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How Celebrities Talking About Money Are Inspiring Real Women to Ask for More


More and more, we’re seeing powerful women spark conversations about money, whether it be about equal pay, demanding more cash, or just straight-up bragging about their earnings. From Ellen Pompeo’s candid Hollywood Reporter interview about her salary on Grey’s Anatomy to Catt Sadler’s separation from E! News over a pay disparity to Cardi B’s braggadocious debut album, Invasion of Privacy, female celebrities are opening an important and long overdue dialogue about financial equality.

Frankly, it’s inspiring. By being outspoken about the archaic but pervasive issue of equal pay that still stains women’s reality—women are still being paid 78 cents to every dollar men make—celebrities are inspiring more women to do the same. Thanks to the visibility women like Pompeo and Cardi B are demanding, real women are listening, realizing their worth, and asking for more.

“I think, nationwide, females are starting to move into power positions like never before, and realizing being paid what they deserve shouldn’t be a deal breaker when searching for a job,” says Meagan, who works in marketing in New York. Citing Catt Sadler, the former E! News host quit her job after discovering her male costar was making double her salary, as her inspiration, Meagan says she recently got the confidence to ask for the money she felt she deserved.

“Two weeks ago, following a recent promotion, I got the courage to counter the salary offered to me and ask for more money based on what I believed I was worth,” she said. The New York native describes herself as naturally timid; before, she always thought asking an employer for more wasn’t an option for her. “I assumed in doing so, I would come off as unappreciative and arrogant—ultimately steering the employer in a different direction.” She’s still waiting to hear if her counter will be accepted, but now the CEO is involved in the discussions, which wouldn’t have happened if she hadn’t asked.

Sadler opened a vital conversation about the wage gap and made a volcanic statement by leaving the network after discovering a male colleague was making more than she was for similar work. The host’s actions also inspired a score of female celebrities—including Jennifer Lawrence, Amy Schumer, Olivia Munn, and Natalie Portman—to speak out on behalf of Sadler and demand change. Debra Messing even called out the entertainment network while live on an E! red carpet. These women affirmed that just acknowledging the wage gap is not enough; now we must demand action, and if action isn’t taken, we must take matters into our own hands.

It’s essential for women to see other women in positions of power banding together and setting a precedent like that. During awards season, Jessica Chastain made a monumental example by demanding equal pay for women of color, who make 63 cents for every dollar their white, male counterparts make. The actress negotiated to have her costar Octavia Spencer paid the same amount as her for an upcoming film. Later Jada Pinkett Smith revealed that Chastain did the same for thing for her.

Having women at the top of the food chain, advocating for such changes together, encourages others to do the same—something Meagan knows very well. “My CRO and boss are both females who constantly fight for what they believe in, fight to get the most money for their teams, and recognize their own value,” she says. “Being around that all the time made me reassess my own value and gave me the confidence to ask for more money.”

Ellen Pompeo credits her Grey’s Anatomy boss, showrunner Shonda Rhimes, with empowering her to recognize her own worth and demand financial credit for such. Now Pompeo is making $20 million per year on the long-running show and decided to speak publicly on the matter of equal pay in hopes of propelling the narrative forward.

Alexis, a content creator in Los Angeles, cites the Grey’s star as her own personal money hero. “I’ve recently been beyond inspired by reading about Ellen Pompeo talking about how she became the highest-paid actress on television,” she says. “Or when Emmy Rossum [who won her fight for equal pay on Shameless in 2016] demanded a higher pay than her male costar, to compensate for every year she was underpaid.”

“If you accept work that doesn’t meet your worth, that’s the work you’ll continue to invite into your life.”

Alexis has adopted Pompeo’s logic into her own career as an actress and creator. “Typically, with every deal I’m presented, be it a social media branded integration, dedicated YouTube video, or traditional media project, on a case-by-case basis, we as a team will go back and ask for a higher rate.” She adds, “I believe so strongly in protecting your diffusion of energy and not putting effort toward projects that are not creatively or monetarily stimulating. I think if you accept work that doesn’t meet your worth, that’s the work you’ll continue to invite into your life.”

Female celebrities are also shaping the narrative around women and money in other important ways too, by bringing visibility to the subject and normalizing talking about it. Money has erupted as a prevalent topic in female-driven pop culture, like Cardi B’s Invasion of Privacy, which features songs like “Money Bag,” where the MC brags about her riches (“I park my Bentley truck on my Versace driveway”) in a way that typically only men have been afforded the opportunity to do in the past. Of course, Cardi isn’t the first female rapper to brag about luxury cars, an overflowing closet, and money—but her album is the most recent and prominent example to center such.

