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Shay Mitchell Opened Up About Her Miscarriage: It Was One of 'My Darkest Days'


At the end of each year, it’s typical for people to post a highlight reel from the past 12 months on social media. Actress Shay Mitchell decided to share not only the good—the business launch, the travel, the friends—but also the painful, like how in 2018, she suffered a miscarriage.

“Although it was an amazing year, it didn’t come without some hardships,” Mitchell wrote on her Instagram Story on Tuesday, before sharing an image of a sonogram with a broken heart over it.

“We all have to deal with various struggles and challenges in life,” the following slide read. “And sometimes it’s easier to only showcase the good times on social media, which is what leads many people to criticize it for its lack of authenticity. Having so many people follow me on Instagram and read my posts is both incredibly humbling and hugely uplifting. The support and affection that so many of you show me lifts me up during even my darkest days, one of which happened last year after I miscarried and lost the child of my hopes and dreams.”

Mitchell decided to share her experience with miscarriage, she explained, in order to encourage compassion on social media, as well as an understanding that people only share a fraction of what they’re going through personally.

“In the spirt of the new year, I think that we need to remember that we are all on this journey together—in good times and in bad—and to remind ourselves that we seldom really know or understand the struggles and hardships that other people are going through,” Mitchell wrote. “So, for 2019, let’s all try to be a little more compassionate, empathetic, patient and thoughtful with each other. This sounds like a great resolution to me. I hope that you agree. Happy New Year everyone.”

In recent years, more celebrities have opened up about their experiences with miscarriages, shining light on a still-under-discussed and painful subject. Former First Lady Michelle Obama wrote about one she suffered in her thirties in her memoir Becoming; Carrie Underwood has also shared her experiences with multiple miscarriages.

After Mitchell posted her Instagram Story, fans began to show support for the actress on social media, with the hashtag #AlwaysWithYouShay.

Mitchell later tweeted: “Here we go 2019, I am so, so ready for you.”

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Broken Harts, Episode 4: 'My God, There's Six of Them'


On Facebook, Jen Hart frequently wrote about her children, discussing what all six of them were up to in lengthy, paragraphs-long posts. But according to Bruce and Dana DeKalb, the Harts’ neighbors in Woodland, Washington, those posts provide a stark contrast to their own interactions with the six Hart children.

At first the DeKalbs rarely see the Harts, save a few chance encounters in their driveway. But this changes on Thursday, March 15, 2018 when Devonte approaches Bruce while he’s working outside and asks him for tortillas. The following morning, the DeKalbs answer a knock at their door: It’s Devonte again, this time asking for bread. Devonte shows up at the DeKalbs’ home asking for food on seven separate occasions that week.

While Jen is sharing pictures of Devonte on Facebook, smiling and seemingly happy, Bruce and Dana DeKalb are seeing something vastly different: A child who is afraid and hungry. Dana uses each one of those visits to gently prod for more information about the family.

What was going on inside the Hart family’s home? Here’s field reporter, Lauren Smiley, with the DeKalbs:

Devonte eventually opens up to the DeKalbs, stating that he and his siblings are being abused by Jen and Sarah. Upon hearing this, Dana DeKalb takes action, calling Child Protective Services on Friday, March 23, to report the information she has collected about her neighbors. Officials show up within a couple of hours, but when they knock on the door, neither Jen nor Sarah answers. That evening the two moms will pack up their Yukon with their six children and leave hurriedly, knocking over their stone wall in the process.

PHOTO: Clark County Sheriff’s Office Incident Report

On Saturday, March 24, the Harts’ phones pinged off cell towers along the Oregon coast into California, and on Sunday, the 25th, Jen shows up in a Safeway surveillance video in Fort Bragg: Alone, wearing eyeglasses and a hoodie, she pays $20.08 in cash for groceries.

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PHOTO: California Highway Patrol

On Monday, March 26, a Washington State CPS investigator calls 911 to request that a deputy go out to the Harts’ house.

That afternoon a German tourist spots the Harts’ tan 2003 Yukon XL upside down at the bottom of the cliff in Mendocino County. The bodies of Jen, Sarah, Markis, Abigail, and Jeremiah are found at the crash site; a foot, believed to be Hannah’s, is also discovered. Sierra’s body washed ashore about two weeks later. Devonte is still missing.

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No one in the car was wearing a seatbelt. Jen’s blood alcohol level was over the legal limit, and toxicology reports show that Sarah and two of the kids had allergy medication in their system that could have made them drowsy. The car’s computer shows that moments before the crash, Jen had stopped on a gravel pullout 70 feet from the edge of the cliff, only to then accelerate. According to a Carfax report, the brake pads had been replaced the previous July. Per industry experts, the average brake pad lasts for around 40,000 miles—implying that the brake pads were likely in working order.

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Were Jen and Sarah running from a longer tail of child abuse allegations? Did those who knew them earlier in life have any indication as to what was going on? That, and more, next time on Broken Harts.

