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Comedian Nikki Glaser Apologizes to Taylor Swift for Body Shaming Comment


Taylor Swift’s long-anticipated documentary Miss Americana dropped on Netflix Friday, and several moments center around how the pop star has been portrayed in the media. One segment includes a few public figures saying unflattering things about the singer, including comedian Nikki Glaser, who joked about how Swift is “too skinny.” In an Instagram post on Friday, Glaser wrote out a long apology to Swift and explained that her comment was “an example of ‘projection’.”

The post includes a photo of Glaser who explains how big of a Swift fan she is. She also penned how hard it was to watch her joke play out in the film. “I love Taylor Swift. Unfortunately, I am featured in her new documentary as part of a montage of asshats saying mean things about her, which is used to explain why she felt the need to escape from the spotlight for a year,” she wrote. ” It’s insanely ironic because anyone who knows me knows I’m obnoxiously obsessed with her and her music.”

She continued, “I first heard myself in the trailer last week as I watched it alone in bed (as soon as it came out bc I was so excited!) and I was horrified to hear my own voice. The sound bite was from an interview I did 5 years ago and I say in SUCH a shitty tone, ‘she’s too skinny; it bothers me… all of her model friends, and it’s just like, c’mon! This quote should be used as an example of ‘projection’ in PSYCH101 textbooks. If you’re familiar with my ‘work’ at all, you know I talk openly about battling some kind of eating disorder for the past 17 years. I was probably ‘feeling fat’ that day and was jealous. Also, I’ve had people say the same shit about me being too skinny before and know how terrible it feels to hear that when you’re struggling. And I was only bothered by her model friends because I’d like to be her friend and I’m not a model.”

“I really have no need to post this other than to apologize to someone who seriously means SO much to me,” she added.

For Swift, it all seems to be water under the bridge. She commented on Glaser’s post shortly after, saying how grateful she was for her apology. “I appreciate this so much and one of the major themes about the doc is that we have the ability to change our opinions over time, to grow, to learn about ourselves,” she said. “I’m so sorry to hear that you’ve struggled with some of the same things I’ve struggled with. Sending a massive hug.



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Actress Nikki Reed Gets Real About Breastfeeding Her 20-Month Old Daughter


Actress Nikki Reed welcomed her first child—a daughter named Bodhi Soleil Reed Somerhalder—with husband Ian Somerhalder in July of 2017 and she’s been sharing motherhood moments on social media and beyond ever since. (Or at least since the couple unplugged for a month after Bodhi’s birth.) Like when she praised her husband for carrying around her breast pump at the Golden Globes.

Now, Reed is opening up about the fact that she is still breastfeeding her now 20-month old. “I often get asked how long I plan on breastfeeding. To be honest, I have no idea how long her and I will be on this journey together,” she wrote on Instagram, alongside a sweet photo of her feeding Bodhi. ” I follow her lead, and she tells me exactly what she needs. At 20 months she is only just becoming interested in food.”

Breastfeeding, sadly, can still be a contentious subject—one which people, both mothers and those who are not mothers, have a lot of opinions about. While Reed goes on to talk about her own experience with her daughter and blended baby foods (she says Bodhi did not like them) before deciding to skip to finger foods, she isn’t preaching or screaming about what she thinks everyone else should be doing. She is simply sharing her own story—and that’s great and, frankly, refreshing.

“Right now thats where were [sic] at, still breastfeeding and skipping right to finger foods,” she continues. “Also, in case you need to hear it again because I definitely did, whatever you’re doing you are doing it right! Every baby is on their own path doing things when and how they need to, and our job is to trust our gut, talk to other mamas and just go with the flow!”

Less judgment and more sharing when it comes to breastfeeding sounds like a great plan to us.

Check out Reed’s full post below:



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Nikki Haley Says Trump's Accusers Should Be Heard


It was roughly six weeks ago that the White House dismissed the numerous women who have accused President Donald Trump of sexual harassment and assault as “fake news” and stated plainly that they were not to be believed. For the many women who’ve found a voice with the #MeToo movement, this was incredibly frustrating to hear. But U.S. Ambassador to the United Nations Nikki Haley broke from the administration’s messaging during her appearance on CBS’ Face the Nation Sunday morning to say that the President’s accusers should be heard.