Taylor Swift has even shifted into a more boastful aesthetic; her “End Game” music video features the pop star in a slew of lavish outfits, dripping in dazzling jewels, partying on yachts, driving with Future in convertible sports cars in cities around the globe. She’s presenting her wealth like, historically, we’ve only seen male artists do. This subtle nudge from the singer-songwriter is an important visual for women to witness and realize that they too—excuse the platitude—can flaunt it if they’ve got it.

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On TV, Lifetime’s flagship show Unreal also communicates the idea that women, like the executive producer of the show’s faux-reality series, Quinn (Constance Zimmer), can demand more without apologizing for it. In the season-three finale, Quinn jokes about evaporating patriarchal bullshit and instead installing matriarchal bullshit—all while building a one-bedroom mansion for herself to live in solitude, with the empire she’s worked her ass off to build. Even if Quinn’s life seems like an unreachable dreamscape, it’s inspiring to watch and important for women to visualize for themselves.

Ellen Pompeo is breaking the cycle and creating a space for her future generations, specifically her daughter, to see these realities. “My eight-year-old daughter gets to come here and see fierce females in charge. She loves to sit in the director’s chair with the headphones on yelling ‘Action’ and ‘Cut,’” she told the Hollywood Reporter. “She’s growing up in an environment where she’s completely comfortable with power. I don’t know any other environment in Hollywood where I could provide that for her. Now I hope that changes…and soon.”





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Halle Berry on the 'Catwoman' Failure: ‘I Got a Shit Load of Money That Changed My Life’


Actress Halle Berry spoke out on Monday about her role as Catwoman in the 2003 movie of the same name that wound up being—and there’s no way around this—a box-office bomb. For Berry, coming off of 2002’s Oscar-winning performance in Monster’s Ball, it could have put a stop to her Hollywood dreams. As it turns out, though, Berry has zero regrets about taking the movie on: For her, the movie taught her a valuable lesson about listening to her intuition—and, well, it also made her a ton of money.

She accepted the Matrix Award from New York Women in Communication Monday evening and opened up about Catwoman in her acceptance speech.

“Everybody around me said, ‘Girl, don’t do it. It’s going to be the death of you. It’s going to end your career.’ But guess what I did? I followed my intuition and I did a movie called Catwoman and it bombed miserably,” Berry said. “While it failed to most people, it wasn’t a failure for me because I met so many interesting people that I wouldn’t have met otherwise, I learned two forms of martial arts and I learned not what to do.”

She also added that she made “a shit-load of money that changed my life.”

And then Berry dropped some incredible advice on the audience: “I say that to say, Following your intuition doesn’t always mean you’re going to be successful or win the prize, but it means you’re always going to learn the exact lesson or get the exact accolades or the exact check that you’re supposed to get for yourself. Never compare that to anyone else.”

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J.Crew's New Denim Recycling Program Lets You Do Good *and* Save Money on New Jeans


J.Crew‘s first collection of 2018 has a singular focus: Denim for every day and every occasion. And unlike other new collection drops, you won’t have to wait months to get these jeans at a discount. Starting today, J.Crew is partnering with Blue Jeans Go Green, an organization that recycles old denim into housing insulation for communities in need, to collect customers’ gently-used jeans in stores and offer them a discount in return.

“The J.Crew Group has been a longtime supporter of the Blue Jeans Go Green program, with both Madewell and J.Crew participating over the last four years,” Andrea Samber, the Director of Consumer Marketing for Strategic Alliances at Blue Jeans Go Green’s parent organization Cotton Incorporated, tells Glamour. “We were thrilled to hear that denim was J.Crew’s focus for Spring 2018, [because] the Blue Jeans Go Green program is a great way to educate consumers about sustainability and diverting textile waste from landfills,” she adds. Since launching in 2006, Blue Jeans Go Green has kept over 1,000 tons of toxic waste out of landfills by recycling over 2 million denim items, on top of providing Habitat for Humanity with materials for housing insulation, according to Samber.

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Through the end of this year, if you bring your gently-used jeans into a J.Crew store, you’ll get $20 off any new denim item in return. There are no brand or style exclusions when it comes to what you can recycle. So, outside of doing some serious good, you can get some new threads in the process. (J.Crew ran a similar give-back-get-back campaign over the holidays, in partnership with One Warm Coat.)

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“Once the denim is given to J.Crew for recycling, it’s then sent to the program’s manufacturing partners in Arizona to begin the recycling process,” Samber explains. “All hardware, like rivets, and decorations are removed and recycled, and the denim is returned to its natural, original cotton fiber state.” After that material has been broken down, it’s treated with fire retardant solution and, eventually, turned into denim insulation.

