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Broken Harts, Episode 8: 'There Were Good Times'


In April 2019, a little more than a year after the crash that killed the Hart family, there will be a formal coroner’s inquest, after which the jury’s decision on whether the tragedy of last year was a murder by one person, a conspiracy to murder by more than one person, or an accident will be revealed to the public.

But what about those who knew Jen and Sarah Hart best? What do they think?

Jen and Sarah frequently implied they had no support system, but it seems their isolation was created purposely. In an email to field reporter Lauren Smiley on September 25, 2018, Jen’s younger brother, Jonathan, explained that it was Jen’s choice to distance herself from the family. “One thing I would like to clarify for myself AND my family is that Jen was NOT ousted from the family for being gay. I have been openly gay, even in high school, and it never affected me living in my mom or dad’s home.” He continued, “If anything, all this time, my family did nothing but try to help and understand Jen—not work against her.”

Jonathan went on to assert that his family had always been supportive of Jen. “Nobody has done anything to [Jen] to warrant this,” Jonathan says. “All I have seen my whole life is her getting—my parents, grandparents, anybody—people jumping through hoops to give her what she wanted, and that’s all I can say. People loved her. They really stuck up for her…. It really hurts me when this stuff gets reflected on my parents. That really hurts my feelings. My mother is wonderful, and she did put up with a lot from my sister. We all did.”

Similarly, sources close to Sarah’s family told Glamour that the family had not been in touch with Sarah for a long time, but that it was Sarah’s choice to cut off contact, not the other way around.

Sarah and Jen distanced themselves from their families, kept friends at arm’s length, and closed their blinds on concerned neighbors. When schools, social services, the medical community, and the festival community asked questions, the women were able to foster doubt and convince the world that they were normal parents. When anyone got too close, Jen and Sarah withdrew, they canceled plans or relocated, or they moved the conversation to Facebook, where Jen could control the narrative. This was their choice, and in the end they were alone.

Back in August 2018, Lauren Smiley connected with Hannah Scott, a professor of criminology at the University of Ontario Institute of Technology, who has spent a lot of time studying the psyches of women who commit heinous crimes. In their discussion, Scott noted that very little is known about same-sex couples and domestic abuse, and women who kill their families, or what may drive them to do so. Here, Scott explains why that is:

Portland’s KOIN 6 News recently pointed out in a report that since the crash, two very different images of the Hart family have emerged: “One is of a family in crisis, and the other is of a family trying to make the world a better place.” Singer Jenni Price of the band Acoustic Minds is someone who saw the Harts as trying to make the world a better place. Price wrote her song “Quicksand” after seeing that viral photo of Devonte hugging a policeman at the Portland rally in 2014. Price told KOIN 6 News that, after writing the song, she approached Jen Hart to ask if the family would appear in the music video, but said Jen was initially reluctant. She went on to explain she “had never met a family like this…. They did not have TV, they did not use cell phones, they did not have technology in ways like children are glued. Instead their home was filled with books, musical instruments, artistic equipment like paint and crayons and markers and huge construction paper for art projects, their yard was open and a large part of it was a garden.”

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“Quicksand” by Acoustic Minds

In Price’s eyes, the family “exemplified the hope, acceptance, genuine will of unconditional love.” On Zillow, the Harts’ home in West Linn, Oregon, is listed as a spacious four-bedroom. Was this a happy home? Going by Price’s description, there’s reason to believe it could have been. And yet, those who knew the Harts in Woodland, Washington, paint a very different picture: a household where children were being abused, and went hungry; a home the police reported was unusually spare and lacking signs of the children’s presence.

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While interviewing Dana DeKalb one afternoon, field reporter Lauren Smiley took a walk through the Harts’ backyard. While there, she spotted an ornament hanging from a tree: a ceramic VW hippie van with “flower power” details. Turning it over in her hand, Lauren saw the price tag was still stuck on the bottom: “Ross Dress for Less, $7.99.”

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A glimpse of the ornament behind the Hart’s home

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The ornament reflects the image that Jen Hart so desperately wanted to project to the world: a merry band of travelers, alone, but alone together. Happy together. And those who knew the Harts would like to believe this is true: that there were happy times together; that, as Dana DeKalb puts it, “There were good times, that it wasn’t constant ugly.”

In April of this year, a jury of 12 will attempt to determine the cause of death for the bodies found at the crash site. What will they see in the evidence, and in the case? Will they see Jen and Sarah as tragic antiheroes, or as monsters? Neither is the whole story, because what Jen and Sarah Hart actually were is even harder to accept. They were both.



