drama on television. The meltdowns are always epic, and that clip of Kristen falling over a table will become a GIF that I use endlessly. Even better than the fall? Lala’s response, “That’s SO trashy.”

But the season promises some serious stuff, too. Per Bravo’s press release, Katie “takes a stand for the women of SUR and delivers an ultimatum to Lisa that sends reverberations throughout the entire restaurant.” Meanwhile, Lala will be dealing with the sudden death of her father, and James seems to have one of his crying fits that is almost certainly due to him getting fired from his DJ gig at S.U.R…again. As for Scheana, her “obsession” with the restaurant’s newest employee gets the gossip mill going that she hasn’t changed at all when it comes to relationships. In other news, Ariana and Tom are battling—oh, and we might be getting a villainous Kristen back when she drops an “explosive rumor about James” that will affect the entire group.

Bring. It. On. The new season starts on December 3 at 9 PM ET. Until then, we’ll be watching the preview above on a loop.

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Betsy DeVos' New Campus Sexual Misconduct Rules Protect The Accused


New policies that activists against sexual misconduct say will make it easier for colleges and universities to protect themselves in cases of campus sexual assault are set to be proposed by Secretary of Education Betsy DeVos, according to a New York Times report.

Most alarming, critics point out, the changes to federal policy on campus sexual misconduct will bolster the rights of the accused. The rules, obtained by the Times, would also encourage schools to provide more support for victims, but considering DeVos’ track record with education policy—especially when it comes to rolling back protections for victims of sexual assault and harassment—that’s not exactly confidence-inspiring.

This isn’t DeVos’ first go at tackling sexual assault on campus—the new Trump administration rules are a continuation of changes she announced last September that ended Obama-era Title IX guidelines that protected survivors. And while the new proposals will keep much of Title IX—the 1972 federal law banning sex-based discrimination at schools receiving federal funding—intact, it will redefine sexual harassment in schools and how institutions address incidents and allegations, the Times reports.

Here’s a quick breakdown of how DeVos and her team have addressed sexual assault on campuses so far.

DeVos quickly got rid of Obama-era rules and guideline:

In September of 2017, DeVos threw out a number of policies put into place by President Barack Obama’s administration. One key piece was the 2011 “Dear Colleagues Letter,” a comprehensive directive on how schools receiving federal funding should handle sexual violence on campus—everything from evidence-gathering protocol to how quickly cases should be investigated.

Many on the left—including California Senator Kamala Harris— argued that the decision would make it harder for assault victims to come forward.

“Every day on campus I see hundreds of women who have been sexually assaulted at least once, and 63 percent of sexual assaults are not reported to the police, according to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center,” Missouri State University student Hope Burnette told Glamour in September after the announcement.

“This is only going to weaken what little voice we already feel we have against those who have assaulted us, and give strength to those who still believe that ‘boys will be boys’ is a valid argument for groping a woman without her permission.”

The Department of Education has been criticized for valuing the accused over victims:

Some DeVos staffers are on the record saying some pretty problematic things about sexual misconduct. Candice Jackson, in her role as head of the Education Department’s Office for Civil Rights told the New York Times last July that investigative processes are not “fairly balanced between the accusing victim and the accused student.”

“Rather, the accusations — 90 percent of them — fall into the category of ‘we were both drunk,’ ‘we broke up, and six months later I found myself under a Title IX investigation because she just decided that our last sleeping together was not quite right,'” she said, according to the Times.

She later issued a statement in an attempt to clarify, saying that her opinion was based on feedback from cases involving accused students, and even if complaints don’t allege violence, “all sexual harassment and sexual assault must be taken seriously.”

Democratic attorneys general have long taken issue with DeVos’ possible policy changes:

Twenty Democratic attorneys general were so concerned about DeVos rolling back Obama-era Title IX guidelines that they sent the education secretary a letter outlining what they saw as major issues with her plan. “While we recognize that there is a great deal more that can be done to protect students and agree on the importance of ensuring that investigations are conducted fairly, a rushed, poorly-considered effort to roll back current policies sends precisely the wrong message to all students,” they wrote.

“Yet there is every indication that is exactly the approach your Department is taking.”

DeVos wants to narrow the definition of “sexual harassment:”

This latest round of proposed rules would adjust the definition of sexual harassment and only hold the schools accountable for formal complaints made to the proper authorities. (For example, a resident advisor would not count as a proper authority.) According to the Times, sexual harassment would be defined as “unwelcome conduct on the basis of sex that is so severe, pervasive and objectively offensive that it denies a person access to the school’s education program or activity.”

By comparison, Obama-era guidelines (which she killed in 2017) used a more broad definition of “unwelcome conduct of a sexual nature,” that includes “unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal, nonverbal, or physical conduct of a sexual nature.”

There will also be changes to how investigations are conducted—and that will impact victims:

There are also new proposed guidelines about how investigations are to be conducted.

“And, for the first time, the administration explicitly says that just as an institution’s treatment of a complainant could constitute sex discrimination, so would the treatment of the accused,” the Times writes. This is where the accused stand to hold more power.

“The 2011 and 2014 guidance documents may have been well-intentioned, but those documents have led to the deprivation of rights for many students—both accused students denied fair process and victims denied an adequate resolution of their complaints,” Candice Jackson, the Department of Education’s acting assistant secretary for civil rights, wrote at the time of the rollbacks.

In addition, the rules will still employ DeVos’ policy of using mediation to reach resolutions, meaning the accused can cross-examine the victim. These latest changes as outlined in the Times would appear to be one of the final steps in a year-long endeavor by DeVos’ Education Department to do away with Obama-era guidelines.

