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Ilana Glazer and Jameela Jamil Are Using Humor to Change the World


Ilana Glazer and Jameela Jamil have each had quite the year. Glazer’s hit TV series Broad City came to a hilarious, sentimental conclusion this past spring. Meanwhile, Jamil is only a few episodes away from saying goodbye to NBC’s The Good Place for, well, good. These two women are unique and talented in their own right, but they do share a commonality: They’ve used their authentic voices to effect real change, both in Hollywood and beyond. Whether it’s the body positivity movement or politics, Ilana Glazer and Jameela Jamil frequently use humor and genuine communication to move the needle forward. At Glamour‘s 2019 Women of the Year Summit on November 10, they taught us how we can do the same.

Jamil, who created I Weigh after being long-frustrated with women getting reduced to a number on the scale, began the conversation by opening up about her own journey to self-acceptance. The actor pinpointed a time when she was first bullied in school, which she says led to her developing an eating disorder. “My teacher made the stupidest fucking decision of all time…in order to teach us about charts, [she] weighed everyone,” she says. “I was the fattest, and my name was at the top of the chart. That’s when the bullying began about my weight, which led very quickly to my anorexia. That was the first time I realized I was a bit chubby.”

Glazer has also created a platform for social change, with hers connecting people to political policy. The actor and activist is the founder of Generator Collective, which was born out of her desire to learn more about our governmental systems. “I didn’t know what was coming up in the local elections. I didn’t realize that the primaries are different for states, you know, things like that,” she says. “It’s just saying, ‘I don’t know. I just want to learn the basic minimum.’ And it’s about finding minimal civic engagement and embodying that, which is voting whenever there’s an election and God forbid, canvasing once every four years.”

Jamil is just as fired up about American politics, particularly when it comes to women’s rights. “I’m really upset about abortion not being considered a woman’s right. I’ve had an abortion before. It was brilliant. I mean, it was also painful, but it was an excellent decision. And it wasn’t because of an emergency. It was just something that I needed to do because my life is as important as someone who was not yet born,” she told the audience.

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Aside from their activism, the two share a similar philosophy on life. Jamil considers herself a work in progress, and neither are obsessed with perfectionism, or portraying a persona online or in the press that’s anything other than their authentic selves. “In the 90s, when it was actually just TV and film and standard forms of media, [there was] a movie star image and this mystery behind it,” Glazer says. “The mystery is gone. I like it. I prefer it. Women are able to narrate their own stories.”





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Jameela Jamil Did Her Own Makeup for the 2019 Emmys


This isn’t the first time Jamil has expressed her love for a quick beauty routine. Just last Friday, Jamil came to the Glamour x Tory Burch Women to Watch lunch looking flawless thanks to her own makeup and hair routine. And in January, she also shared with reporters at the Golden Globes that she got ready all by herself then too.

“I’ve never had a stylist, I don’t have a makeup artist. Hair and makeup doesn’t have to be this, like, 45-minute extravaganza. I can do my makeup in five minutes,” she said.

However, she also noted that she’s not against a made-up face, rather, she’s against it becoming someone’s entire worth.

“I don’t have a problem with a little bit of makeup. David Bowie wore makeup, Bruno Mars definitely wears some makeup, and they’re not reduced to nothing more than just that,” Jamil said. Wearing a bit of makeup just brings attention to what you’ve already got.”



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Jameela Jamil Candidly Spoke Out About Struggling With Body Dysmorphia and Disordered Eating


Jameela Jamil of The Good Place frequently uses her platform to speak out about important issues like abortion and body image, and in a candid interview with People on Thursday (August 1), she opened up about continuing to struggle with body dysmorphia, the strategies she’s developed to deal with it, and how being lonely as a teen contributed to disordered eating .

According to People, Jamil developed anorexia and body dysmorphia after having to step on a scale in front of her class at 14. “I was really unhappy and I think it contributed to my ability to have an eating disorder for so long, because there was no one kind of monitoring me and I had no one to turn to with my sadness and bad feelings, so I just had a really rough time as a teenager,” she told the magazine.

Jamil also spoke about how she deals with ongoing body dysmorphia, including by making I Weigh pages where she lists all the positive things about her life and herself that have nothing to do with how she looks or how much she weighs. She also has learned to avoid looking in the mirror, she said.

“The only time I look in the mirror is when I put on my eyeliner in the morning and when I take it off at night,” she told People. “I’m not interested in my appearance. I still suffer from body dysmorphia so it can be very distracting for me. Doing that has helped me concentrate on progressing and doing things that enrich my life, like watching my career grow and my relationships grow. That’s what gives me a wonderful sense of self.”

She’s also been investing in developing strong friendships—something that can be tricky not just as a teen, but as an adult.