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Broken Harts, Episode 4: 'My God, There's Six of Them'


On Facebook, Jen Hart frequently wrote about her children, discussing what all six of them were up to in lengthy, paragraphs-long posts. But according to Bruce and Dana DeKalb, the Harts’ neighbors in Woodland, Washington, those posts provide a stark contrast to their own interactions with the six Hart children.

At first the DeKalbs rarely see the Harts, save a few chance encounters in their driveway. But this changes on Thursday, March 15, 2018 when Devonte approaches Bruce while he’s working outside and asks him for tortillas. The following morning, the DeKalbs answer a knock at their door: It’s Devonte again, this time asking for bread. Devonte shows up at the DeKalbs’ home asking for food on seven separate occasions that week.

While Jen is sharing pictures of Devonte on Facebook, smiling and seemingly happy, Bruce and Dana DeKalb are seeing something vastly different: A child who is afraid and hungry. Dana uses each one of those visits to gently prod for more information about the family.

What was going on inside the Hart family’s home? Here’s field reporter, Lauren Smiley, with the DeKalbs:

Devonte eventually opens up to the DeKalbs, stating that he and his siblings are being abused by Jen and Sarah. Upon hearing this, Dana DeKalb takes action, calling Child Protective Services on Friday, March 23, to report the information she has collected about her neighbors. Officials show up within a couple of hours, but when they knock on the door, neither Jen nor Sarah answers. That evening the two moms will pack up their Yukon with their six children and leave hurriedly, knocking over their stone wall in the process.

PHOTO: Clark County Sheriff’s Office Incident Report

On Saturday, March 24, the Harts’ phones pinged off cell towers along the Oregon coast into California, and on Sunday, the 25th, Jen shows up in a Safeway surveillance video in Fort Bragg: Alone, wearing eyeglasses and a hoodie, she pays $20.08 in cash for groceries.

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On Monday, March 26, a Washington State CPS investigator calls 911 to request that a deputy go out to the Harts’ house.

That afternoon a German tourist spots the Harts’ tan 2003 Yukon XL upside down at the bottom of the cliff in Mendocino County. The bodies of Jen, Sarah, Markis, Abigail, and Jeremiah are found at the crash site; a foot, believed to be Hannah’s, is also discovered. Sierra’s body washed ashore about two weeks later. Devonte is still missing.

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No one in the car was wearing a seatbelt. Jen’s blood alcohol level was over the legal limit, and toxicology reports show that Sarah and two of the kids had allergy medication in their system that could have made them drowsy. The car’s computer shows that moments before the crash, Jen had stopped on a gravel pullout 70 feet from the edge of the cliff, only to then accelerate. According to a Carfax report, the brake pads had been replaced the previous July. Per industry experts, the average brake pad lasts for around 40,000 miles—implying that the brake pads were likely in working order.

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Were Jen and Sarah running from a longer tail of child abuse allegations? Did those who knew them earlier in life have any indication as to what was going on? That, and more, next time on Broken Harts.

Subscribe now to our new podcast, Broken Harts, from Glamour and HowStuffWorks and based on this story from the October 2018 issue of Glamour. New episodes will air each Tuesday; find them on Apple, Google, Spotify, or wherever you like to get your podcasts. For the full transcript of this episode, click here. Have any tips, feedback, or questions? Email us at brokenhartspodcast@gmail.com

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*Broken Harts*, Episode 2: 'If Not Us, Who?'


Online, the Hart family seemed perfect. From lengthy, paragraphs-long Facebook posts to intimate YouTube videos, Jen Hart consistently painted the idyllic picture of a family of eight—”The Hart Tribe,” as many called them—exploring, laughing, dancing, and singing together. They were the quintessential happy family—or so it consistently seemed.

In one particular YouTube video Jen posted back in 2013, four of the Hart children can be seen singing along to the song “We Are So Provided For” by Nahko Bear, whose band Nahko and Medicine for the People was one the family had seen perform at various alternative music festivals over the years. In the two-minute clip, the children are standing in what appears to be the Harts’ living room; Devonte is seen dancing with a bongo drum, Abigail is holding a guitar, and Jeremiah is shaking a maraca while Hannah dances off to the side.

Is this a candid moment…or an artfully constructed illusion?

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We don’t know when Jen and Sarah Hart decided they wanted children. It’s possible they’d always wanted to be moms, though Sarah did once tell a former colleague that she wished she’d known she didn’t have to have a big family. In 2004, when Jen and Sarah were in their mid-twenties, they took in a 15-year-old foster daughter. But according to Jordan Smith, with whom the Harts worked at the department store Herberger’s in Alexandria, Minnesota, the women’s foray into new parenthood was bumpy. “It didn’t feel like they really had interest in developing her as a person and giving her the tools she needed to be a successful adult,” Smith tells our field reporter Lauren Smiley. “I just felt so sorry for the girl.”

