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Sandra Oh Brought Her Parents to the Emmy Awards, and Twitter Is Obsessed


Sandra Oh made Emmy history this year as the first Asian woman nominated as outstanding lead actor in a drama series, thanks to her role in BBC America’s Killing Eve. But it was her parents who stole the show at the ceremony on Monday night (September 17) when they accompanied their daughter on the red carpet.

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Joon-soo and Young-nam Oh even joined the actress and Grey’s Anatomy alum in front of the cameras—most notably, to gush about Sandra during an interview with Variety. “I’m so proud of her,” Young-nam said before planting a kiss on her daughter’s cheek.

“Oh my God, that happened on film!” Sandra said in response.

Watch the sweet moment, below:

People also noted that Mrs. Oh wore a hanbok, a Korean dress often worn at formal celebrations and ceremonies, to the Emmys. (Sandra actually wore a modern take on a hanbok to the SAG awards in 2008.) For many, Mrs. Oh’s dress was a proud moment of representation. Mr. Oh, meanwhile, looked dashing in his tux.

“Sandra Oh’s mother is wearing a hanbok and has done more for East Asian representation on television than all the broadcasts networks combined,” one Twitter user wrote. Writer and Sleepy Hollow showrunner Albert Kim tweeted, “Sandra Oh’s mom wore a hanbok to the Emmys! There is a hanbok at the Emmys! Forget K-pop, THIS is the sign that Koreans have arrived.” See more Twitter reactions to the Oh family, below:

Throughout the night, the camera panned to Sandra’s parents sitting next to her, and they excitedly cheered her on as her category was announced. Sandra has received five Emmy nominations for her work on Grey’s Anatomy but never won, and many hoped this year would be her big moment. However, The Crown‘s Claire Foy ended up receiving the award. Still, we hope this means Sandra will continue getting recognized for her work—and bringing her parents to award shows, obviously.





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At the Border, Parents Seeking Asylum Are Willing to Risk Separation Than Go Back to Danger


There’s a certain irony to the fact that the land stretching along the California and Mexico border is a disarmingly beautiful place—the bright, flower-filled fields dotted with charming horse farms puts forth a stark contrast to the Trump administration’s “zero tolerance” immigration policy, one that’s ripped families apart and reportedly leaves migrant children vulnerable to physical and mental trauma.

On Monday, I made my way to the San Diego border alongside Enrique Morones, the founder of Border Angels, and Hugo Castro, a board member of the faith-based nonprofit that advocates for human rights. Admittedly, in my five years of living in Los Angeles, it was my first trip to see the imposing fence for myself. And it marked the first time I drove across the border in more than 20 years.

In San Diego, Morones invited me along for a talk and tour he was giving to a group students on a mission from California and Oregon. Another bit of irony: We met, in all places, at Friendship Park.

A national monument adjacent to Border Field State Park, Friendship Park was dedicated by then-first lady Pat Nixon in 1971. At the time, the only border was a small barbed wire fence, where people could meet on either side to see loved ones, shake hands or share a familial hug. Now, an 18-foot high metal fence blocks all access to people on the other side. Approaching within several yards of the fence during non-visitor hours, which have been restricted to just Saturdays and Sundays from 10 a.m. to 2 .pm., is strictly prohibited.

After making the 40-minute walk from the Border Field State Park entrance to Friendship Park’s beach, we were once again struck by the border’s off-putting dichotomy, but not in the way you’d think. On the United States side sat a barren beach, save for one border patrol agent standing guard on a high perched cliff and a few people riding their horses down the stretch of sand. However, on the Mexico side, was a true Sunday party. Families gathered on the beach, frolicked in the chilly Pacific waters, and played music. The sound of laughter even flowed through the tightly-knit fence that stretched past the crashing waves and into a borderless ocean beyond.

I walked down to where a border patrol agent sat, to get a glimpse of his view. He bellowed out a command to a man approaching the fence just before I stepped down next to his truck. A few students from my group followed behind and asked him why he chose to become a border agent.

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A border patrol agent looks over the Pacific Ocean.

“To protect the laws of the United States. Immigration or otherwise,” he said, in such a rapid response that it was clear he’s answered this question before. “Immigration is a very touchy subject, but you gotta remember one thing—it’s the law.”

He went on to share with the teenagers, some as young as 13 years old, that if their own mother or father committed a crime, say like robbing a bank, they too would be separated from them, which is indeed a fact.

