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Sophie Turner Totally Shut Down Piers Morgan Over His Tweets About Mental Health


Piers Morgan is stirring up controversy again—and Sophie Turner is having none of it. Morgan’s latest scuffle comes after he retweeted a story from The Sun which quoted British actress Beverley Callard as saying, “Real mental illness is very dark and it takes a great deal of strength to ask for help. I think we are now definitely chipping away at the stigma. But we have to be careful mental illness doesn’t become like a Gucci handbag. There is a danger it can become ‘fashionable’.”

“She’ll be hammered for saying this, but it’s 100% true,” Morgan commented with the retweet.

But Turner had a response ready for Morgan: “Or maybe they have a platform to speak out about it and help get rid of the stigma of mental illness which affects 1 in 4 people in UK per year,” she tweeted. “But please go ahead and shun them back into silence. Twat.”

She’s right. Conversations that normalize mental health issues and help do away with the stigmas attached to them are always important—not fodder for jokes.

This isn’t the first time Turner has used her social media platforms to speak out about mental health. In support of World Suicide Prevention Day in September she wrote, “You’re stronger than you think. You will get through this. You’re so loved. You are NOT a burden. #WorldSuicidePreventationDay”

As for Morgan, this is just the latest in a long line of controversial views and Twitter arguments with a young woman at the center. Back in November, he got into it with Ariana Grande (and her mom, Joan) on Twitter over how and when women should put their sexuality on display. Grande also clapped back brilliantly, writing, “I use my talent AND my sexuality all the time because i choose to. women can be sexual AND talented. naked and dignified. it’s OUR choice. we will keep fighting til people understand. i say this w all due respect but thank u, next.”

Related: Sophie Turner on Game of Thrones Wigs, Fenty Highlighter, and What She Texts Joe Jonas





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The 11 Most Powerful Statements Celebrities Made About Mental Health in 2018


Mental health issues don’t discriminate—even the glossiest of celebrities with all the advantages in the world aren’t immune to depression, anxiety and other mental health challenges. They’re way more common than you might realize; approximately one in five adults in the U.S. experiences mental illness in a given year, according to the National Alliance on Mental Illness. But the reality is, there’s still a stigma around mental health issues (and many people aren’t getting the treatment they need).

The good news is? The stigma is slowly but surely starting to crumble thanks in part to the fact that people—including celebs with a platform (and droves of Instagram followers)—are opening up about their emotional well-being. We still have a long way to go, but there’s real power in that; the more open we are about mental illness, the easier it is for people to ask for help. Read on for 11 stigma-demolishing moments that put mental health in the spotlight this year.



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Destiny's Child Member Michelle Williams Pens an Emotional Post About Seeking Mental Health Help


Former Destiny’s Child member Michelle Williams hasn’t shied away from her struggles with depression. Last year, she opened up about battling mental health issues while being a member of one of the top-selling female groups of all time. But on Tuesday, she revealed even more when she posted a statement on social media sharing her experiences seeking help to stay healthy, explaining that she would continue to be a mental health advocate by practicing what she preached.

“For years, I have dedicated myself to increasing awareness of mental health and empowering people to recognize when it’s time to seek help, support and guidance from those that love and care for your wellbeing,” she wrote in a post that she shared on Twitter and Instagram. “I recently listened to the same advice I have given to thousands around the world and sought help from a great team of healthcare professionals. Today I proudly, happily and healthily stand here as someone who will continue to always lead by example as I tirelessly advocate for the betterment of those in need.”

According to TMZ, Williams—who made headlines following her reunion with DC3 during Beyonce’s historic Coachella performance—checked herself into a mental health facility outside of Los Angeles for a few days before releasing the statement on Twitter.

According to studies, most Americans have been affected by mental illness, but they often don’t get the help they need due to social stigmas. Williams, aware of that stigma, shared her struggles on the CBS show The Talk last year, saying that she had battled symptoms of depression since she was a teenager, but didn’t realize she was suffering until her mid-30s. She also said that at one point, she had suicidal thoughts.

“So many people are walking around acting like they’ve got it all together and they’re suffering,” she explained on the show.

