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15 Porn Sites for Women That You'll Really, Really Enjoy


There’s no shortage of porn on the Internet but it’s hard to find something you actually want to watch. On a lot of free sites, it often feels like you have to wade through video after video (and pop-up after pop-up) of people degrading, insulting, and violating women before you can find decent porn sites for women. Given what a task that is, it’s no wonder more men than women still watch porn. But this is changing, thanks to the rise of porn for women. Finding hot masturbation material should not come at the cost of feeling like an object (unless that is specifically what you’re looking for—and even then it can be done in a feminist way).

Much of the best porn for women isn’t free, but a lot of free porn isn’t produced ethically. Paying for porn is not only going to be safer for your computer, but it makes the entire industry more female-friendly for the performers and the viewers.

Here are some porn sites to check out if you’re looking for female empowerment, mutually respectful sex, and lots of content to help get you off:

Cindy Gallop created this site to show real sex among real people, not actors doing things that don’t represent how sex happens IRL. Couples submit videos of themselves having sex, which you can rent for $5, and half of the money will go to the stars themselves. “We are not porn—porn is performance (often an exceedingly delicious performance, but a performance nonetheless),” its website reads. “We are not ‘amateur’—a label that implies that the only people doing it right are the professionals and the rest of us are bumbling idiots. (Honey, please.)” We love that attitude. And these vids.

This award-winning queer porn site provides “real dyke porn, lesbians, femme on femme, boi, stud, genderqueer and trans-masculine performers, transwomen, transmen, queer men and women engaging in authentic queer sexuality, whether it is with safer sex, strap-on sex, cocksucking, kink and BDSM, gender play and fluidity, and always authentic orgasms.” You can become a member (which lets you stream all the videos) for $9.99 to $25 a month.

Erika Lust, a filmmaker who explained why porn can be feminist in this great TED Talk, gives us porn videos—made largely by female directors—that show all of the passion, “intimacy, love, and lust in sex,” where “the feminine viewpoint is vital, the aesthetic is a pleasure to all of the senses, and eroticism and innovation are celebrated.” She also accepts viewer “confessions,” which she turns into videos for her XConfessions series. You can watch Lust’s work for $16.66 to $34.95 a month.

Instead of your standard video format, this site features GIFs for quick, free consumption of “palpable desire, unbridled passion, and body-positive eroticism.” It also offers sex-toy reviews, a NSFW coloring book, and other resources from sex educator Elle Chase.

The “female-friendly” sections of mainstream porn sites are often just proof of how low our standards are. Anything where a woman feels a modicum of genuine pleasure tends to get categorized this way, even when the images overall are clearly geared toward straight men. But Dane Jones’ videos are some of the best options you’ll find under this category. They’re sensual, romantic, and focused on the women involved (though they tend to have shots that linger on men’s bodies as well). You can become a member for around $20 to $30 a month, but many videos are free.

The women-run Indie Porn Revolution—formerly known as nofauxxx.com—is committed to involving a diverse array of actors, showing safe sex (a rarity in porn), and casting frequently typecast people in non-stereotypical roles. Membership is $16.67 to $20 a month.

“Ms Naughty,” the filmmaker behind this production company, calls it, “a deliberate attempt to show all the good stuff that we love about sex—intimacy, laughter, connection, and real pleasure.” The videos feature the silly, awkward side of sex as well as the hot and steamy side. The camera zooms in on men just as much as it does on women, and the scenes focus on the buildup of sexual tension couples experience before sex, so you can feel the heat rising. To see beyond the previews, you have to pay $28.22 for the first month and then $12.24 a month after that.

Listen to enough fake porn moans and you can start to wonder what real people actually sound like when they’re masturbating or having sex. Fortunately, this site clears all that up. For no cost at all, you can listen to dozens of audio recordings of masturbation sessions. Some include dirty talk aimed at pleasing the listener, and others include entertaining attempts to count backward from 100 to 0.

The feminist sex-toy store Good Vibrations makes an effort to cater to women’s diverse desires, and its video collection is no exception. You can search specifically for feminist porn, women-directed films, and even sex-ed guides—something very needed in a world where way too many people learn everything they know from some pretty unrealistic porn. You can pay per minute or rent each video for $5 to $10.