However, he did not mention that people attempting to cross at the legal point of entry just miles from his feet aren’t committing a crime. Instead, they’re seeking asylum—which essentially means they’re asking for protection from another country because of persecution or dangerous circumstances—or going by the letter of the law to cross with proper paperwork. Even those attempting to cross illegally for the first time are simply committing a civil offense, not a criminal one.

But, even with the current “zero tolerance policy” put forth by the Trump administration, families are still attempting to cross. Because going home again would be doing so at their family’s own peril.

“We cannot work in Mexico because we are scared of our children being kidnapped,” 34-year-old mother Alejandra* told me as she sat inside the Movimiento Juventud 2000 shelter in Tijuana’s Zona Norte neighborhood, a community in one of the nation’s deadliest cities (which hit a record 1,744 homicides in 2017). But, the Movimiento Juventud 2000 is also one of the closest shelters to the port of entry, which sits just miles from the U.S. border, making it the most desirable location for those seeking entry.

Each day, they go to the port to check where their names are on the asylum list. And each day they are told to come back tomorrow.

In the shelter, Alejandra and her family share two brightly-colored camping tents provided by donation. When they arrived, they were given a home, along with blankets and hygienic products in a small pack. There, the family is also provided a few meals a day. When I visited, dinner was a small bowl of soup and bagels donated from a local shop. They sat at the communal tables filled with children and teenagers. Alejandra watched as her children enjoyed the welcomed meal with their new friends before she herself ate the leftover parts of the bagel her youngest daughter left behind.

Through Castro, Alejandra explained that she and her husband, along with their five children — four girls and one boy — fled their home in Guerrero, Mexico, a state encompassing the idyllic resort community of Acapulco, which was once frequented by American tourists. However, because of gang violence, people native to the community are fleeing, and the U.S. State Department issued a travel warning for all Americans in the region. And though the government doesn’t believe it’s safe enough for Americans to visit, they also don’t believe it’s dangerous enough for Mexicans to warrant asylum.

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Children at the Movimiento Juventud 2000 shelter in Mexico eat bagels and soup for dinner.

As Attorney General Jeff Sessions declared last week, “Generally, claims by aliens pertaining to domestic violence or gang violence perpetrated by non-governmental actors will not qualify for asylum.”

But there, in the community where Alejandra grew up, and where she left her mother and father behind, she explained that they would not be able to afford a ransom if their children were kidnapped.

And this isn’t the unfounded fear of a hysterical mother. As Al Jazeera reported, 834 Mexicans were killed in Guerrero alone in 2017.

So, the family of seven simply sit and wait inside the shelter, which is a glorified parking lot filled with wall-to-wall tents like theirs. It’s a place they’re more than happy to call home as they all take their chances at the port of entry each day. So far, Alejandra explained as she stroked her youngest daughter’s hair, they have been waiting for two weeks. Each day, they go to the port to check where their names are on the asylum list. And each day they are told to come back tomorrow.

According to the shelter’s director, José María García Lara, who has run the shelter for about seven years, that asylum list has become increasingly long, and the port only processes about 20 to 30 applications a day.

Tents line the parking lot at the Movimiento Juventud 2000 shelter in Mexico.

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Tents line the parking lot at the Movimiento Juventud 2000 shelter in Mexico.

“Every day around 10 people arrive, and around 10 leave, so we cannot take more people because we have a maximum capacity of 107,” García Lara explained via Castro, as we spoke outside the shelter as the sun went down. While speaking, a few people began to meander down the street, hoping to gain entry to his shelter for the night.

When asked if he knows if people are being separated from their children once they pass through, he said it’s simply something he does not know.

“We have not been able to know,” he said. “We do not have any information.”



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George and Amal Clooney Just Donated $100,000 to Help Migrant Children Separated From Their Parents


George and Amal Clooney are the latest celebrities to take a stand against the immigration crisis and child detention centers at the U.S.-Mexico border: The couple just announced that their Clooney Foundation for Justice will donate $100,000 to the Young Center for Immigrant Children’s Rights, according to People.

The parents to 1-year-old twins Ella and Alexander said their own young children inspired them to act in defense of the families being separated at our borders.

“At some point in the future our children will ask us: ‘Is it true, did our country really take babies from their parents and put them in detention centers?’ And when we answer yes, they’ll ask us what we did about it. What we said. Where we stood,” the Clooneys said in a statement. “We can’t change this administration’s policy but we can help defend the victims of it.”