Subscribe now to our new podcast, Broken Harts, from Glamour and HowStuffWorks and based on this story from the October 2018 issue of Glamour. New episodes will air each Tuesday; find them on Apple, Google, Spotify, or wherever you like to get your podcasts. For the full transcript of this episode, click here. Have any tips, feedback, or questions? Email us at brokenhartspodcast@gmail.com

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Lili Reinhart Shuts Down Pregnancy Rumors: 'My Body Is Something I Will Never Apologize For'


Lili Reinhart‘s had to deal with inquiries about her personal life for quite some time now. Ever since rumors erupted last summer that she’s dating her Riverdale co-star Cole Sprouse, Reinhart’s been living her life in a metaphorical fishbowl of sorts. Still, the actress has frequently shut down the idea that fans are entitled to information about her personal life. “It’s horrifying how invested some people are in my love life. Emphasis on ‘my.’ It is mine. It is private,” she wrote on Tumblr back in October.

Now, she’s addressing a different—and more offensive—type of scrutiny. Over the weekend, a photo surfaced of Reinhart that led many fans to think she’s pregnant. Below, just a few of the tweets from her followers:

Something similar happened to Today host Savannah Guthrie last week, when people online started debating her body and wondering whether or not she’s expecting. It’s a phenomenon that predominantly happens to female celebrities—and it’s not OK. Reinhart took to Instagram Stories on Monday (May 28) to say just that—and to confirm that, no, she isn’t pregnant.

“It’s unfortunate that one unflattering photo of my stomach circulating the Internet causes hundreds of people to think that I’m pregnant,” she wrote. “Nope. Not pregnant. This is just my body. And sometimes I’m bloated. Sometimes an unflattering photo is taken of me. Sometimes I go through periods of time where I gain weight.”

PHOTO: Instagram

PHOTO: Instagram

Reinhart continued, “My body is something that I will NEVER apologize for. My body will constantly go through change. And so will yours. And that’s fine. So let’s not much so much time and effort into caring about a stranger’s figure.”

PHOTO: Instagram

PHOTO: Instagram

Reinhart’s series of posts inspired her co-star Camila Mendes to open up on Instagram about her own body struggles. “I feel bloated 24/7. My weight fluctuates constantly, it comes with being a woman and should be celebrated, not criticized,” Mendes wrote. “I used to fear the day that people would start publicly criticizing my body and commenting on my weight. I’ve suffered too much from my own self-criticism, and wasn’t sure that I could handle it from others. But seeing somebody as beautiful as Lili respond to public scrutiny by preaching and practicing self-love is all it takes for me to overcome that fear. Proud to call her my friend. Let’s continue inspiring women to love their bodies.

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Well said. These Twitter users’ time would be better spent catching up on the bonkers second season of Riverdale.

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'My Sons Rely on CHIP for Their Health Insurance—Congress Needs to Renew It Now'


Thirty-three-year-old Melissa Lawson is a mom to two boys: 12-year-old D’Michael and 7-year-old Philip. Like millions of Americans, she works hard to make ends meet and care for her family. Living in Charlotte, North Carolina, and working as a medical biller, Lawson has also faced her fair share of medical emergencies—not only was she diagnosed with cervical cancer (she has since gone into remission), but her sons have also faced their own serious health obstacles. And like parents across the country, Lawson has struggled to deal with the sky-high costs of health care. But fortunately for her and her two boys, they’ve had the Child Health Insurance Program (CHIP) to fall back on when times were hard.

Launched in 1997, CHIP was created with the goal of providing health care for children and pregnant women in low- to middle-income households whose annual incomes were just slightly higher than the Medicaid threshold. Twenty years after its initial launch, CHIP now covers 9 million children and 370,000 pregnant women. The program was set up to be a joint venture between the state and federal governments, with most of its financing coming from federal grants that are given to the states. Funding needs to be periodically reauthorized, but last month, Congress allowed CHIP’s financing to lapse. If the program isn’t reauthorized soon, states could run out of money—some even as soon as this year.

As Congress neglects to take any action to save the program, Glamour caught up with Lawson to hear how CHIP has impacted her life. Here, she shares her story. As told to Maggie Mallon.

Earlier this year, I found myself in a situation where I didn’t have health insurance because I had switched jobs. One night, my 7-year-old son started throwing up. He said he felt fine the next day, so he went to school. But when he got home, he said he wasn’t feeling well again and soon passed out. I put him in the car to take him to the hospital, and as we were driving he said, “Mommy, I’m so sorry. I’m going to die.” It was horrible. I was scared. He was scared. I didn’t know what was going on.

I was especially nervous because we didn’t have coverage, and I didn’t know what they were going to say in the emergency room. A financial worker in the emergency room said not to worry and she would help me get this visit paid for. Test results showed that my son had norovirus, and he stayed in the hospital for an entire week. During that week, the hospital helped me get both of my sons approved for the North Carolina Health Choice for Children program [the state’s CHIP option].