At Bellesa, women can easily access sexual content that is true to how they see themselves—as subjects of pleasure, not objects of conquest. It’s not just about the porn, though. They’re a platform that is aimed at helping women fulfill their desires, share intimate and erotic stories, and even engage in a community with other like-minded women looking to freely express their sexuality on the internet. If you’re looking to try your hand at erotica stories, you can submit your content here, or you can simply browse through their women-friendly porn, whether you’re looking for something sensual, passionate or, dare we say, even a little rough.

This female-founded app is that is aimed at creating elevated feminist audio—think: Audible for erotica—that allows you to find a sexy story for whatever situation you’re in. You can search for audio porn to listen to alone in bed for a solo session; stories perfect to listen to before a date to get you into a flirty headspace; even erotic stories appropriate for listening to on your commute home to help you switch off from a day at the office. Dipsea’s stories feature a broad range of preferences, perspectives and interests—and they’re fun, safe, and full of enthusiastic content that prioritizes female pleasure. You can subscribe for $47.99 per year—which is less than $4 a month.

Sexuality is a spectrum, and the best porn should reflect that. SPIT’s queer porn collection nails it on two levels, showcasing different types of content—videos, photos, and erotica—which showcase a variety of experiences. Their content is developed ethically and the company is dedicated to creating consensual, equitable, and intersectional feminist spaces in the sex industry. That’s definitely a great reason to join for $19.65 per month.

Reddit isn’t always the friendliest place for women, but on the r/chickfixxx subreddit you can women posting their favorite female-friendly X-rated videos. You can even make requests—if your tastes are more specific or you’re looking for a particular kind of video, it may just be easier to ask your fellow sexperts here instead of browsing for hours. You are most definitely welcome.

For porn on the artistic side (yes, it’s a thing and it’s great), check out the photography, and short films on A Four Chambered Heart. Unsurprisingly, some of the stills are pretty enough to hang up on your walls — if you’re not too busy getting off to them, that is.

Images and audio are great but sometimes there’s nothing better than reading some good old fashioned erotica. Literotica isn’t your grandma’s scandalous paperback, however. The free resource provides some of the hottest erotic fiction and fantasy on the internet from a variety of authors and points of view. Their standards for stories are high so you can be sure that the stories featured here are, ahem, quite useful.



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Why Revenge Porn Needs Its Own #MeToo Movement


Nude photos were posted of Leah Juliett on the Internet without their consent when they were 15. As #MeToo has cemented itself in the conversation around sexual safety, Juliett is calling for revenge porn to have a reckoning of its own.

I remember straddling the bathroom counter, attempting to capture the perfect shot of my young body to appease the boy I wanted to like me. I was gay. I was 14. I was in the closet. I was depressed. I wanted to be loved. At first, I refused his request for nude photos, but I felt an overwhelming pressure to satisfy his needs. After almost a year of being asked on and off—I caved. I sent him four nude photos. My life has never been the same.

Quickly after sending those photos, he lost interest in me. I started to come out as gay to my close friends, and I moved on with my life. But several months later, I was in science class when my lab partner pulled out his phone. “Everyone has seen your pictures,” he said—I thought he was attempting to be sympathetic. On his screen was my naked body. He told me that the photos had circulated within a group of boys who traded and collected naked photos of girls in the community, and were posted on a website called Anon-IB, which was seized in April by the Dutch police.

At the time, I was unaware that I had been victimized by revenge porn, the practice of strategically distributing sexual images with the intent to shame, humiliate, or harm a victim. In that moment, ownership of my body was stolen from me—and I feared I would never get it back. Despite attempts to have the images removed, they were consistently reposted. If there was a national movement that fought against the cyber-violence that I was enduring at the time, I would have felt far less alone in my experience. I would have never believed that my silence could be used as a bargaining chip against my shame.

In the past year, we’ve seen the moral arc of the universe of sexual violence slowly bend toward justice. The Me Too movement has created a platform for millions of survivors to tell their stories and seek retribution. Most recently, sexual predator Bill Cosby was convicted of three counts of aggravated indecent assault against Andrea Constand. And we can’t forget the wealth of other accounts coming out of Hollywood and other industries.

But the work is far from over and the conversation must continue to become more intersectional. As a survivor of revenge porn, I’ve felt left out of #MeToo: We’ve celebrated victim stories, but it still feels like we shame imperfect narratives of victimhood. Photos of my bare breasts and face reached the screens of boys at my high school and across the state, with the intent of exposing my nudity and shaming my body. Does that not make me worthy of justice like any other victim?