On social media, Williams was met with an outpouring of support. Beyoncé’s mother Tina Knowles Lawson shared some encouraging words, writing on her post: “Michelle My Bell, I’m soo proud of you! You have given unselfishly of your time and support to so many and I know that you will be the best example of self care which we all need.” Missy Elliott and Solange also chimed in with uplifting messages.

Williams joins a growing list of celebrities who have used their platforms to speak honestly about mental health. Meghan Trainor recently discussed her battle with anxiety and depression, while stars like Demi Lovato, Selena Gomez, and Lena Dunham have all publicly taken time off for self-care.





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Is Your Tribe Helping Or Hurting Your Mental Health?


I spent my twenties going to clubs that had mean bouncers and sports bars where I drank too much beer. I felt aimless and uninspired (and lonely and a little drunk). When I turned 30, I looked around at my drinking buddies and realized I just didn’t belong. As they stared zombielike into their phones, I could tell they weren’t exactly feeling their best either. Maybe we just weren’t meant to be together.

Research has shown that when we’re connected to other people, our health thrives. Brigham Young University researchers found social isolation is as much of a threat to longevity as obesity is, and loneliness is about as risky as alcoholism or smoking 15 cigarettes a day. To me, not having a core group of friends who cared about me and whom I cared about, respected, and felt inspired by was an emotional drain. I wasn’t getting much out of my social group. (I wasn’t giving, either, which turns out to be pretty necessary.) I had to make some changes.

“Feeling a sense of belonging is a fundamental human need,” says William Chopik, Ph.D., assistant professor of psychology at Michigan State University. “Throughout all of human history, social groups are what helped us survive. They give us psychological benefits, like the sense that there are others we can depend on and turn to when we need it. That security translates to all sorts of good outcomes, including higher self-esteem and better relationships. The benefits are seemingly endless.”

Yet we busy ourselves rounding up followers and likes and pretending we’re just fine going it alone, rather than focusing on the depths of our connections. We have more ways to connect with one another than ever (virtually, at least), but somehow we’re still leaving each other hanging. And it’s hurting us. Research at the University of California, Berkeley, found that twenty-somethings report feeling lonely twice as often as people in their fifties and sixties, despite having large social networks. Perhaps worse: We’ve forgotten about the importance of the collective we, as if belonging was just the icing on the cake.

Experts have recognized this. The Mayo Clinic lists friendship as part of an adult’s healthy lifestyle; it reports that friendships can boost happiness and reduce stress, improve self-confidence and self-worth, encourage people to change or avoid unhealthy habits, and help them cope with trauma—from job loss to illness. That sounds pretty crucial to mental well-being.

If you’re feeling lonely or unfulfilled, I challenge you to shake up your social circle and see what else changes.

After my epiphany at the bar, I felt more alone than ever, but also more determined to be intentional about my friendships and what I had to offer a community. I wanted friends who were adventurous, who shared ideas; I wanted to be a better listener and not such a workaholic. So I started being proactive: I went to Burning Man as well as entrepreneurship conferences; I’d meet people and then actually make plans. In time, I cultivated a group where I am truly able to be myself.

The strength and courage that gave me saved my life. So to share that feeling, I started Daybreaker, an early-morning dance party that reimagines the fun of a nightclub as something before work and with green juice, yoga, and hugs—all the wildness and joy, no judgment or hangovers. This tribe has fueled and healed me (and a lot of others; it’s now in 23 cities). Now I serve my community, and they serve me. I give them energy. They give me energy. When I’m feeling down, they pick me up. When they’re feeling down, I pick them up. Happiness, given and received.

I may have built my community around 6:00 A.M. dance parties, but yours could be less extra—maybe it’s two really solid friends. To find those connections, you need to know what you care about and what you have to offer; you have to make yourself vulnerable and communicate. Start with a few simple questions: What do I value in life? What are the qualities I’m looking for in a friend or ones I’d like to avoid? What can I contribute? We do this kind of audit for our careers and our love interests but rarely for our friendships. It takes effort, but the rewards are big.

I didn’t launch a global business by swearing, “I’m good! I’ve got this on my own!” I wasn’t able to envision my personal and professional goals—much less achieve them—until I started seeking out people who are as invested in my whole well-being as I am in theirs. And sure, making friends won’t cure anxiety or depression, but it can help you grow. If you’re feeling lonely or unfulfilled, I challenge you to shake up your social circle and see what else changes.

