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Lindy West Has a New Book, a Hit TV Show, and No Shortage of Opinions


To write her new book, Lindy West went where few women have dared to go before—deep, deep in to Adam Sandler’s oeuvre.

The 37-year-old author watched Happy Gilmore, Billy Madison, Little Nicky, The Wedding Singer, and more for a rigorous meditation titled, “Is Adam Sandler Funny?” West found the work exhausting, but she’s thorough when it comes to her research process. “That was a part of the book that sounded like it was going to be really fun. Because watching Adam Sandler movies and making fun of them is fun,” she tells Glamour. “But if it’s for work, it’s the last thing I want to do, so I watched them in big marathons.” (We thank her for her service.)

West’s latest book, The Witches Are Coming, excavates the corners of her brain. Her obsessions, irritations, and child heroes. Often, she does that with a test case, like Sandler, who stands in for general white male averageness. In another chapter, Joan Rivers become a symbol of how women can be broken into complicity. And the movie Clue serves as a launchpad to discuss superficial representations of women on film. The specificity is the genius. “I think it would be easy to dismiss [the book] as making broad generalizations based on analysis of too narrow a sliver of culture,” West allows. “But I tried to choose things that resonated with me.”

Still, even as West claims a modest area of focus, in fact the book’s preoccupations are vast and sometimes a delightful surprise. Topics include not just Sandler or Rivers, but Goop, Grumpy Cat, her viral hashtag, #ShoutYourAbortion, and the creation of her hit Hulu show, Shrill. (Let the countdown clock begin: Season two premieres on January 20, 2020.) Parts also pick up where her 2017 New York Times op-ed, “Yes, This Is a Witch Hunt. I’m a Witch and I’m Hunting You,” leaves off—eviscerating the men who dare to evoke the phrase “witch hunt” in the face of their overdue reckoning. Witch hunts, book readers will learn, is something West has been thinking about for ages.

“I had this thought about the term ‘witch hunt’ [while writing for Jezebel],” she explains. “That witch is a term that’s been traditionally used to discredit women, but as soon as men are feeling a little bit sad, then women become the witch hunters and men are the witches, being victimized. I was like, ‘Is there a way to turn this on its head?’ I remember pitching it and my editor was like, ‘That’s a little too spicy. I don’t think we can say that.'”

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Flash forward to Donald Trump’s election and a cultural upheaval or two, and the pitch was published in the same newspaper that broke the first allegations against Harvey Weinstein. Her editor at the Times green lit it in an instant. West credits Jezebel and other feminist publications for helping to mainstream not just that level of snark (welcome in 2017), but an honesty about, as she puts it, “how bad our reality actually is.”

In The Witches Are Coming, West points to the fact that mere acknowledgment is an insufficient, but still essential kind of progress. One of the best sections of the book invokes her person experience pitching Shrill to television executives. (Shrill was first published as a book in 2016 and later adapted for Hulu, premiering last March. It stars Aidy Bryant.) West details in her new book how it felt to push for the show as a plus-size woman in a business still obsessed with thinness. “I remember going to all these meetings and having this anxious feeling, wondering if the chairs in the conference room would be too narrow for me to fit comfortably in the chair,” she says. “That’s an anxiety I have all the time, everywhere I go but there’s some extra stress involved because Hollywood is the place where a lot of these insecurities came from for me. This is the world that has taught us that there’s only one acceptable body type.”



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Shay Mitchell Hit Back at People Mommy-Shaming Her for Going Out After Giving Birth


It hasn’t even been a month since Shay Mitchell gave birth to her daughter and already she’s facing the wrath of mommy-shamers. This week, people left her a series of critical comments about how she went to Drake’s birthday party with her boyfriend, Matte Babel, shortly after having her baby. But she defended herself on Tuesday, October 29, in an Instagram Story, standing by her decision to have at least one night out as new mom.

In the Instagram Story, Mitchell explained that she hadn’t initially seen a lot of the remarks people left her. “I haven’t been really checking my comments that often, but apparently people are really upset that I left three days after having a kid to go out and party,” she said, adding, “It wasn’t three days, and she was with [my dog] Angel, so…”

She then went on to read a few of the pointed things some of the mommy-shamers had said to her. “Wait. So you literally just had her and you’re more worried about clubbing with Drake? Wooow,” one person wrote. Another one read, “Mother of the year award right here!!!! As if you seriously could leave your baby to go party?!!! I hope the child’s aid look into this and your abilities to be a good parent cause damn!!! Lacking some serious skills there sweety! #selfish.”