I’m not alone: Revenge porn is a form of sexual abuse that has exploited more than an estimated 10 million Internet users in the United States, per the Data & Research Institute. But still, victims are not protected under federal law. And we are certainly not protected in a culture that demands that we “don’t take nude photos in the first place.” Few of us have had our day in court.

“Photos of my bare breasts and face reached the screens of boys at my high school and across the state, with the intent of exposing my nudity and shaming my body. Does that not make me worthy of justice like any other victim?”

Relatedly, in 2014, there was a short-lived uproar after nude photos of Jennifer Lawrence, Kate Upton, and other celebrities surfaced on the Internet without their consent. The man who hacked their accounts, Edward Majerczyk, took a plea deal and was sentenced to nine months in prison and paid $5,700 in restitution. But I don’t think that was enough. The effects of such an invasion of privacy can last a lifetime. Just like with #MeToo, we need the same continued outspoken public advocacy for revenge porn—otherwise, we risk leaving out millions of victims of cyber sexual violence worldwide. It’s time to say #MeToo to revenge porn.

I graduated from my high school, but my nude photos remained online. I realized that this experience would either kill me or drive me into action. I started telling my story in public and made the decision to save my own life. In college, I came out as non-binary, and started using they/them/their pronouns. At the time, #MeToo did not exist to encourage me to speak up and fight against revenge porn. Perhaps if it had been, I would have spoken up earlier. Nevertheless, taking back my life on my own terms has allowed me to start my own movement—one that is intersectional and inclusive for all who have been victimized by cyber-harassment.

Two years ago, I started the March Against Revenge Porn, an internationally-acclaimed grass roots organization dedicated to combating revenge porn through federal lobbying, cyber-sex education, and a series of national protest marches. On April 1, 2017, we marched across the Brooklyn Bridge to protest New York City’s lack of comprehensive revenge porn legislation.

We march on. This month, we will march in the Boston Pride Parade to shed light on the disproportionate victimization of LGBTQ+ communities by revenge porn. Research from the Data & Research Institute says that 17 percent of all lesbian, gay, and bisexual Americans have been victimized by revenge porn—in comparison to only 3 percent of all heterosexual people.

And at the end of June, we will march in Pittsburgh, alongside anti-revenge porn groups BADASS and 50 Shades of Silence, to fight for federal revenge porn legislation protecting victims nationwide. Later this year, we plan to march at the University of Hawaii and hope to bring a march to Orlando.

The Me Too movement was born from the strength and courage of those who society has historically refused to hear. Since telling my story, I’ve been told that what happened to me was my fault. It’s easier for society to blame and silence me than to allow me to take up space. I am not a perfect victim. My story is tough to digest. I sent the photos that would eventually be used to exploit me. But I did not consent to be harassed, exposed, or publicly shamed. I refuse to silence the story of my suffering and hope that others will come forward and speak about their own experiences. We belong in this movement. We refuse to be invisible any longer. Through marching; through movement; through saying #MeToo: we demand to be seen.

Leah Juliett is a senior at Western Connecticut State University and a 2018 Glamour College Woman of the Year.



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My Boyfriend's Porn Habit Is Making Me Feel Insecure


Dear Emily,

I’m very educated about sexual health and open-minded sexually, but I have a hard time accepting my boyfriend’s porn habit. We have a great sex life and try new things, but he still watches porn. I can’t help wondering…aren’t I enough?
I’ve seen porn before, and I know most guys watch it, but I can’t help feeling a little insecure. Is he comparing me to these women? Is that how he wants me to act? It isn’t fair for me to ask him to stop, so how can I get used to it?
Please help!

Janine, 27, Iowa

Dear Janine,

It’s totally common to react to your partner’s porn habits with some insecurity. The good news is, your boyfriend’s porn consumption has nothing to do with his attraction to you or his feelings towards you.

Chances are, your man has been masturbating to porn for quite awhile, and the reason he’s watching isn’t because you don’t turn him on. Masturbation is a natural, healthy practice for men and women—regardless of their relationship status or sexual behavior IRL—and since men are more easily turned on by visual stimuli and variety, porn becomes the perfect avenue.

I love the fact that you are enjoying a great sex life with him, and I don’t expect you to immediately drop your insecurity with his porn preferences. Remember, it’s completely normal to feel that way. But, instead of seeing his porn consumption as competition, use it as a way to enhance your sex life.

Make his solo habit into a joint affair by watching porn together. Find something you both enjoy, and see how turned on you get. Porn might even turn from a problem to your favorite foreplay!

