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Hilary Duff Just Opened Up About Her 'Hard as Hell' Pregnancy


Hilary Duff is currently expecting her second child, and she took to Instagram this week to open up about her “hard as hell” pregnancy.

“The boobs are big the belly is big the body is big. Man.. pregnancy is hard. Giving love to all mamas who make it look effortless… this journey is hard as hell and also incredibly special,” Duff captioned a mirror selfie showing off her bare baby bump on Wednesday. “Lovely to have a little life inside and to day dream of all the new adventures to come buuuut almost impossible to get my own shoes on..sick of getting up 9 times a night to pee and looking at this weird body in the mirror that is not my own at the moment. Women are so bad ass, this was just a note to remind myself and remind others how strong and beautiful you are! WE GOT THIS! ?❤️???✨.”

Duff and Koma announced they were expecting via a pair of matching Instagram posts in early June. “Guess what guys! @matthewkoma and I made a little princess of our own and we couldn’t be more excited!!!!!!” Duff captioned her post. Since then, she’s given her fans and followers frequent updates about her pregnancy.

Not long after Wednesday’s post, Duff took to her Instagram Story to answer some fan questions.”We have picked out the baby’s name, which is super cool and relieves a lot of stress, because we agreed on it right away. I think we’re not ready to share, and we won’t until she’s born, just because we don’t really wanna hear people’s opinions on it. It’s a very personal choice,” Duff said in response to one fan who asked about her future daughter’s name. Congrats again, Hilary!

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Uma Thurman Just Opened Up About Harvey Weinstein


Back in November, as allegations against Harvey Weinstein were mounting, Uma Thurman was asked about her experience with the producer on the red carpet. Her response, defined by its decisive control and emotional restraint, was chilling: “I don’t have a tidy sound bite for you,” she said. “Because I have learned—I am not a child, and I have learned that when I’ve spoken in anger, I usually regret the way I express myself. So I’ve been waiting to feel less angry, and when I’m ready, I’ll say what I have to say.” On Thanksgiving, two weeks later, she posted a holiday message—complete with an image of her as the bride from Kill Bill driving a convertible—that wasn’t exactly in line with usual seasonal celebrity greetings: “I said I was angry recently, and I have a few reasons, #metoo […] I feel it’s important to take your time, be fair, be exact, so… Happy Thanksgiving Everyone! (Except you Harvey, and all your wicked conspirators – I’m glad it’s going slowly – you don’t deserve a bullet) -stay tuned,” she wrote.

Now in a New York Times op-ed by Maureen Dowd, Thurman has broken her silence about her ordeal with Weinstein in interviews with Dowd. Thurman is known for her roles in Pulp Fiction and Kill Bill: both creations stemming from the filmmaking partnership of Quentin Tarantino and Weinstein. Pulp Fiction is a film that made Weinstein’s career—and, in the piece, Thurman says he introduced her to President Obama as “the reason he had his house.”

“I am one of the reasons that a young girl would walk into his room alone, the way I did,” she said. “Quentin used Harvey as the executive producer of Kill Bill, a movie that symbolizes female empowerment. And all these lambs walked into slaughter because they were convinced nobody rises to such a position who would do something illegal to you, but they do.”

Thurman also addressed the red-carpet moment: “I used the word ‘anger,’ but I was more worried about crying, to tell you the truth,” she told Dowd. “I was not a groundbreaker on a story I knew to be true. So what you really saw was a person buying time.”

In the column, Thurman references a previous rape—she was 16; he was 20 years older, she says, and adds that the ordeal made her “less compliant”—before talking about Weinstein. “I knew him pretty well before he [Weinstein] attacked me,” she said, adding that this took place after Pulp Fiction‘s massive success. “He used to spend hours talking to me about material and complimenting my mind and validating me. It possibly made me overlook warning signs. This was my champion. I was never any kind of studio darling. He had a chokehold on the type of films and directors that were right for me.”

She mentions that a hotel room meeting in Paris was the first time something was off—they were arguing about a script when he led her, in his bathrobe, to a steam room. Thurman says she was wearing a full black leather outfit and asked him what he was doing. He “ran out” of the room.