However, Liz Hill, an Education Department spokeswoman, says the Times‘ report “is premature and speculative, and therefore, we have no comment.”

Response on social media was still swift and damning—with many remarking on the fact that President Donald Trump himself has been accused of sexual misconduct by a number of women.

Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand (D-N.Y.) offered perhaps the harshest critique.

“When has @BetsyDeVosED ever stood with anyone but the powerful? She sides with for-profit colleges over students, lenders over borrowers and predators over survivors,” she tweeted.

“At every turn, she betrays her responsibility to the students she’s meant to serve. It’s sickening.”

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Meghan Markle Is Reportedly Finding Some Royal Rules 'A Little Frustrating'


According to a new report from People magazine, Meghan Markle is reportedly having a bit of trouble getting used to all the nit-picky ins and outs of royal etiquette now that she’s officially the Duchess of Sussex.

In this week’s issue of People, a royal “source” says Markle has reportedly “found certain rules in the royal household difficult to understand, like the fact that the queen prefers women in dresses or skirts rather than trouser suits, and is often asking Harry why things have to be done in a certain way.” The insider added, “I think she finds it a little frustrating at times, but this is her new life, and she has to deal with it.”

Markle hasn’t exactly put away all her pants for good. She wore a black Givenchy pantsuit while on her royal tour of Ireland with Prince Harry last week and, just this past weekend, opted for Ralph Lauren trousers while attending the Ladies’ Singles Final at Wimbledon with sister-in-law Kate Middleton. However, she does appear to be following the “rules” and only wears dresses and skirts when she’s in the presence of the queen.

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Additionally, as royal photographer Mark Stewart told People, Markle has her husband to rely on to help her with tricky royal etiquette. “You can see Prince Harry’s hands-on approach, steering her, helping her,” Stewart said. For example, when the couple joined the rest of the royal family in attending the Trooping the Colour celebration in June, Prince Harry could be seen telling Markle when to curtsy. At the same event, lip readers noticed that, at one point, Prince Harry also checked in on Markle, asking if she was “okay,” as he’s sweetly done several times before.

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Moms Running For Congress Can Use Campaign Funds for Childcare, FEC Rules


A snippet of video on Twitter suggests Liuba Grechen Shirley’s kids had a pretty good time at Thursday’s Federal Election Commission hearing.

Their mom, though, may just have had a better one: In a groundbreaking unanimous decision, the commissioners of the FEC ruled Grechen Shirley can use campaign funds to defray the costs of child care as she pursues her run for a New York congressional seat.

“The ruling came in just in time for Mother’s Day, which is pretty incredible,” the Long Island Democrat told reporters on a conference call following the hearing.

“I will now be the first woman to ever spend federal campaign dollars that I am raising on a babysitter. And I’m hoping that I’ll be just the first,” she added. “I’m hoping that this decision inspires thousands of women — and fathers, parents of young children — to run.”

Grechen Shirley, a community activist, is the 36-year-old mother of two — Nicholas, 2, and Mila, 3. She says she now pays a sitter $22 an hour to watch the children during an approximately 20-hour work week.

If she wins, she’ll become part a very small group of congresswomen who balance their public office with being moms to very young children. First, of course, the consultant would have to defeat both a Democratic primary opponent, DuWayne Gregory — who has objected to her FEC request — and incumbent Republican Rep. Peter King.

Grechen Shirley says she thought hard about undertaking the race at all considering how young her kids are, but in the end, she had some A-list support for her push to use campaign cash to underwrite her childcare.

In April, Hillary Clinton’s lawyers wrote a letter arguing in the candidate’s favor. They noted that the childcare expenses existed specifically as a result of the Long Islander’s run for office; she had looked after them herself before launching a “rigorous campaign schedule.”

And in May, 24 members of Congress — women and men — signed a letter backing Grechen Shirley’s FEC request.

“Women and working parents face many barriers in running for public office, including meeting childcare obligations during campaigns that require frequent travel and evening and weekend events,” the lawmakers wrote. “As we work to build a political environment that is fair to candidates of all backgrounds, the Commission has a role to play in fairly enforcing and administering federal campaign finance laws.”

In addition, the campaign said more than 2,300 people nationwide signed a petition on Grechen Shirley’s behalf.

“It’s a groundbreaking decision that will remove a major financial obstacle for working families and mothers at a time when women are increasingly considering elected office,” Grechen Shirley said on the call.

The candidate said she hoped the ruling, which applies to political hopefuls who specifically incur babysitting costs as a result of embarking on a campaign, would foster more socioeconomic diversity among the ranks of future candidates.

Right now, she said, women candidates — who traditionally take a lot of convincing to get into the fray — are often inclined to put off a bid for office until their children are out of school: “We desperately need working women in Congress who understand firsthand what it’s like to balance a checkbook while raising children,” she said.

“We’re missing that critical voice.”

FEC Commissioner Ellen Weintraub echoed those sentiments, tweeting that she was glad to be part of the decision and predicted it would “expand – and diversify – the pool of people who will be able to run for federal office.”

At the same time, the FEC made clear that the decision still sets limits on how campaign cash can be spent.

Even as she savored the FEC victory, Grechen Shirley allowed that running for the House as the mom of toddlers is definitely no game of pattycake, even with help.

“It is definitely a struggle. It’s a juggling act every day,” she said.

“I take conference calls while nursing my son, while my daughter is running around and playing,” she said.

“I was there this morning to testify in front of the FEC with both of them, and they were running around and, you know, being chased by monsters,” she said of her two young charges. “Running for Congress with two small children, it’s become a family affair.”





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