Not to mention, porn is the perfect icebreaker to bring up new things you want to try in bed. Does he want to tie you up? Do you want him to talk dirty? Maybe there’s a role-play scenario that really gets you both going. Putting your desires out on the table can help both of you have the sex you want and maybe make a few fantasies come true—something a pornstar could never do.

XX,
Emily

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Free Porn Is Probably Not Feminist Porn—No Matter What It Looks Like

11 Women Reveal Their Porn Preferences

Paying for Porn Is the Feminist Way to Get Off



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Bella Thorne Wore a Suit Covered in Porn to the 'Babysitter' Premiere


PHOTO: Jason LaVeris/Getty Images

Bella Thorne has a history of bold fashion choices that are also slightly confusing. Case in point: The time she got a tiny tattoo that said “93,” which everyone thought was her birth year until we realized she was actually born in 1997. (Never mind the fact that people born in 1997 are 20 now, which makes me want to go back to bedazzling my Life Alert necklace.) And then there was the time she wore a fishnet catsuit with pasties underneath (and then awesomely told any haters to, kindly, show themselves out). And we could never forget when she wore a necklace that everyone thought said “Allah” before she clarified that it actually said “Slut.” She’s a free spirit who really, truly does not care what anyone thinks of her.

But the look she wore to the L.A. premiere of her new Netflix movie The Babysitter on Wednesday might be the most subtly vexing look we’ve seen yet. At first glance, it appears she’s just rocking a bold suit with arm slits and a newspaper print. Of course, she looks awesome in it—edgy with the braless look but still polished, with hints of red silk lining that add a dash of punk attitude. But that’s not the most remarkable part of this outfit.

Take a closer look at what’s printed on said suit:

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Closer than that…

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Closer…

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That’s right: The suit’s print is made of old-school porn clips. “Massive Tits,” reads her lapel. “Whores!” shrieks her shoulder. “Nasty & Horny Sluts,” a spot by her ribs whispers demurely. It’s very Vivienne Westwood, but porn? Or, like, porn, but make it fashion? Either way, she’s somehow made repeated use of the phrase “Free Sex” not look like smut.

So could the X-rated, blink-and-you’ll-miss-it detail be a sly nod to the people who’ve commented on her sexuality in the past? Could be. Plus, Bella’s no stranger to toxic slut-shaming on the internet, which she’s bravely called people out for before. It’s entirely possible this ensemble choice was a cheeky way to show that she, rightfully, plans to continue ignoring them.

But regardless of the why, let’s just take a moment to appreciate this provocative, badass move by an actress who loves to make people think. Namaste, haters.

Related: Bella Thorne’s Epic Response to a Troll Who Told Her to Shave Her Legs



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Free Porn Is Probably Not Feminist Porn—No Matter What It Looks Like


The concept of feminist porn—that is, adult entertainment that’s ethical and non-exploitative while still being hot—has been gaining traction. Because more women are willing to spend money on porn they like, more porn for women can be made, and as a result, a crop of great, feminist sites are popping up and enjoying newfound popularity. Which is why we were excited when, on February 15 of this year, a new website called Bellesa was launched. The site’s account tweeted: “We’re turning one of the most misogynistic industries in the world on its head,” and in a YouTube video created for the occasion, the site’s founder, Michelle Shnaidman, hypothesized, “If we could change the type of sex that people are watching, maybe we can change a whole lot more.” Bellesa called itself, “A platform on which women are empowered to celebrate their sexuality,” and began allowing its primarily-female users to upload content that turned them on—articles, sexy stories, hot photos, and pornographic videos—and share it in a supportive community of like-minded individuals.

Which all sounded great! But apparently, the key to this empowerment-studded shakeup of the status quo involved working around what Bustle called the “pesky paywall” problem. Bellessa “found a way to bring women porn they’ll actually enjoy without draining their bank accounts.” Unfortunately, what’s being described sounds a whole lot like piracy.

Schnaidman said that after finding lots of sexist and male-oriented porn online, Bellesa’s goal was to “help improve on the gender disparity in the industry.” A noble cause, except for one important detail: Bellesa didn’t actually connect itself to the industry. In fact, despite claims that the Bellesa team did “extensive research” on the industry, very few actual content creators were even aware of the site until last week, when they read an effusive article about it.

And they were not happy.

These videos cost money to make, but were pirated and posted online without paying the people who made them.