“Mr. Weinstein acknowledges making a pass at Ms. Thurman in England after misreading her signals in Paris,” a statement from Weinstein’s spokesperson says. “He immediately apologized.”

Not long after that, in Weinstein’s suite in the Savoy Hotel in London, was the first attack, she alleges: “It was such a bat to the head. He pushed me down. He tried to shove himself on me. He tried to expose himself. He did all kinds of unpleasant things. But he didn’t actually put his back into it and force me. You’re like an animal wriggling away, like a lizard. I was doing anything I could to get the train back on the track. My track. Not his track.”

The next day, Thurman says, he sent a “vulgar” bunch of roses to the friend’s house she was staying at with a note saying she had “great instincts.” Soon after, at a meeting meant to confront Weinstein about it at the Savoy bar—one she brought a friend to—she alleges that Weinstein’s assistants “pressured” her into going to his hotel room. She finally agreed to go upstairs and says she warned Weinstein that he would lose his career, reputation, and family if he assaulted others. Thurman says she doesn’t remember what happened next.

Her friend was waiting for her, anxious, until the elevator doors opened: “She was very disheveled and so upset and had this blank look,” he recalled. “Her eyes were crazy and she was totally out of control. I shoveled her into the taxi and we went home to my house. She was really shaking.” According to her friend, Weinstein had threatened to derail her career (Weinstein’s spokesperson denies he said this).

From there, Thurman says, she saw Weinstein as an enemy. However, they continued to work together—Thurman thought she had “aged out of the window of his assault range.” In 2001, she was at Cannes and about to make Kill Bill. She says Tarantino told her she was acting”skittish” around Weinstein at a dinner, and when she reminded him of the Savoy incident (which, she says, Tarantino had previously “probably dismissed”) he confronted Weinstein. Tarantino confronted Weinstein, who acted “hurt and surprised” before she “firmly reiterated” what had happened, she says. Thurman says Weinstein changed to being “ashamed” and offered up a “half-assed apology.” (Dowd adds it included “many of the sentiments he would trot out about 16 years later.”)

But then something else happened, and Thurman’s account of it is horrific. Remember the Thanksgiving Instagram pic of her as the bride? It had a deeper meaning.

According to Thurman, she was asked to do the driving in the famous scene of her in Kill Bill but was tipped off by a crewmember that the car might not be working well. Thurman says she asked for a stunt person to do it instead (producers say they don’t remember her objecting), but recounts that Tarantino came in her trailer and told her to drive it, that the car and road were fine. She says he told her, “Hit 40 miles per hour or your hair won’t blow the right way and I’ll make you do it again,” and alleges, “that was a deathbox that I was in. The seat wasn’t screwed down properly. It was a sand road and it was not a straight road.”

There was a crash, captured on footage that took her 15 years to get, she says. The car veered off the road and crashed into a palm tree. “The steering wheel was at my belly and my legs were jammed under me. I felt this searing pain and thought, ‘Oh my God, I’m never going to walk again,’” she says. “When I came back from the hospital in a neck brace with my knees damaged and a large massive egg on my head and a concussion, I wanted to see the car and I was very upset. Quentin and I had an enormous fight, and I accused him of trying to kill me. And he was very angry at that, I guess understandably, because he didn’t feel he had tried to kill me.”

She tried to get the footage of the crash but Miramax responded that they’d show it to her if they were absolved of any “consequences of my future pain and suffering,” she says, adding later that her neck and knees are permanently damaged. Her working relationship with Tarantino was also damaged. “When they turned on me after the accident,” she told Dowd, “I went from being a creative contributor and performer to being like a broken tool.”

“Personally, it has taken me 47 years to stop calling people who are mean to you ‘in love’ with you,” Thurman tells Dowd. “It took a long time because I think that as little girls we are conditioned to believe that cruelty and love somehow have a connection, and that is like the sort of era that we need to evolve out of.”