“You know, I am incredibly proud of the women who have come forward,” she said. “I’m proud of their strength; I’m proud of their courage; and I think that the idea that this is happening, I think it will start to bring a conscience to this situation—not just in politics but in, you know, we’ve seen in Hollywood and in every industry, and I think the time has come.”

Face the Nation host John Dickerson then asked her how people should “assess the accusers of the President”—and her answer might be surprising to those used to hearing her defend Trump.

“The same thing: It’s women who accuse anyone should be heard,” she said. “They should be heard, and they should be dealt with.”

“I think we heard from them prior to the election, and I think any woman who has felt violated or who has felt mistreated in any way, they have every right to speak up,” she added.

“And does the election mean that’s a settled issue?” Dickerson asked.

“You know, that’s for the people to decide,” she replied. “I know that he was elected, but women should always feel comfortable coming forward, and we should all be willing to listen to them.”

Watch the full interview here:

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'Dancing With the Stars' Season 25 Week 7 Recap: Vanessa Lachey and Nikki Bella Go Home on Halloween Week


For weeks, Dancing With the Stars fans have known that a double elimination was right around the corner, especially considering the large number of contestants still competing with three more weeks to go. That’s why it was especially odd during tonight’s Halloween show that Erin Andrews and Tom Bergeron never mentioned it was coming, even though it was a known thing on social media.

And during the last two minutes of the show—after an unusually large number of couples were declared in jeopardy (four over the typical two)—a crew member dressed as the Grim Reaper handed Tom and Erin two cards with their names printed on them. Tom and Erin declared Drew Scott and Terrell Owens safe, leaving Vanessa Lachey and Nikki Bella as the final two celebs in jeopardy. For the sake of logic, that would mean Vanessa’s name was on one, while Nikki’s name was on the other. Perhaps as a fake out, Tom and Erin made it seem as though they’d only announce one contestant’s name but instead said, “You’re both going home.” It was so awkward and bizarre that Maks (partnered with Vanessa) actually started to laugh, and the entire moment became comical. Vanessa and Nikki didn’t even get to have their moment to say goodbye (or thank their partners), which added to the randomness of the whole thing.

I didn’t expect Vanessa or Nikki to make it to the finals, so their elimination wasn’t really that much of a shocker. Still, it was weird to treat it as such. The bottom line is, the cast had to be trimmed this far into the competition—tonight’s double elimination was the only way to do it. So who has the best change of making it? Check out the dances below.

Victoria Arlen and Val Chmerkovskiy: In rehearsal, Val told Victoria that she’s holding back, which was a hard thing for her to hear given that she’s always had to remain strong in the face of numerous physical challenges. I’m all for Val encouraging his partners to push their limits, but sometimes it feels like he says things just to get an emotional reaction. Anyway, the actual performance went much better than the difficult week in rehearsal, and their Viennese Waltz got three 9s. Score: 27/30

Jordan Fisher and Lindsay Arnold: Lindsay revealed that Mark Ballas taught her as a kid (oh, he’s gotta love that), which felt like the producers’ way of trying to make a potential Mark Ballas (with Lindsey Stirling) vs. Lindsay Arnold (with Jordan Fisher) finale. It’s still too early for that because there’s like, what, 52 contestants still in this competition? As for the actual dance, Jordan and Lindsay performed a flawless Paso Doble, but considering I feel like I’m watching two professional dancers each week, I’m actually starting to lose interest. Score: 30/30

Nikki Bella and Artem Chigvintsev: The hot biker dude (Artem) and the flirty dancer (Nikki) did a fun Jive, but Len Goodman said it lacked punch, though it was “clean and precise.” Bruno said he’s almost positive they’ll be back next week, which was a bold statement to make on the verge of a double elimination. I didn’t expect Nikki to end up in the semi-finals, but I was hoping she stuck around a while longer. Score: 24/30

Vanessa Lachey and Maksim Chmerkovskiy: Maks’ goal for this week was to get 10s, while Vanessa wanted to get to the finals and win the Mirror Ball. They attempted to do this by putting on a frightening zombie-filled Paso Doble, but the judges weren’t wowed. In fact, they were downright disappointed given how strong and talented Vanessa has proven herself to be in past dances. I’m completely over all these fake zombie attack routines, too. Score: 24/30

Terrell Owens and Cheryl Burke: To be honest, I never expected Terrell to still be in this competition. And yet, here he is, and this show is better off for it. Bruno praised their “correct” Tango, which is pretty impressive given Cheryl and Terrell’s difference in height. Len mumbled something, but he must have liked the dance because he gave them an 8. Score: 25/30