Bellesa had concerned itself exclusively with providing a female-friendly porn viewing experience for its users. In so doing, it had ignored the people who made the porn videos that were the backbone of the site. These videos cost money to make, but were pirated and posted online without paying—or even acknowledging—the people who made them.

Porn performers, directors, and fans were quick to point out this hole in the site’s feminist reasoning on Twitter, as well as in a number of articles scattered around all over the internet.
Genderqueer performer and industry stalwart Jiz Lee tweeted, “Stealing porn empowers no one. And to pirate specifically from female producers in the branding of ‘porn for women’…Shame on @BellesaCo.”

By September 21, Bellesa had taken down the video and pictures segments of the website and issued a somewhat confused-sounding apology:

What everyone has written on Twitter and sent to our inbox was
heard—loud and clear. I am sorry. I am sorry to those who feel like
Belessa [sic] disempowered them, disrespected them, or placed our
interests above theirs…I am making a firm commitment, right now, to
transition the entirety of the video section of Bellesa to feature
exclusively videos that are in direct partnership with studios, and
that compensate all fairly for their contribution.

Industry insiders were glad to see the pirated content taken down, particularly after such a rare show of solidarity from industry ranks. “I think they underestimated the power of our community, and I think that this is a great teachable moment for not only companies that try to do this to us but also for content producers and performers,” says jessica drake, a contracted star for Wicked Pictures who has performed, written, directed, and produced dozens of adult films. “I’d love to see greater efforts in the future from our industry coming together to let the public know that theft is not acceptable.”

“Porn is entertainment. It is a product, a commodity. It is not free to produce, it is not free to consume.”

Some in the porn industry have offered to work with Bellesa—as long as they’re being fairly compensated for their work. The truth is, free porn is a sad but nearly unavoidable fact for today’s porn-makers, and Bellesa was just one of thousands of websites that allow users to upload pirated porn (Pornhub, YouPorn, xHamster, and Spankbang are a few examples). Partnerships, ad shares, and other arrangements have become a common way for both free streaming tube sites and porn makers to turn a buck. But it’s important to note that many feminist and other ethical porn makers who produce content with non-male audiences in mind choose not to partner with free porn streaming sites, since many allow stolen content. The fact that Bellesa sold itself as a feminist entity while blatantly stealing the fruits of female labor and profiting from them made this free porn site a particularly gross offender.

Kim Cums, an Australian porn performer and producer, who was one of the first to call Bellesa out on Twitter, says, “What Shnaidman did was create a feminist-looking website, but the supporting structure had no ethical foundation.”

But the controversy around Bellesa embodies an ideological misstep that goes beyond porn—one that plenty of companies of all kinds have attempted to capitalize on by declaring themselves “feminist” and then failing to show receipts. One of feminism’s fundamental tenets is that women should be paid fairly for their labor. Sex-positive feminism posits that women (and others) be compensated just as fairly for their sexual labor as anyone else. That’s why watching that content for free, without permission, is actually explicitly un-feminist.

“Paying for porn means you’re supporting the performers.”

Kayden Kross, an adult performer and the co-founder of ethical porn company TRENCHCOATx, said that Bellesa’s acceptance of piracy was “[the] most unethical thing you can do to a content creator while throwing around the buzzwords that appeal to the very consumers looking for businesses that factor ethics into the equation.” By stealing work that Kross poured months of work and a lot of money into, Shnaidman “picked up something she has no right to and asked other people to give her the money for it instead of me. She has decided, effectively, that I will work for her for free and against my consent.”

It’s behavior that also plays into the insidious and widespread idea that sex work doesn’t deserve fair compensation. “We have been so conditioned to see porn as a boogeyman threatening our public health and relationships that people forget to see porn as a neutral media entity: as content that is produced by humans, that involves human labor,” says Tina Horn, host and producer of the sexuality podcast Why Are People Into That?! and two-time Feminist Porn Award–winning adult filmmaker and producer.

“The progression and widespread acceptance of piracy is due in large part to society’s collective opinion that adult entertainment is not a ‘legitimate’ business, regardless of the same society’s rampant consumption of adult content,” says jessica drake. “Porn is entertainment. It is a product, a commodity. It is not free to produce, it is not free to consume.”