Mitchell handled the unfair skepticism in stride, which makes sense given she’s been pretty open about the entire pregnancy and motherhood process. Once she announced she was expecting, she made most of her journey public by creating a YouTube series with Babel called Almost Ready. There, she candidly tackled everything from the possibility of a C-section to her 33-hour labor and delivery. We’ll have to see if Shay Mitchell continues the series. If she does, an episode about mommy-shaming seems appropriate.

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Leonardo DiCaprio Got Hit in the Face With a Volleyball, and the Memes Are A+


We’ve seen Leonardo DiCaprio battle a grizzly bear, take on the mob, and try to survive a massive iceberg collision. However, the actor may have met his biggest adversary yet this week—a volleyball.

On Tuesday, TMZ published a slew of images of DiCaprio just trying to relax and enjoy the summer in Malibu by playing a friendly game of volleyball with his pals. Unfortunately, not even the actor’s decades-long career and long-awaited Academy Award could save him from the wrath of the volleyball. TMZ caught the exact moment when the ball smacked DiCaprio directly in the face, to both the horror and the delight of the internet. These photos are more tragic than the “I’ll never let go, Jack” scene in Titanic—also, we hope Leo is okay—but we’re here for the memes, which began pouring out of Twitter almost immediately.

But first, please enjoy the photo that started it all:

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“I would have never thought that @LeoDiCaprio could be an accurate representation of me in high school attempting PE,” one person tweeted. “Leonardo DiCaprio getting smacked in the face by a volleyball sums up how my year is going in one image,” someone else wrote.

And of course, there were also a ton of Wilson references, since the whole scene looks like a remake of Tom Hanks’s Castaway with the volleyball starring as the villain. “Finally, @tomhanks gets revenge on @LeoDiCaprio for #CatchMeIfYouCan by sending Wilson after him,” one person joked.

The funniest part of it all is that DiCaprio seems to actually really like volleyball. The Daily Mail reported that he’d been spotted playing with Ansel Elgort at Malibu Beach last year, and a few weeks later he challenged Scott Eastwood to a match. Maybe he’s just rusty since it’s the beginning of summer? Regardless, let’s just hope he and the volleyball work things out ASAP.





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Taylor Swift Just Hit Back at All Her Trolls With Her New Song, 'You Need to Calm Down'


Taylor Swift has some things to say about the Internet, social media, and trolls—and she’s letting it all out in the latest single from her upcoming seventh album.

The song, “You Need to Calm Down,” dropped at midnight, and its message is clear just from the title: We must chill, guys. Musically, the new song feels very in line with the first single from the album, “ME!” And though it’s laying out a clear message to trolls and those who drag Swift and her friends online, the overall tone is positive. The actual video for “You Need to Calm Down” will be released next week. “I wanted you to hear the song first, then see the video,” she said during an Instagram livestream on Thursday, June 13. “Because the video is very worth the wait. There’s a lot going on in the video, so I wanted that to be a separate discovery.”

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So let’s break down what Tay’s got to say on this new song.

She sets the tone with the first verse, calling out the difference between saying something to someone’s face versus putting it on social media: “You are somebody that I don’t know/But you’re takin’ shots at me like it’s Patrón/And I’m just like, damn, it’s 7 AM/Say it in the street, that’s a knock-out/But you say it in a Tweet, that’s a cop-out/And I’m just like, “Hey, are you OK?”

Swift goes on to say she’s not against self-expression, but she’s learned to let it go because “snakes and stones never broke my bones,” seemingly a reference to the pre-Reputation Kim Kardashian drama.

There’s also more than one reference to the LGBTQ+ community in the song. At one point, Swift sings, “Why are you mad when you could be GLAAD? (You could be GLAAD)”. GLAAD is the organization formerly known as the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation that describes itself as being at the “forefront of cultural change, accelerating acceptance for the LGBTQ community.” Later she says, “And control your urges to scream about all the people you hate/’Cause shade never made anybody less gay.” This is in line with a newly more politically active Swift, who recently released a letter she wrote to her Tennessee senator about protecting LGBTQ+ rights.