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Kesha Just Opened Up About What Her Powerful Song 'Praying' Means to Her


We can discuss our outrage about Grammy snubs all day (this author is looking at Harry Styles), but as the evening draws closer, the excitement over who will be performing is real. After all, the Grammy Awards ceremony has a history of epic, memorable performances—just watch Michael Jackson’s 1988 performance for yourself. This year, none other than Kesha is set to take the stage Sunday night. She’s expected to sing her Grammy-nominated song “Praying”, one she wrote amid legal battles with her ex-producer Dr. Luke, whom she accused of emotionally and physically abusing her in 2014.

As #MeToo and Time’s Up gain traction, the Grammy Awards this year have even more meaning, and nominees and presenters are expected to wear white roses in solidarity for the latter movement. Ahead of the New York City based ceremony, Kesha took to her Twitter account to tell her fans what singing the song really means to her.

“When i wrote praying, with ben abraham and ryan lewis, i just felt as if i had gotten a huge weight off of my shoulders,” she wrote alongside a picture of Madison Square Garden. “it felt like an emotional raw victory for myself, one step closer to healing. I never could have known what would’ve happened these past few years.”

She continued the thread with another tweet: “i just want to say that i needed this song in a very real way, im so proud and nervous and overwhelmed to be performing it at the grammys on sunday, and if you need it i hope this song finds you. ”

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Rosario Dawson Just Opened Up About Being Sexually Molested as a Child


Luke Cage actress and feminist activist Rosario Dawson has opening up about her experience with sexual molestation as a child on new a podcast. Speaking on Friday’s episode of the Morado Lens show, Dawson recounted to hosts Cindy Rodriguez and Nathalie Farfan how the sexual abuse she went through as a young girl shaped how she perceived Hollywood and how she feels now as the #MeToo movement explodes.

“I was raped and molested as a child, so for me, the world was like that since I was a child,” she said in the devastating revelation. “So when I saw it in the workplace, it wasn’t foreign to me. It was like, well, that even happens within family. It happens with people that are supposed to take care of you when you’re a child.”

Back in October, she had come forward on Twitter under the #MeToo hashtag, though she did not share any specifics of her story in her original tweet.

Dawson has also been vocally involved with the Time’s Up movement, an initiative created by 300 powerful Hollywood women to establish a fund for women who have been experiencing sexual harassment or assault and might not be able to otherwise afford legal help.

On the podcast, she also spoke out about how glad she is that after decades of Hollywood’s stories of sexual misconduct being swept under the rug or avoided, the issue is finally being addressed. “Now we’re in a place where it’s finally like, ‘No, we don’t have to keep passing this on. This is archaic and terrible and destructive. Let’s look at it,” she said. “It’s beautiful. I’m so ready for this moment.”

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How the Aziz Ansari Allegations Opened Up a New Frontier in the #MeToo Conversation


In the wake of a week when #TimesUp and #MeToo again dominated headlines—starting at the Golden Globes and continuing with allegations against James Franco—a new frontier in the conversation around sexual consent and coercion opened up over the weekend following unsettling allegations concerning actor and comedian Aziz Ansari.

In a report posted January 13 on Babe.net, a woman—who gave her story under the pseudonym “Grace”—shared that she went out on a date with Ansari in September 2017. When they returned to Ansari’s apartment after dinner, Grace says things “escalated” quickly, to the point where she felt deeply uncomfortable. According to the Babe story, “when Ansari told her he was going to grab a condom within minutes of their first kiss … [she] said something like, ‘Whoa, let’s relax for a sec, let’s chill.’” Grace says even though Ansari seemed to at first understand and acknowledge her discomfort, she says he continued to pressure her into hooking up by following her around the apartment as she moved out of his way, asking her several times when he could have sex with her, and still making sexual advances even after she expressed discomfort. She finally insisted on leaving.

Ansari responded to the allegations late Sunday night, effectively confirming the series of events Grace told. Ansari said when he received the text message from Grace, he was “surprised and concerned” that what he perceived as “by all indications…completely consensual” sexual activity “was not the case for her.” He added that “I took her words to heart and responded privately after taking the time to process what she had said.” (You can read Ansari’s full response here.)

The allegations—and his response—sparked a heated conversation on social media and online, with some women seeing the allegations as a new, necessary discussion around consent, and others seeing the whole dust-up as overwrought—or worse, an unfair character assassination of Ansari, who has won accolades (including a recent Golden Globe award) for his show, Master of None. Some are even saying that claiming this type of experience as assault justifies calling the #MeToo movement a witch hunt and that it undercuts the stories of women who have been raped or experienced “more serious” sexual misconduct.