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We’ve seen our fair share of limited-time-only sales, but there’s little risk of missing out on this do-good denim initiative. “While many of our retail partnerships have been shorter-term, the J.Crew program [is] unique in that [it’s] year round,” says Samber.

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So whether you’re in the market for new jeans right now or are looking to invest later on in the year, you have time to participate in a promotion that gives back to communities in need and is sustainably-minded. What better way to shop?

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I Canceled My Wedding Because I Would Rather Have the Money


On a recent trip to Los Angeles, as my fiancé and I were exploring the Venice Canal Historic District with friends, I realized how much we both wanted to move to the West Coast. He wanted warm weather, I wanted to have more opportunities as a full-time freelance writer, and we were both frustrated by the lack of fun culture in our current suburban Florida location. Plus, after the election in 2016, we realized that our very red county in our red state just wasn’t for us anymore. We were ready to pack up and move, but there was one catch: Money was tight, and we’d already started planning a wedding.

The idea of moving to California together had come up shortly after we began dating almost two years ago. I had recently left New York City, my home of 12 years, to relocate back to Florida temporarily, and he had moved from Chicago to our suburban town a few years earlier for a job opportunity. After our first moving talk, we set our sights on relocating permanently by mid-2017. But as the year began to draw to a close during our October visit, and a job that would pay to relocate us seemed more and more out of reach, we realized that we needed to rethink our strategy. We quizzed friends who had recently moved to California, and their success stories had one thing in common: They made the move on their own dime, typically after already connecting with companies and recruiters on the West Coast, and were all able to find jobs within a couple of months.

We realized we needed to move across the country on our own, but there were still those pesky wedding plans to think about. And weddings, just like moving, are expensive.

On the plane back home, we started to discuss the difficult question: How would we afford to move to California and plan a wedding? Although our parents are very supportive of our union, we decided to pay for our nuptials on our own. It was going to be a small, intimate affair, but even the smallest of weddings (ours would be no more than 50 people) can still cost thousands of dollars.

According to The Knot, the average cost of a wedding in 2016 was $35,329. Our budget was a third of that number and even that isn’t cheap. I couldn’t wrap my head around how we could be considering spending $10,000 or more on a one-day affair when we had the rest of our lives to worry about. I estimated that we would need about twice that amount in order to take the risk and move to L.A. without jobs secured.

It quickly became clear that the math just wasn’t in our favor, so we had a choice to make: wedding or marriage? And by marriage, I mean “elope.”

It’s maybe unsurprising—what with student debt at a record-high and wages surprisingly low, among other factors—that other millennial brides have faced this dilemma. According to Tracy Brisson, owner of Savannah Custom Weddings & Elopements, she saw “an extraordinary amount of cancelations in 2017.”

“Even after a non-refundable retainer was submitted, couples decided that they just needed to put off getting married for a while because of health or work or other personal reasons,” she told Glamour.com. “This never happened in past years.” Because she works primarily with elopers and small weddings, she saw a fair share of people who “abandoned their bigger plans in their hometown and ran to me in Savannah!”

But the biggest reason for canceled weddings appears to be financial.

“Being completely free of all debt is something that really matters to us,” says Stepfanie R. “We couldn’t justify spending thousands of dollars of our savings on a party or a piece of jewelry. All told, between a bottle of wine and a meal for our witnesses, new clothes, and a round of drinks for friends, we spent less than $500.”

While some couples decide to cancel their big wedding plans in order to save money, others simply decide that they want to spend money elsewhere—like buying a house. “Once we went through buying the house, I just couldn’t understand how spending money that would otherwise be spent updating our home for years to come on one day made any sense,” says Brittney C. “We’re in our 30s, we want to have kids—we didn’t want to wait and save money until we ‘had enough’ for a ‘dream wedding.’ So we said, ‘Screw it! Let’s elope!’”

For Lauren L., she and her partner realized only after booking a venue that they didn’t want a big wedding after all—nor the pressure that came with it. “We don’t have large families, and we were having a really hard time meeting the 120 guest limit [at our venue],” she says. “We were adding people from work, friends-of-friends that we had hung out with a few times, etcetera. Eventually, we questioned why: Why are we doing this huge thing with people we know we probably won’t talk to in a few years?” Instead, they cut down their guest list, picked a nearby destination, and put the money they saved on foregoing a big wedding toward “our dream honeymoon to Africa for three weeks, which became a huge priority for us.”

Prioritizing travel over a big wedding isn’t unusual, says Monique Wilber, owner of Sierra & Sky Weddings in Shingle Springs, California. “Couples I work with have ditched plans for a big traditional wedding,” she said. “The main reason they’ve given has been the expense, that they could use the money to pay off student loans and bills or to travel instead.”