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The interior of the Hart family’s garage after the family died in March 2018.

After Jen and Sarah died in March, their former foster daughter told the Seattle Times that she remembers Jen and Sarah showing her pictures of three young children they were planning to adopt. The women said her she was going to be a big sister. But that’s not what happened. Jen and Sarah dropped their foster daughter at a therapist’s office and never returned.

Two years later, in 2006, Jen and Sarah adopted those three siblings from the Texas foster system: Marcus, then seven, Hannah, four, and Abigail, two. Of their first night as a family of five, Jen wrote on Facebook: “How can a child even know what they want when they haven’t EVER been gifted with what they NEED. If not us—WHO? At 25 years old, we didn’t have any parenting experience under our belts, but we had boatloads of love, compassion, intelligence, and the natural instincts to navigate these wild and unchartered [sic] waters. There was no way on earth we were going to toss these children back into an incredibly broken and abysmal foster care system.”

PHOTO: Permanent Family Resource Center

Not long after welcoming their first three kids, a picture of the new Hart family of five appeared on an adoption agency website: Jen and Sarah were seeking up to three more kids, up to eight years old.

Then, in the spring of 2008, Jen and Sarah took in three more foster kids: five-year-old Devonte and his younger siblings, Jeremiah, four, and Sierra, three. The siblings were also from Texas, and they’d been removed from their mother’s home in Houston. The Hart Tribe—and its engaging social media presence as an idyllic family of eight—was officially born. In a 2012 video, below, the children can be heard giggling as Jen hands Jeremiah an earthworm.

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Subscribe now to our new podcast, Broken Harts, from Glamour and HowStuffWorks and based on this story from the October 2018 issue of Glamour. New episodes will air each Tuesday; find them on Apple, Google, Spotify, or wherever you like to get your podcasts. For the full transcript of this episode, click here. Have any tips, feedback, or questions? Email us at brokenhartspodcast@gmail.com



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Now That Kevin Hart’s Not Hosting the Oscars, I Have a Few Suggestions


Kevin Hart was slated to host
the Oscars next year but stepped down after people unearthed a series of homophobic tweets he posted between 2009 and 2011. “I have made the choice to step down from hosting this year’s Oscars,” Hart announced on Twitter. “This is because I do not want to be a distraction on a night that should be celebrated by so many amazing talented artists. I sincerely apologize to the LGBTQ community for my insensitive words from my past.”

Now that he’s out, though, I have a few suggestions for who should emcee Hollywood’s biggest night. In wake of this debacle, we’ll need someone who’s either queer or a fierce ally to the LGBTQ+ community, and they have to be funny. So, in other words, Paddington the Bear is the only man for the job.

Below, 11 people who I’d love to see host the Oscars (aside from Chrissy Teigen, who we all know is a shoe-in).





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Broken Harts, Episode 1: Fear


On March 26, 2018, a German tourist spots a flipped 2003 GMC Yukon XL at the foot of a steep cliff, off U.S. Highway 101 near Mendocino, California. In what appears to be a horrific accident, the vehicle had driven off the cliff and plummeted more than 100 feet to the rocks below. The car’s passengers, many of whom are found either inside or near the vehicle, are pronounced dead at the scene. They were two moms, Jen and Sarah Hart, who were white, and three of their adopted black children—Markis, 19, Abigail, 14, and Jeremiah, also 14.

Two weeks later the body of 12-year-old Sierra, the youngest adopted Hart child, washes ashore. The Harts’ other adopted children, Hannah, 16, and Devonte, 15, are not immediately found. At the release of this podcast, their whereabouts remain a mystery, though they are believed to have been in the car. A foot found near the crash site, widely believed to have been Hannah’s, is being tested for DNA.

Below, a closer look at the crash site, courtesy of Broken Harts field reporter Lauren Smiley.

In the weeks following the incident, upsetting new details begin to emerge: None of the victims in the car was wearing a seatbelt. Jen, who had been at the wheel, had an elevated blood alcohol level, while Sarah and two of the kids had an ingredient commonly found in Benadryl in their system. The speedometer was stuck at 90 miles per hour.

In episode one of Broken Harts, we delve into the questions on the minds of so many: What happened that day in March? And why did it happen? And, as we uncover over the course of reporting this story, the truth isn’t always one-sided.