“I’ve learned how to suck it up and make an effort and put myself on the line and ask people out for coffee,” she told People. “I’ve even officially asked people to be friends, just to make sure that everyone’s in agreement that there’s some sort of friendship forming. I started doing more things that I love and meeting more people via that, and I’ve found more people who had the same interests.”

“A friend is a witness to your life, which I think is something really beautiful and amazing and really shapes your bond with someone,” she continued. “We go through a lot as a woman or just generally as a human and having someone to share that with and having someone in your corner and tells you that you’re wrong when you doubt yourself is so unbelievable. I don’t think I would be the person that I am without my adult friendships and their love and support.”



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Jameela Jamil on Her Swimsuit Shopping Tips


On Instagram, Jameela Jamil is incredibly candid—about dealing with stress, about her gripes with inconsistent sizing, about celebrities who peddle detox teas on their feeds. That frankness doesn’t end online, either. During a recent conversation, Jamil—a spokesperson for Aerie—explained how she prefers the pool to the beach because she “likes to be near a nice, clean toilet;” how annoyed she gets at swimsuits that “ride up your ass,” and how she’s come up with a hack to make up for the lack of storage space for snacks in women’s swimwear. (More on that in a bit.)

The actress’ partnership with Aerie makes perfect sense, given the body-positive movement she started on Instagram, iWeigh, as well as Aerie’s commitment to not retouching its images, which is what got The Good Place star, 33, interested in working with the company. “I thought that was so great and revolutionary, especially for a brand that does so much swimwear and underwear,” she says. “I went into the store a year before I met [anyone at the brand], and I noticed that all the photographs were of women of every color and age, of people with disabilities, of people who are cancer survivors—all modeling underwear and being seen as beautiful.”

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Jameela Jamil at an Aerie swim event in L.A.

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She’s since starred in an Aerie campaign of her own, and you can expect to see her in a lot of the brand’s swimsuits this summer. “I’m going to go to Italy on holiday, so I will be wearing something from the new collection when I get there,” she says.

Jamil already has a very specific swims hopping strategy. “I shop online, which is risky,” she says. “But I tend to go for a similar style everywhere that works for me [and where] I know my size. I order three sizes: the size I think I am, the size above, and the size below. Women’s sizing is still so insane. Men get inches—they know exactly what they’re buying, down to the very centimeter. And we’re told to vaguely guess.”

It also helps to know what you like, Jamil says: “I’m a high-waisted girl. I can use my briefs to store snacks and sunblock and sunglasses. They haven’t [figured] out [swimsuits with] pockets—maybe I just invented that. Have fucking pockets. It may not be flattering, but I’ve never really cared about flattering. So it looks like I’ve got lumps just all over my stomach, but I just use [that area] for storage.” (If there’s ever a Jameela Jamil x Aerie collaboration, we now know what to expect.)

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Though swimwear in 2019 definitely favors the bold—top trends include neon, animal prints, and even sequins—Jamil prefers to keep hers much more minimal. “I spill food on myself a lot so I tend to go darker with my colors,” she says.

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Those extra-strappy, complicated-looking bikinis aren’t her thing, either. “I’m very conscious of tan lines because I tan super fast. The ones with the weird cuts—like the ones they wear on Instagram—I can’t wear because I will look like a zebra,” she says. “I try to wear things that are keeping me unclothed in the areas that I will be unclothed in everyday life.”

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It’s not that Jamil has totally ruled out these of-the-moment pieces. In fact, there’s one swim trend she’s super excited about—and will definitely be wearing—summer 2019. “I love the lemons—love, love, love the lemons,” she says, referring to a series of lemon-printed suits in Aerie’s latest collection. “I love fruit on anything. Fruit on any clothing or accessory. My earrings are always some sort of fruit, so I love that. I love the bold colors, and I think they’re bringing me into more colorful clothing.”

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“I love coverups, too, because you need to be able to go into a restaurant after the pool or the beach. It’s nice to be able to throw that on for decency,” she adds

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Unsurprisingly, Jamil’s approach to summer style is markedly different from that of her The Good Place character, Tahani—or, at least, how she imagines it. “Mine would be cheaper than hers, for sure. And I think it would be less extra,” she says. “I’m definitely more of a wallflower than she is. It would be distinctly more chill—less diamonds.” If you were to run into Tahani at the beach, Jamil guesses she’d probably be wearing a “Christian Dior ballgown, like she’s going to the Met. I see her in the sea in a gown.”





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Jameela Jamil Calls Her Abortion 'The Best Decision I Have Ever Made'


Last week, Georgia Gov. Brian Kemp, a Republican, signed a six-week abortion ban in the state, prompting widespread condemnation nationwide. Now, actress Jameela Jamil has taken to Twitter to reveal that she once had an abortion—and that she doesn’t regret it.