Meanwhile, “Paying for porn means you’re supporting the performers,” says Ms. Naughty, an Australian feminist porn producer. “You’re contributing to a model that ensures they’re paid properly for their work—because sex work is work.”
The takeaway here is simple: You can’t call yourself a feminist if you’re stealing porn from the women (and others) who make it. Porn workers—from performers to producers to marketers to camera operators to editors—have lost a lot because of free sites. “These are real people who work real jobs to support their families, and pay taxes,” says jessica drake. “In my years in the business, I have watched as very popular companies have fallen by the wayside, not having the means to combat piracy fast enough.”

Angie Rowntree, the founder of one of the oldest porn sites for women, Sssh.com, continues drake’s thought: “Every time one of our movies is compromised it hurts all of us,” she says. “Nothing in life occurs without cost. By not paying for porn, the public is contributing to the decimation of ethical standards in our industry and in wider society overall.”

So buy your porn! If you’re interested in watching amazing feminist adult entertainment—and contributing to its continued production—here are 17 great pay sites you can check out right now:

  1. BrightDesire.com

  2. PornforWomen.tv

  3. PinkLabel.tv

  4. CrashPadSeries.com

  5. Sssh.com

  6. TRENCHCOATx.com

  7. AORTA Films

  8. A Four-Chambered Heart

  9. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

  10. Blue Artichoke Films

  11. Lust Cinema

  12. xConfessions

  13. Permission4Pleasure

  14. JoyBear Pictures

  15. Sweet Sinner

  16. PetraJoyVOD.com

  17. Foxhouse Films



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Why Did This Prestigious Porn Award Show Take Away Its Plus-Size Category?


Conversations about body positivity might be at an all-time high right now, with plus-size women and men talking, writing, and making art about their experiences and challenges. One struggle in particular concerns the ways plus-size people—and women in particular—often have trouble being accepted and accepting themselves as sexual and desirable in a culture that far too often ignores, dismisses, or even ridicules anyone who diverges from the status quo. That’s one reason why pornography that features plus-size performers—and the way it’s treated by its industry—is important: It’s providing visual proof (in an extremely popular form of media, no less) that any size can be sexy for the billions of porn fans around the world.

In the past few years, searches for what’s called “BBW” (that’s Big, Beautiful Women) porn on Pornhub have skyrocketed by nearly 50 percent. Combined with the BBW Performer of the Year award instituted a few years ago from the porn industry’s most prestigious award-granting organization, Adult Video News, visibility for plus-size sexuality seemed secure.

But then, on September 4, 2017, AVN announced that it was removing the BBW Performer of the Year category from the 2018 AVN Awards, considered “the Oscars of porn.” In its place, AVN was introducing an award for “Niche Performer of the Year, to honor men and women who appear primarily in fetish-themed productions, including those in the BBW, BDSM, mature, and other specialized genres.”

Were plus-size performers being discriminated against by the porn powers that be? Or were there more mundane reasons for AVN’s decision?

For their part, many BBW performers felt ignored and angry. Alexxxis Allure tweeted, “#BBW performers are not a fetish. We are valid, successful performers who deserve our own awards category.” Others in the industry joined in with cries of fatphobia, even threatening picket lines, boycotts, and sit-ins to protest the move.

April Flores, a two-time recipient of the award in question, lamented that she was “heartbroken to see that @AVN got rid of the #BBW award. This not only sucks for fat performers who deserve recognition, but also for the women who look like us & positively benefit from representation of a sexual fat woman in media.”

Porn featuring plus-size models has always been a part of the adult entertainment industry. For decades, though, it was considered a fringe element, often relying on derogatory stereotypes. Words like pig and whale were used, along with themes revolving around food. But even with its “niche” status, BBW porn has always attracted a group of loyal fans who are willing to pay for what they want to see.

But despite its apparent popularity, back in the early 2010s, there were just a few porn studios dedicated to BBW content, like the Score Group, and several popular companies, like Zero Tolerance and Red Light District (now defunct), that released only one BBW title a year. There was far more fetish material being produced with plus-size models, featuring nonsex acts like gaining (feeding another person for sexual gratification), sploshing (when someone sits on food), and squashing (when a BBW sits on or “squashes” another person) being made by small companies and individuals. And none of that work was getting the recognition that performers wanted.

So some BBW performers and content makers decided to do something about it. “We went to AVN on our own,” says Kelly Shibari, one of the performers active in the process. “We said, ‘OK, what do you need from us to make this category happen? We will make it.’ We were all told that more DVDs, with more variety, from more studios equals an [AVN award] category. So we said, ‘OK, now that we know that, we’ll do that.’” And they did.