Lindsey Stirling and Mark Ballas: Lindsey displaced a rib last week, which made training this week nearly impossible. The injury left her in tears, and Mark worried that they’d have to forfeit. Two seconds later, cut to the ballroom: Lindsey and Mark danced their hearts out to a stunning Paso Doble. Lindsey was clearly in pain, and Carrie Ann said that was the fastest Paso ever. Len thought the fantastic twists and turns saved the dance, and Bruno praised the ambitious nature of the routine. She deserved a 10 just for powering through the thing. Score: 27/30

Frankie Muniz and Witney Carson: The judges praised Witney and Frankie’s “spine-tingling good” Contemporary dance, but no one mentioned the stalker element of the routine that had Frankie playing a creepy predator outside of Witney’s window. Yikes. The whole thing was disturbing, even though it was masked as art. The judges gave it a perfect score; technically, it was flawless, but I wish we would have seen a different visual narrative. Score: 30/30

Drew Scott and Emma Slater: Drew continued to surprise, thanks to an energized Charleston that drew raves from the judges. Carrie Ann called it one of Drew’s best dances so far, and Len loved every minute of it. Usually that’s code for “you’ll be eliminated by the end of the night,” but in this case—as we now know—Drew’s safe for another week. Score: 27/30



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Ian Somerhalder and Nikki Reed Have Just Apologized for That Cringe-y Birth Control Anecdote


Remember that massively uncomfortable moment last week when news broke that Ian Somerhalder had flushed wife Nikki Reed‘s birth control pills down the toilet in Barcelona? Without telling Reed? Ah, sangria: it is the gateway to very poor decisions, like taking away your wife’s reproductive agency. Apparently it happened after the couple had decided to start a family together (though Reed said they knew they were ready after Somerhalder “threw out all my birth control pills”), but Somerhalder’s blasé retelling of the matter, on Dr. Berlin’s Informed Pregnancy, didn’t really cast him in a great light:

“But unbeknownst to poor Nikki, she didn’t realize that I was going to go in her purse and take out her birth control,” he recounted. “By the way, it was the beginning of the pack, so I had to pop all those suckers out. It is a lot of work, especially after a little bit of sangria.”

Ew.

This sent the progressive Internet into a frenzy for obvious reasons, and Reed issued a statement in the aftermath to try to make it clear that the interview was them poking fun at each other.

However, it didn’t do enough to block the dam. So, on Saturday, the couple apologized on their respective Twitter accounts for the furor with identical statements. Apparently it was all peachy keen between the two and the interview was done light-heartedly. However, they expressed awareness that some have been affected by reproductive coercion—and mentioned that if this had opened the door to that issue becoming a topic more talked about, then at least there’s a silver lining there.

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Nikki Reed Responds to the Backlash Over That Ian Somerhalder Birth Control Story


Nikki Reed and Ian Somerhalder revealed on *Dr. Berlin’s Informed Pregnancy*podcas this week that they decided to have children after Somerhalder threw out Reed’s birth control pills—without her permission. “…unbeknownst to poor Nikki, she didn’t realize that I was going to go in her purse and take out her birth control,” Somerhalder said on the podcast. “By the way, it was the beginning of the pack, so I had to pop all those suckers out. It is a lot of work, especially after a little bit of sangria.”

This anecdote polarized the Internet, with several people condemning Somerhalder for doing something so extreme without Reed’s vocal consent. Many thought Reed should’ve been present for this—or just done it herself. A few outlets noted this story could be seen as a form of reproductive coercion, which added more fuel to the fire.

But Reed doesn’t see it like that. The actress and activist took to Twitter on Friday afternoon (September 22) and shut down the way the media is spinning what she sees as a “funny interview between married people.”

“WOMEN’S RIGHTS MATTER, so please don’t use false narratives to highlight issues that are truly important!” Reed wrote on Twitter. “We should be talking about these things, but using a funny interview between married ppl & twisting it to perpetuate gossip is irresponsible.”

Check out Reed’s tweets for yourself, below:

Reed is right. There are plenty of people and institutions in our culture working against women’s rights. A lighthearted chat between Somerhalder and Reed isn’t one of them. That being said, you should never throw out (or even touch) a woman’s birth control without her explicit permission. That’s just a good rule of thumb.

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