The Clooneys aren’t the first celebrities to step up in the wake of the separation of migrant families—a practice that has even been condemned by the pope. Last week when Chrissy Teigen and John Legend marked President Donald Trump’s 72nd birthday by donating $72,000 for each member of their family to the ACLU—which prompted more than 20,000 people to donate—they raised more than $1 million total.

And this is hardly the first time that the Clooneys have shown their support, both in action and donations, to critical causes: The power couple have previously taken a[Yazidi refugee into their home after he narrowly escaped ISIS, pledged $500,000 to the March for Our Lives following the shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School, and worked to combat hate groups in the U.S. and seek justice for refugees abroad through their foundation.

Additionally, Amal Clooney has spent her 16-year legal career specializing in international law and human rights.

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Melania Trump 'Hates to See' Children Being Separated From Parents at Borders


In a rare statement on policy, Melania Trump has spoken out about the separation of immigrant children from their parents at borders. Trump’s communications director, Stephanie Grisham, told CNN today, June 17, that the first lady thinks the U.S. should “govern with heart” when it comes to immigration.

“Mrs. Trump hates to see children separated from their families and hopes both sides of the aisle can finally come together to achieve successful immigration reform,” Grisham said in a statement to CNN. “She believes we need to be a country that follows all laws, but also a country that governs with heart.”

This comes after a Department of Homeland Security spokesperson told NPR on June 16 that an estimated 1,995 minors have been separated from their parents and guardians at the U.S. border between April 19 and the end of May. According to CNN, it’s part of a new administration policy that charges every adult caught crossing the border illegally with federal crimes. (Previous administrations typically referred those with children to immigration courts.)

Since the news broke, there has been a public debate about the policy and many have shared images and stories of the children caught in the middle. President Trump weighed in on the debate via Twitter, writing, “Democrats can fix their forced family breakup at the Border by working with Republicans on new legislation, for a change! This is why we need more Republicans elected in November. Democrats are good at only three things, High Taxes, High Crime and Obstruction. Sad!”

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NBC's Katy Tur Swore She'd Never Follow Her Parents Into Journalism


My mom likes to say I’ve been covering news since the day I was born—longer if you count my time in utero. The day she went into labor, my parents were in Hollywood covering a shooting, a mugging gone wrong. There was no question my mom would join my dad at the scene, even if she was nine days overdue. They were a husband-and-wife reporting team, the founders of the Los Angeles News Service, so she grabbed her 17-pound tape deck, and off we went. Eighteen hours later the Tur family had another journalist in the world, though it would be more than 18 years before I knew it.

Looking back after more than a decade in live television, I suppose my career choice was inevitable. The sound of the police and fire scanner, which my parents relied on for stories, was my music box and my bedtime story. My mom says it’s the reason my first word was hot and, only half-jokingly, that my second and third were smoke and showing.

My parents got ahead in the news business with wits, guts, and a ­crea­tive interpretation of “fair game.” They leased their first helicopter in 1985, when KTLA news crews were on strike. Maybe the crews had good grievances, maybe not. Either way, my parents ignored the strike and went to work. They had a one-year-old at home (me) and another kid on the way.

After a few months with KTLA, they also had $30,000. With that down payment, plus a good sales pitch, my dad convinced Bell Helicopters to lease him a $250,000 chopper. TV news would never be the same.

Bob and Marika Tur were not the first to use a helicopter, but they were the first to do something memorable with one. My dad didn’t have his license yet when they got their first big scoop: Sean Penn and Madonna’s 1985 wedding on the coast of Malibu. He hired a pilot to hover 150 feet off the bluff, so close that Madonna flipped him the finger. He sold the pictures for six figures.

Soon they had settled into a routine: Dad flying, Mom on camera. She was fearless. She’d hang out over the skids, hundreds of feet in the air, a 30-pound Betacam on her shoulder. They couldn’t send the videos live, so they flew tapes from station to station, dropping them from the copter down to the roof where a producer waited. To keep the tapes from breaking on impact, my mom wrapped them in anything she had on hand, usually clothing. On busy days it wasn’t unusual for her to get back to the hangar in her underwear.

Meanwhile, my dad filed live radio reports, his hands on the controls and his eyes on the news unfolding below him. When I was five, he started asking me to work up my own live reports. In one, I tell the story of an imaginary fire in San Diego that ended with all my friends and me having a party at McDonald’s. And you know what? I wasn’t so bad. (See for yourself at glamour.com!) My mom and dad were “helicopter parents,” literally. Meaning, I didn’t have a nanny, so I went up in the helicopter. My entire early childhood education consisted of tagging along while they reported on car accidents, multiple-alarm fires, and shootouts.