A piece titled “The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari” published by The Atlantic took this critical view one step further, comparing Grace’s approaching a website with her allegations to revenge porn. The writer of the piece, Caitlin Flanagan, stressed that this kind of behavior was not only normal but expected when she was a young adult—an odd twist on the defense Harvey Weinstein actually used in the wake of the allegations against him last fall.

The writer takes some damning shots at Grace and the journalist who told her story, saying “Together, the two women may have destroyed Ansari’s career, which is now the punishment for every kind of male sexual misconduct, from the grotesque to the disappointing.” She goes on to make an even more generalized attack on the young women most prominently making noise in this #MeToo moment:

“Apparently there is a whole country full of young women who don’t know how to call a cab, and who have spent a lot of time picking out pretty outfits for dates they hoped would be nights to remember. They’re angry and temporarily powerful and last night they destroyed a man who didn’t deserve it.”

For many women, though, the description of the interaction was a frustratingly familiar one: a date that turns awkward; a sexual encounter that one party felt was coercive and the other party felt was consensual. It’s one of the reasons that Grace’s story—and Ansari’s response—has ignited such a frenzied debate. Sure, this kind of behavior is the kind of thing that many women have dealt with—and, in many cases, created systems of managing—but does that make it OK? Writer Arnesa Buljusmic-Kustura captured the divide thusly on Twitter: “I saw someone tweet something like ‘if what Aziz Ansari did was sexual assault then every woman I know has been sexually assaulted’ and like yeah, actually.”

This experience sounds normal because it is a common experience for so many women. But the fact that it is common is really an example of how much we have normalized these situations—often putting the responsibility on women to get themselves out of (or avoid) uncomfortable situations, instead of making others accountable for their pushy, coercive behavior.

Let’s be clear: The point of the #MeToo movement is not to destroy men, but to create a safe space for women to share their experiences of sexual misconduct and hopefully give validation to the scores of other women who have been grappling with similar situations that have haunted them. While some people may have read this woman’s account and thought, “That’s not assault,” others have argued—justifiably—that this is, in fact, exactly what being taken advantage of sexually feels like. And no matter what, our default posture should be to believe and listen to these women.

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Kendall Jenner Just Opened Up About the Cause of Her Anxiety


Last year, the Kardashian-Jenner family got real about their struggles with anxiety, especially Kim Kardashian and Kendall Jenner. The sisters shared on Keeping Up With the Kardashians that they felt unsafe while traveling due to anxiety (Kim) and sleep paralysis (Kendall).

In the February issue of Harper’s Bazaar, Jenner opened up to interviewer Cara Delevingne about how much her anxiety has affected her and what’s at the root of the problem.

“I have such debilitating anxiety because of everything going on that I literally wake up in the middle of the night with full-on panic attacks,” Jenner said when Delevingne asked about what keeps her up at night.

What’s causing her panic attacks? She says it’s all of the negative things going on in the world—but especially on social media.

“Where do I even start? Everything is so horrible, it’s hard to name one thing,” Jenner said. “You go online and you see everyone saying the worst things to each other, and it’s hard to stay positive. It’s hard not to get eaten alive by all the negativity.”

She added that there are times she’d just rather escape on a trip to Disneyland or just go lay on the beach: “Some days I just want to go live on a farm and not talk to anyone and just exist in the middle of nowhere.”

Jenner announced in December that she would no longer be updating her app because she needs a break from social media.

“Lately I’ve just tried to stay off it, and I definitely don’t look at comments,” she told Delevingne. “I think Instagram is still a fun place for the most part. I like going on and seeing what people are up to.” Most of the accounts she follows are pictures of cute animals.

Twitter, however, just makes her sad, Jenner said. But recently she did hop on the platform to respond to a fan’s comment about her acne on the Golden Globes red carpet.

“I just think that the world needs so much love. I wish I had the power to send Cupid around the planet, as cheesy as that sounds,” she told Delevingne.

To be honest, that sounds pretty nice right about now.

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