Case in point: Anja and her fiancé decided to take a 10-month honeymoon rather than plan a wedding. “We are focusing on the long-term investment of getting on the right track together through 10 months of quality time,” she says. “We will never have such an amazing opportunity to bond and take time off.”

Even if almost a year of travel isn’t your thing, it’s not hard to understand where they’re coming from: By my current estimate, it will take Adam and I about that long to save up the money we’ll need to make the cross-country move from Florida to California. And since that’s our priority, the choice, for us, was clear: We had to cancel our wedding.

So on a Friday night just before Thanksgiving, we called our family and told them the news. We would be canceling our plans to get married in April 2018 in Chicago and, instead, elope at the end of 2017 in our current hometown in Florida. A few days later, we sent a big “Un-Save-The-Date” email to all 50 people on our guest list who had already received notice that we were getting married a few months earlier.

It took a few weeks to get used to the idea, but like when we met each other, when we knew, we knew.

At first, I battled feelings of guilt over disappointing friends and family that were already excitedly telling me they couldn’t wait for my “big day.” But I knew we were making the right decision for our marriage. We were starting our lives together in the place we truly want to live, we weren’t putting ourselves into debt, and we realized that one special day couldn’t possibly mean as much as the countless special days we would have in our new hometown.

Although none of the brides I spoke with regretted canceling their wedding, Stepfanie R. said it best: “My wedding day was a loving and joyful one, but honestly it’s not one of our favorite days together. It’s not the wedding that matters; it’s the marriage. We reminisce about our first international trip to Spain, where we skinny-dipped on New Year’s Day in the Mediterranean. We talk about our honeymoon in Vancouver, the long hikes in the mountains, and the antics of our three cats. We have never regretted eloping.”

As I look through photos of how our life in California has been so far, I know that we won’t either.



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Ellen DeGeneres Will Donate Money Every Time Someone Tweets #BeKindToElephants


Ellen DeGeneres is standing up for elephants by taking a stand against President Donald Trump.

On Thursday, DeGeneres took time during her show to explain to her massive audience that Trump plans to reverse an Obama-era ban on importing elephant trophies from Zimbabwe and Zambia.

“I want to talk about the elephant in the room. Literally, I want to talk about elephants,” DeGeneres said in a clip posted to Twitter.

After explaining Trump’s new policies on allowing people to bring parts of elephants back to the U.S. that were killed as trophies, DeGeneres argued, “Basically, by lifting this ban, he is encouraging Americans to kill elephants.”

The host added, “I love elephants, and if you take the time to learn about elephants, you would love elephants, too. Elephants show compassion, sympathy, social intelligence, self-awareness. They’re excellent at learning abilities. All the things I have yet to see in this president.”

To help combat this horrific policy reversal DeGeneres announced a new social media campaign aimed at raising both awareness of elephant poaching and raising funds for the David Sheldrick Wildlife Trust, a nonprofit that benefits African elephants.

With the campaign, DeGeneres said she will donate an undisclosed amount for every person who uses the #BeKindToElephants hashtag and reshares the image she created.

“If you’re not outraged, then I beg you to take a little time just to learn about elephants,” DeGeneres said while ending the clip. “They are worth fighting for, and we owe it to them to protect them.”

According to the World Wildlife Fund, African elephants are still listed as “vulnerable” to extinction. Their population, the WWF explained, plays a critical role in maintaining suitable habitats for many other species. It added, “In central African forests, up to 30 percent of tree species may require elephants to help with dispersal and germination. They play a pivotal role in shaping their habitat because of the enormous impact they have on factors ranging from fresh water to forest cover.”

But as the organization said, elephant populations are already in severe danger due to recent surges in poaching, something that surely will not be helped by opening the door for more trophy hunting.





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Best Hair Dryers of 2017: 8 Fancy Blow-Dryers Worth Your Money


There’s no hairstyle quite as transformative or difficult to re-create at home as a real good blowout. Blow-drying your own hair is hard, despite stylists swearing on their lives, graves, and favorite hairspray that with the right hairdryer even the most round-brush-inept can pull off a perfect blowout. No shade to the experts, but dropping half your rent money on a beauty tool that might leave you fried or frizzy is reason enough to keep booking Drybar appointments. Heck, it’s borderline fiscally responsible. But as much as we’d like to live in a world where we can budget both time and money on a pro job, we’d rather a good hair day be in our own hands. So our editors tested all the fanciest, most innovative hair-dryers to see if a faux-professional blowout at home is the stuff of myth or actually attainable. Spoiler: these dryers work like magic—and live up to their price tags.



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