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In elementary school I spent weekends in the air over Los Angeles. On a slow news day, my dad would fly us down to Catalina Island for lunch, or we’d fly low over the beach. Once, during the Rose Parade, I unbuckled my seat belt and opened the chopper door so I could get a better look at the floats. (Later, my dad said I almost gave him a heart attack. I wouldn’t have known—he was that cool under pressure.)

It was fun in retrospect. Kids are kids, though, and before long I thought our Christmas cards—me and my brother, with our dog, in flight headphones (see left)—were boring. Getting picked up from sleepaway camp in a helicopter was mortifying; so was the overhead cheering section during my softball games. By middle school I wanted nothing to do with the news.

I maintained that point of view even when a truck driver named Reginald Denny stopped in the wrong intersection at the wrong time at the outbreak of the 1992 L.A. riots. Bob and Marika were on the scene. When Denny got pulled from the driver’s seat by a group of gang members, they flew lower. When the mob pulled him to the ground and started kicking him, they got lower again—as low as 70 feet, close enough for bullets to damage the engine. It wasn’t about getting the shot anymore; it was about trying to save the man’s life by scaring off the crowd. But the crowd closed in, and the cops were nowhere in sight. With millions tuned in live, my dad declared that the LAPD had abandoned the city.

My brother and I watched from our grandparents’ house and then lived through the aftermath—not only of the riot but of the journalism. Gangs were angry about my parents’ coverage. We started getting death threats. My dad got his first concealed weapons permit. For years he wore a gun on his belt every day and slept with it under his pillow. Those were scary times.
Not even O.J. Simpson’s strange, slow-speed car chase was enough to reignite my interest in my parents’ job. In fact, when I saw their helicopter hovering over my school one day, I was convinced they were trying to spy on me and my friends. They were not. Simpson had led cops to his house, which happened to be nearby. My parents got the footage, made some serious money, and burnished their reputation.

Then, in 1998, when I was 14, it all fell apart. The main station my parents worked with got its own helicopter. It didn’t need my parents anymore, and didn’t want to need them. My dad had a temper and was tough to work with. In the months that followed, he had heart surgery, my grandmother died, and my parents lost their bearings, both professionally and personally. The bills piled up. The fancy vacations disappeared. The rent was late. And we stopped answering the phone because it was always a bill collector. Our dwindling bank account wasn’t the worst of it; for me, it was the loss of my role models. My parents were depressed and angry. Instead of looking to find a new path, something they were always so good at, they froze like a watch in an explosion. There was no more future, only the past. The news business broke us apart.

I went off to the University of California, Santa Barbara, on a boatload of loans, sights set on becoming a doctor or a ­lawyer. Stable. Predictable. Then a funny thing happened during my senior year. I was driving back to Santa Barbara from Los Angeles with my college boyfriend, when we ran into a roadblock—nothing major, a brushfire in Malibu. Instead of taking the detour, I wanted to drive straight—toward the flames—to see the action. So I reached into my wallet and grabbed the press pass my dad had made for me. What the hell, I thought. Let’s see if we can get in. I pulled up to the officer guarding the road and flashed my pass.

“Who do you work for?” he asked suspiciously.

“Los Angeles News Service,” I said.

He looked down, back at me, then down again. “Where’s your gear?”

“My crew is up ahead. They have the cameras.”

“All right,” he said. “Be careful.”

My boyfriend was awestruck. “I’ve never seen you more confident than you were just now, lying to that officer,” he said.

A couple of weeks later, a school counselor was telling me what LSAT score I’d need to get into UCLA when something clicked—or unclicked. I didn’t want to be a lawyer. I wanted to chase the news. I couldn’t say why, exactly. I still hated the camera. But suddenly journalism seemed like a lot more fun than pushing paper behind a desk in a faceless office building.
I told my dad about my decision over lunch. I thought he’d be excited; instead he was furious and condescending. “You might want to practice, ‘Do you want fries with that?’ because you’re never going to make it,” he said. He was convinced our name would get me blacklisted; I thought he was treating me like a child. The fight continued all the way to my front door, which I slammed in his face. We didn’t talk for a week.

I graduated in June 2005. In July of that year, I walked into my first job as a journalist—in, of all places, the KTLA newsroom. It smelled like must, dust, and videotape. Exactly as it did when I was little. I was home.

Katy Tur is a correspondent for NBC News. This piece is adapted from her book, Unbelievable: My Front-Row Seat to the Craziest Campaign in American History.



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