I had another scare when I was pregnant with my younger son. As I was trying to sleep, my older son woke up and said he couldn’t breathe. I called 911. They asked me if I had a paper bag he could breathe into and I thought, Who has a paper bag lying around the house?! We went to the emergency room; my son was cared for, and I learned he has asthma. After we left the hospital, I was contacted about signing my son up for CHIP. I didn’t think I qualified because I earned too much, but a financial worker encouraged me to apply. So I did and I was able to get him on N.C. Health Choice at that time.

We’ve been part of the CHIP program on and off for the past few years, depending on whether I was able to get my sons on my own health insurance plans through my employer. But the program has been a big help for me. I am married, but I’m separated—it’s more like I’m a single mom. I’m raising my sons by myself. Without this program, I don’t know what would happen to my kids. I am so grateful that they were able to get coverage and have been able to go to the doctor on the regular. Without this program, we wouldn’t have that. This program really made a big difference in our lives. They’re able to be happy, healthy kids.

As a mom, it’s hard to see your kids suffer and feel like you can’t do anything about it. You work as hard as you can to be able to afford everything, but sometimes things fall by the wayside. Not on purpose, but because you have to make a choice between feeding your kids or taking them to the doctor. That’s a hard choice to make. It’s not fair to any child to ever have to go without health care in the United States.

Melissa Lawson and her sons Philip (left) and D’Michael (right) enjoy a day at the beach.

I work as a medical biller, and it makes me want to cry when I see patients who aren’t able to get a treatment they need because their insurance plan doesn’t pay for it or because their out-of-pocket costs would be too high. We’re in the United States of America. Nobody should have to suffer before they can afford to go to the doctor.

If we let a program like CHIP go away, then what happens to the children? What happens to our future? They’re sending a message that they do not care about the future generation.

Think about all these kids with juvenile diabetes. What are you going to tell those kids? “Oh well, you can’t get your insulin because Congress didn’t want to pass a law”? That’s what they’re saying to every child in America—that we don’t care if you live to see your 18th birthday. I know that sounds so detrimental, but it’s so much the truth.

For my older son, one of the biggest benefits for him is seeing a therapist, We’ve had a lot going on in our lives and he needs to talk to somebody other than his parent. During his checkup, he asked his doctor about this and she was able to refer him to someone. That’s something I could never have given him before. I could never afford a psychiatrist. Just the fact that this program allows him to see someone twice a month—that’s amazing. He’s happier, he’s more outgoing. Before he didn’t really smile a lot, he didn’t talk a lot. Being able to talk to someone has really made a difference.

CHIP is for kids. It’s not for adults. If you don’t care enough to at least renew it to make sure every child is protected, then you’re saying that ultimately, you do not care about the future. It does not matter to you if our kids are healthy.

Members of Congress should put themselves in the shoes of average Americans. Even in two-income families, health care costs are too high because grocery costs are high. Gas costs are high. Everything else is so expensive. Health care gets pushed aside until you have an emergency. But health care should be the number-one priority—especially for children.



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Moschino Just Made 'My Little Pony' High Fashion


There’s nothing the Internet enjoys more than when a nostalgic franchise gets a retail reboot. Lisa Frank pajamas at Target? Yes, please. Matching kicks from Reebok? Sure, we’ll take a pair. So, it’s no surprise that luxury brands want to cash in on our collective enthusiasm for throwback fashion. And who better than the industry’s reigning king of kitsch to do so during Fashion Week? We’re talking, of course, about Moschino and Jeremy Scott, who just brought My Little Pony to the Milan runway.

Scott opened Moschino’s Spring 2018 show, as he usually does, with a see-now-buy-now capsule inspired by a recognizable franchise. (Past muses include Barbie, Nintendo, McDonalds, and Windex.) Models including Kaia Gerber, Bella Hadid, and Charlotte Free walked out wearing or carrying pieces bearing My Little Pony‘s likeness: sweater dresses, T-shirts, crossbody bags, and more—all of which are available for purchase on Moschino’s website.

PHOTO: Victor VIRGILE

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PHOTO: Victor VIRGILE

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PHOTO: Jacopo Raule

This My Little Pony-inspired collection was made in collaboration with Hasbro, according to Moschino’s Instagram. And though some of the items are eerily reminiscent to those we owned back in the day (like a top-handle handbag that’s unmistakably meant to mimic the look of a tin lunchbox), the Italian fashion brand has made them luxe—i.e. much more expensive: Prices start at $75 for phone case and go up to $1,295 for a blazer. Guess we have to go digging through our parents’ basements to unearth our merch from back in the day, since the rainbow pony aesthetic is coming back for Spring 2018.

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Moschino - Runway - Milan Fashion Week Spring/Summer 2018

PHOTO: Jacopo Raule

Moschino - Details - Milan Fashion Week Spring/Summer 2018

PHOTO: Estrop

Don’t be surprised if you spot some My Little Pony-branded phone cases in the remainder of Milan Fashion Week street-style—these tend to pick up quickly among the fashion flock.

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