Today we can get wrapped up in self-care and the notion that to unwind we have to prioritize ourselves over others. There’s nothing wrong with a long run or a sheet mask after a tough day. But there are a lot of forces keeping us alone, especially those shiny little pocket computers we can’t put down. It’s up to us to take a break, look up, and make time for other living, breathing humans. Because the best way to feel happy and whole, I believe, is being in the presence of others.

Radha Agrawal is the cofounder of Daybreaker and Thinx, and author of Belong: Find Your People, Create Community & Live a More Connected Life, out September 2018.



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2017's Groundbreaking Moments in Mental Health


2017 was not an easy year for many of us. For women with mental health issues, in many ways it was especially difficult, as triggering news seemingly broke every day. But there were also some silver linings, as women made taking care of themselves a priority in 2017, too (need we remind you all 101 reasons why it’s damn good to be a woman in 2017?). And when it comes to our mental health, we made some serious strides in de-stigmatizing mental illness and caring for ourselves this year. More people than ever, especially in the spotlight, have come forward to talk openly about their mental health issues, creating an opening for others to do the same. Here are 11 of the most powerful changes:

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1. Celebrities encouraged others to take time off to care for their health

Millie Bobby Brown, Demi Lovato, Selena Gomez, Lena Dunham, and Kesha, among other celebrities have recently taken time off to care for their mental health—and they didn’t cite something vague like “exhaustion” as the reason for their break. They were honest. “It’s not selfish to take time for yourself,” Kesha wrote in an op-ed for TIME. In Selena Gomez’s March Vogue cover story, where she revealed she’d been in an in-patient treatment center for 90 days, she said: “I wish more people would talk about therapy. We girls, we’re taught to be almost too resilient, to be strong and sexy and cool and laid-back, the girl who’s down. We also need to feel allowed to fall apart.”

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2. The Royal Family made mental health awareness central to their agenda

It’s not unusual for the Royal Family to choose a philanthropic cause to focus on (Princess Diana is still legendary for her work with AIDS patients) but it is noteworthy that the cause Kate Middleton, Prince William, and Prince Harry have chosen is helping to remove the stigma surrounding mental health. They have worked hard with their foundation, Heads Together, to create an open dialogue about the topic. Most recently, they premiered a series of short films, called #OKtoSay, that highlight how critical conversations surrounding mental health can be.

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3. Instagram and Facebook made a push to make mental health resources available to their users

Social media is where we share every detail of our lives– and for some users, that includes content that friends and family might see as a sign that someone’s mental health is in a precarious state. (Not to mention social media itself can be the source of anxiety for many people.) So it was a huge step this year when Instagram and Facebook launched tools in an attempt to keep users safe. It’s easier than ever to flag posts and delete hateful comments, but perhaps most importantly, Instagram recently allowed users to monitor Instagram Lives for any potentially concerning messaging or behavior. Once a live video is flagged, the user streaming the video will see a message pop up offering them mental health resources and help.

4. Chrissy Teigen showed us that even women with “perfect lives” get postpartum depression

In Glamour’s April cover story, Chrissy Teigen revealed that she experienced postpartum depression after giving birth to Luna. In her interview, she told Glamour, “I had everything I needed to be happy. And yet, for much of the last year, I felt unhappy. What basically everyone around me—but me—knew up until December was this: I have postpartum depression.”

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5. Troian Bellisario released a deeply powerful film about her battle with anorexia

Pretty Little Liars alum Troain Bellisario wrote and starred in the film FEED, a gritty, honest look at life with anorexia. The point of her film was for people to understand how serious and dangerous the illness is. “It means fighting for your life,” she told Glamour after the film’s release. “You can have a disordered relationship with food, but to have an eating disorder is indicative of a mental illness, which I think needs treatment and recognition in a different way.”