BBW performers like Shibari, April Flores, and others, along with directors, producers, distributors, and marketers, started focusing on creating more mainstream porn that featured plus-size women looking glamorous and having hot sex, as opposed to engaging in nonsex fetish activities.

As they were working toward greater recognition in explicit entertainment, mainstream pop culture was exploring body acceptance too. Melissa McCarthy was killing it in Hollywood blockbusters, Inside Amy Schumer was earning accolades (and criticism) on Comedy Central, plus-size model Tess Holiday was beginning to make waves in the fashion world, and the discussion about size positivity was taking off.

So when AVN announced that it was instituting the BBW Performer of the Year category in 2014, it was welcomed as another feather in the cap of women who weren’t made in the size-zero mold, for whom sexuality had long been a fraught topic.

In the years since, that visibility has only increased. Pornhub declared 2015 “a major year for body positivity” when it revealed that searches for BBW had steadily risen from 2013 to 2015. Alex Hawkins, spokesperson for porn streaming site xHamster, tells me that the United States is currently the top consumer of BBW porn in the world. “XHamster loves its Big, Beautiful Women!” he says. Meanwhile, New York Fashion Week 2017 just concluded, with bodies of all sizes on display across numerous runways.

So then, amid all this forward momentum, why did the most prestigious organization in porn seem to turn its back on its plus-size models?

According to AVN, it wasn’t personal—it was just the rules. “DVD production in the BBW niche has steadily declined,” says Sharan Street, an editor at AVN. And DVDs are important to the nomination and selection process.

In fact, AVN later wrote on its website: “The BBW Performer of the Year category [was eliminated] due to a continuing decline in DVD content featuring BBW performers.” There are more performers now than ever, and more ways for them to release their content. But there are fewer BBW porn companies releasing DVDs—not to mention that most BBW models are now producing their own content online, for membership websites, clip stores, and webcams. That’s a great workaround for a lack of opportunities offered by mainstream porn companies, but it doesn’t make them contenders for AVN’s most prestigious caste of awards.

Furthermore, the material they’re making doesn’t necessarily qualify as porn to AVN. “The majority of BBW content on the Internet right now is fetish content,” says Kelly Shibari. “It’s feeding, it’s gaining, it’s face-sitting, it’s squashing. It’s anything but standard boy-girl sex, which is what AVN considers porn to be.”

Still, the work of BBW porn makers is by no means abandoned. The plus-size genre is recognized by several other award-granting entities in the porn industry, aside from AVN. The Nightmoves Awards have been presented since 1986, and will be awarding its fifth Best BBW Performer on October 8. The Biggie Awards, in conjunction with BBWcon, have been recognizing the work of BBW fans for three years now. And the BBW Awards Show has just been scheduled for the week before the AVN Awards in Las Vegas, organized by BBW performer Eliza Allure, where she promises to be “100 percent transparent with this awards show and give the award [for] whom the fans vote.”

And there’s still that Niche Performer of the Year award that AVN has added. Sharan Street says, “We are sympathetic that some plus-size performers are not pleased that BBW performers’ body of work will now be considered in a category titled Niche Performer of the Year, but the opportunity is still there for their body of work to be recognized in that category,” along with other fetish, BDSM, and specialty performers.

For those who are holding out for their moment to shine with an AVN BBW Performer of the Year award, there’s still hope. “While there might not be a BBW Performer of the Year category this year, that’s not to say it will never return,” says Street. “The adult industry is always changing, as are the performers, the types of content, and the way that content is delivered to consumers. We at AVN will continue to stay on top of trends and ensure the AVN Awards adapt as the industry does.”

But there’s work to be done. The category may be brought back if BBW performers, producers, distributors, marketers, and fans focus on meeting the requirements that AVN sets forth. “If you don’t do certain things, you don’t have a category. That’s all there is to it,” says Kelly Shibari.

In the meantime, AVN has been listening to BBW performers who feel abandoned. On September 14 it announced that, after hearing performers’ complaints, it had decided to institute a Favorite BBW Performer award in 2018. “Such a category,” read the announcement, “would give these performers—who are less active in DVD productions than on clip stores and cam sites—the chance to be celebrated by their fans.”

While a fan award may not be as prestigious as a Performer of the Year, it gives more opportunities for recognition. As does the fact that “scene categories are now open to content from membership sites, which should afford [these performers] a better chance to have their work recognized,” according to Street.



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