“I had an abortion when I was young, and it was the best decision I have ever made,” Jamil wrote on Twitter. “Both for me, and for the baby I didn’t want, and wasn’t ready for, emotionally, psychologically and financially. So many children will end up in foster homes. So many lives ruined. So very cruel,” she said of the bill, which is due to take effect in January 2020 but will likely be challenged in court.

“This anti-abortion law in Georgia is so upsetting, inhumane, and blatantly demonstrative of a hatred of women, a disregard for our rights, bodies, mental health, and essentially a punishment for rape victims, forcing to carry the baby of their rapist,” she wrote in the thread. Jamil also went on to make clear that she wasn’t criticizing foster care, but rather the burden the abortion ban would place on the overwhelmed foster care system. “Ps.. this isn’t any diss at ALL to foster homes. I’m in awe of people who take in children in need of a family and a home: but if Georgia becomes inundated with children who are unwanted or unable to be cared for, it will be hard to find great fostering for them all.”

As Glamour has reported, under the abortion ban—the most extreme abortion ban nationwide—women who get the procedure could face life in prison and even be sentenced to death. If a woman travels to another state to have an abortion, she could be charged with conspiracy to commit murder and could face a decade behind bars. In a follow-up tweet, Jamil wrote that “the anti-abortion law is also especially targeted at those without the means/ability to move state[s]. Women who are marginalized, poor or disabled will, as ever, be the ones to suffer the most. The wealthy will have so much more freedom.”

Other stars have been quick to come out against the bill. On her talk show, Busy Tonight, Busy Philips shared her own abortion story. “I had an abortion when I was 15-years-old. I’m telling you this because I’m genuinely really scared for women and girls all over this country,” Philips said. And activist and actress Alyssa Milano proposed a now-controversial sex strike to fight all anti-abortion laws.

“Our reproductive rights are being erased. Until women have legal control over our own bodies we just cannot risk pregnancy. JOIN ME by not having sex until we get bodily autonomy back. I’m calling for a #SexStrike. Pass it on,” she tweeted.





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Jameela Jamil Sparked an Internet Debate Over Her Comments About the Kardashians


The Good Place actress Jameela Jamil has never shied away from tackling society’s obsession with dictating and policing how women “should” look. Earlier this year, she launched an Instagram account called “I Weigh” that seeks to measure women by “achievements and experiences, not pounds and kilograms” and later poured her feelings into a powerful piece for Glamour.com: “Our culture is obsessed with women’s appearances, and it’s holding us back as a gender.”

Now, she’s back in the spotlight for taking on these issues again. She went on a podcast from the U.K.’s Channel 4 late last week and talked specifically about the Kardashians, whom she has called out in the past for promoting unrealistic standards of beauty to young girls. After Kim Kardashian posted an ad promoting an appetite-suppressant lollipop in May, Jamil had screenshot the images and written on Twitter, “No. Fuck off. No. You terrible and toxic influence on young girls,” she wrote on Twitter. “I admire their mother’s branding capabilities, she is an exploitative but innovative genius, however this family makes me feel actual despair over what women are reduced to.”

On the Channel 4 podcast, hosted by Krishnan Guru-Murthy, Jamil elaborated about why she called the Kardashians toxic—and how she feels their influence embodies the idea of a “double agent for the patriarchy.”

“The double agent for the patriarchy is basically just a woman who perhaps unknowingly is putting the patriarchal narrative out into the world,” she said, adding later, “But it’s a wolf in sheep’s clothing: Just because you look like a woman, we trust you and we think you’re on our side, but you are selling us something that really doesn’t make us feel good… You’re selling us self-consciousness.”

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While many people embraced Jamil’s criticism as constructive, the Internet was quickly divided. Some pointed out that in the past, Jamil has made comments about the sexuality of artists like Beyoncé and Miley Cyrus. “Jameela Jamil has history for policing/shaming women for ~using their sexuality~ & it’s so tedious,” one Twitter user wrote.

In the Guardian on Sunday, Frances Ryan had a different take than Jamil.

She wrote about why calling Kardashian “a double agent for the patriarchy” can be problematic—but also argued that Jamil made an important point worth exploring: “Still, blaming other women for misogyny has always felt uncomfortable—like you are doing patriarchy’s job by turning on women pressured to conform to sexism, rather than critiquing the male-dominated structures that got us here. But Jamil is surely speaking out about a side to sexism that is worth confronting.”

There are more than a few sides to sexism and misogyny worth confronting, and whether or not you agree with Jamil, it’s worth considering the mixed messages the Kardashians send under the guise of being feminist—and figuring out how they fit into how you define (and live out) the concept.

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