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6. Lena Dunham gave advice to young people coping with obsessive-compulsive disorder

Obsessive-compulsive disorder is surrounded by a lot of misinformation (like that it’s about an intense desire for cleanliness—it’s not!), and one of the common misconceptions is that it can’t affect children. But it can, and in a video for the Child Mind Institute, Dunham, who was diagnosed with OCD in childhood, offered advice she wish she wish she had heard when she was younger. “I would tell my younger self that there’s no shame in asking a teacher for help,” she said in the video. “Telling a friend that you’re uncomfortable, and that it’s just the same as falling down and scraping your knee.”

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7. Katy Perry de-stigmatized therapy by live-streaming one of her sessions

Earlier this year, Perry live-streamed a very real therapy session with her very real therapist. She captured herself talking to her therapist about battling suicidal thoughts, and even revealed that she wrote a song about it. “I feel ashamed that I would have those thoughts, feel that low and that depressed,” Perry said mid-session. “You can be right or you can be loved. I just want to be loved.” Talking about therapy is so important, so props to Perry for revealing to her fans that she sees a therapist—and what they talk about.

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8. Michelle Williams proved you can’t ever really know how someone is feeling—even if they’re massively successful

Destiny’s Child was at one point one of the biggest groups in the world, but that didn’t mean all the members were happy. During an appearance on CBS’s The Talk earlier this year, Williams revealed that during her time in the band, she suffered from depression so severe she considered suicide. “I just internalized everything. I didn’t have an outlet,” she said. “You know, you go to church, and you just sweep it under the rug, and then you pray about it.” We now know it doesn’t have to be that way.

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9. Corinne Olympios taught viewers about anxiety attacks during her time on The Bachelor

Season 21 of The Bachelor often made light of the fact that contestant Corinne once slept through one of the rose ceremonies, but after the episodes aired, she explained she was actually suffering from a mental health issue. “I was actually very upset, and I actually had an anxiety attack,” Corinne said during The Women Tell All. “I was hyperventilating, and I was very, very upset, and I was not in any way ready to go down and stand in a rose ceremony. Like, I was not able to do so.” She continues, “They can think what they want to think. I know what was happening in my own self that night.” If sleep is what you need, sleep, girl.

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10. Prince William revealed that his mother Diana struggled with bulimia

In a 2017 documentary called Wasting Away: The Truth About Anorexia, Prince William sat down with Mark Austin, former British news anchor, and Austin’s daughter Maddie, who is recovering from anorexia. William explained that his late mother had bulimia—a revelation most didn’t know— and reiterated the importance of treating eating disorders seriously. “These are illnesses,” he said. “Mental health needs to be taken as seriously as physical health.”

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11. Lili Reinhart summed up exactly how we should view depression

In an interview with Glamour, the Riverdale star said that depression runs in her family. “That’s something that can be hard to come to terms with,” she said. “There wasn’t a particular reason why I was feeling [depressed], but you don’t need a reason—it’s depression. It’s a chemical in your brain that can be helped with medication, so that’s what I did. You don’t need validation to feel like it’s OK to be sad. As long as you try to figure it out and solve it to make things better, that’s all that matters.” Preach, Lili.



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Demi Lovato Is Now a Mental Health Ambassador for Global Citizen


Demi Lovato is a vocal crusader for a number of important causes: body positivity, self-esteem, and her sobriety (going on six years!), among others. But one thing she’s been extra passionate about is mental health. She told Glamour last year that she considers speaking out about mental illness and addiction is her “true purpose,” and been active and visible in leading reform for it. Case in point: she’s partial owner of a rehab facility she once went to for treatment, led a series of wellness conferences, started a program that helps people who can’t afford treatment get it, and shown up at Congress to lobby for mental health reform.

Now, Lovato’s continuing her work on an even larger scale: she’s the mental health ambassador for Global Citizen, the “social action platform” that uses Twitter, Instagram, and other social media as a road for social change.

She announced the news on her Instagram on Sunday afternoon—and according to the caption, the first thing on her agenda seems to be a pilot program with Save the Children in Iraq.

According to the second Insta in the slideshow, Lovato will be taking Save the Children’s HEART program—which focuses on healing, psychological support, and “basic education through the arts”—to kids who have been displaced in the Middle Eastern country. “My hope is that this program can bring a bit of comfort to those who need the most,” she wrote. “This isn’t about politics or race or religion. It’s simply about humanity and protecting one another.”

Such a cool cause—and what a perfect champion for it.

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