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Princess Charlotte Officially Hit Another Royal Childhood Milestone


It’s a fact of royal fandom that everything is newsworthy when a royal child does it. Princess Charlotte turned 4? Give the people a photoshoot. Prince George has a new nickname? I’m overwhelmed by the cuteness. Archie Mountbatten-Windsor goes outside for a photo with Meghan Markle and Prince Harry? Cancel all my plans so I can stare at the pictures.

Well, another tidbit of royal childhood news for Princess Charlotte has arrived straight from Kensington Palace—and it’s bound to usher in even more heart-warming moments to distract us all come fall 2019.

Kensington Palace announced Friday (May 24) that Princess Charlotte is headed for another royal childhood milestone. Starting this September, she’ll join older brother Prince George for school at St. Thomas’s Battersea in Wandsworth, south London. The 4-year-old is moving up from Willcocks Nursery School, which she has attended since January 2018.

Prince William and Kate Middleton have yet to make a formal statement regarding Princess Charlotte’s enrollment, but it sounds like the school is excited to meet its next royal student. Its headmaster, Simon O’Malley, made a brief statement welcoming Princess Charlotte to the fold. “We are delighted that The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge have decided that Princess Charlotte will join her elder brother, Prince George, at Thomas’s Battersea,” he said. “We greatly look forward to welcoming her and all of our new pupils to the school in September.”

What’s in store for Princess Charlotte when she starts school? There’s more to choose from than typical classroom studies: Prince George reportedly enjoys swimming and ballet lessons at school. It’s safe to say his sister will have a similar range of classes.

The news comes shortly after another sweet moment for the royal family. Last week, Prince William and Kate Middleton released a series of photos taken with their children at the Royal Horticultural Society’s Chelsea Flower Show.

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Every glimpse we’ve seen of the royal family suggests that Charlotte and George are close as brother and sister can be; and the siblings that study together, stay together. I’m already anticipating all the photos of Prince William dropping the pair off at school in September—if it’s anything like Prince George’s reluctant first day, it’ll be adorable.

Halie LeSavage is a contributing writer at Glamour. Follow her @halielesavage.





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Kim Kardashian Just Hit Back at Everyone Who's Shading Her for Becoming a Lawyer


Kim Kardashian broke the Internet for the thousandth time last week when she revealed she’s studying to become a lawyer. “I had to think long and hard about this,” she told Vogue magazine about her legendary career pivot.

The reality star isn’t attending formal law school but rather completing a four-year apprenticeship at a San Francisco firm, which is actually a legitimate alternative to traditional education in California. While most people responded to this news with enthusiasm and a few lighthearted jokes, some took shots at Kardashian and told her to “stay in her lane.”

But she isn’t taking these comments lying down. Kardashian took to Instagram on Monday, April 15, and hit back at the people who are criticizing her.

“Last year I registered with the California State Bar to study law. For the next 4 years, a minimum of 18 hours a week is required, I will take written and multiple choice tests monthly. As my first year is almost coming to an end I am preparing for the baby bar, a mini version of the bar, which is required when studying law this way,” Kardashian wrote on Instagram alongside a photo of herself studying. “I’ve seen some comments from people who are saying it’s my privilege or my money that got me here, but that’s not the case. One person actually said I should ‘stay in my lane.’ I want people to understand that there is nothing that should limit your pursuit of your dreams, and the accomplishment of new goals. You can create your own lanes, just as I am.”

She continued, “The state bar doesn’t care who you are. This option is available to anyone who’s state allows it. It’s true I did not finish college. You need 60 college credits (I had 75) to take part in ‘reading the law,’ which is an office law school being apprenticed by lawyers. For anyone assuming this is the easy way out, it’s not. My weekends are spent away from my kids while I read and study. I work all day, put my kids to bed and spend my nights studying. There are times I feel overwhelmed and when I feel like I can’t do it but I get the pep talks I need from the people around me supporting me. I changed my number last year and disconnected from everyone because I have made this strict commitment to follow a dream of mine – It’s never too late to follow your dreams.”

Kardashian finished her post by writing. “I want to thank Van Jones for believing in me and introducing me to Jessica Jackson. Jessica along with Erin Haney have taken on the role of my mentors and I am forever grateful to them both putting in so much time with me, believing in me and supporting me through this journey. This week I have a big torts essay due on negligence. Wish me luck.”

Please be my lawyer in 2022, Kim Kardashian.





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