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The cliff where the wreckage of the family was found on March 26, 2018

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The rocky coastline near where the Harts’ Yukon was discovered by a German tourist

This story starts in small-town South Dakota, where Sarah Gengler and Jen Hart both grew up. The women met in 1999 when they were 20, in Aberdeen as undergrads. Once they did come out as a couple, “the Midwestern mind-set was relentlessly unforgiving and unaccepting,” Jen said in a Facebook post, claiming she’d lost friends as a result. The pair eventually moved to the lake town of Alexandria, Minnesota, where they worked at Herberger’s, the biggest department store in the Viking Plaza Mall.

When Sarah became a manager, she placed a cuddly photo of herself and Jen on her desk—a bold move for the time. Sarah and Jen were different but seemed to complement each other. Sarah was emotional, quiet, and introspective. Jen was confident, assertive, and “intimidating,” as a former colleague described her.

In 2006, Jen and Sarah adopted their first set of siblings: Markis, 8, Hannah, 4, and Abigial, 2. And in February 2009, they officially adopted Devonte, 5, Jeremiah, 4, and Sierra, 3.

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In 2013 the family relocated to West Linn, Oregon, a small suburb located 30 miles south of Portland. Over the years the pair became regulars at inclusive “transformational” festivals, always joined by their kids, interacting with musical acts, carrying motivational signs, and dressing in colorful costumes. One YouTube clip shows Devonte in a zebra costume, holding a “Free Hugs” sign and embracing musician Xavier Rudd as he performs, shirtless, for a crowd of adults.

Between shows, the festival crowd kept tabs on one another on Facebook, where Jen racked up the likes. “She was a master poster,” a friend recalls. Her feed showed Abigail and Devonte eating breakfast with hens perched on their heads (“Vegetarian chicken and waffles”); Devonte, Jeremiah, and Sierra painting on the living room floor (“Mini Jackson Pollocks”); all six kids grinning with a “Kindness is contagious” sign (“Redwood nation is about to get blasted with kindness”). Each post reaffirmed the storyline: two moms and their rehabilitated kids thriving against all odds. The narrative was, “You saved them, awesome,” says family friend Ian Sperling: “Everyone was envious. They were the perfect people with the perfect kids.”

Jen also often took to Facebook to comment on how the family she was born into bore little resemblance to the one she and Sarah built from scratch. “Apparently my 5-year-old self needed to remind this 36-year-old self about following the dream,” she wrote on Facebook in May of 2016. “My heart is still yearning for a special piece of land where our family can live more sustainably, grow, create, hold space for community gatherings, and thrive in a more natural setting. It’s time to delve into making this lifelong dream a reality.” It was important to her, it seems, to prove to everyone that she was in charge of her own destiny—”unforgiving and unaccepting” naysayers be damned.

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The following year the family relocated once more—to Woodland, Washington, where Jen bragged of their greenhouse, a coterie of farm animals, and the nature that enveloped their home. Jen Hart often painted an idyllic picture of her blended family. In lengthy, paragraphs-long posts, Jen spun the tale of a loving couple raising a brood of six happy, adopted children. Somehow the smoke and mirrors of Jen’s Facebook feed successfully fooled even those closest to her.

On March 24, two days prior to the discovery of the crash, Sarah’s coworkers at Kohl’s, where she worked as assistant manager, received a text from their friend at 3:00 A.M. saying she was too sick to open the store later that morning. When she hadn’t heard from Sarah by that afternoon, Kohl’s employee Cheryl Hart (no relation) called 911:

In this recording, Cheryl notes that when she tried to contact Sarah it seemed as if “her phone is now dead.”

That same morning the Hart’s neighbors, Bruce and Dana DeKalb, noticed that the Harts’ Yukon is no longer in the driveway, and that the bright red kayak normally affixed to its roof had been removed and left behind.

Bruce and Dana DeKalb at home in Washington in July 2018.

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Bruce and Dana DeKalb at home in Woodland, Washington, in July 2018

This wasn’t the first time the DeKalbs had worried about the welfare of the Hart children. The previous summer Hannah Hart appeared on their doorstep, visibly upset. She frantically explained she’d jumped out of her second-floor window to escape from her moms. “Hide me,” she pleaded. “They whip us with a belt… Don’t make me go back! They’re racists, and they abuse us!”

A note 16-year-old Hannah gave the DeKalbs after begging them to “protect” her in 2017.

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A note 16-year-old Hannah gave the DeKalbs after begging them to “protect” her in 2017. It reads: “I stopped this morning because I feel awful about disturbing your peace and worring [sic] you in the middle of the night. I was very frustrated with my brother and didn’t handle things very maturely, and I’m sorry for telling lies to get attention. I’m working on being more honest and find better ways to communicate my frustrations. I’ve been pretty sad about 2 of our cats dying recently, so I was just very sad and frustrated last night. Thank you for being kind.”

Dana’s father, Steve Frkovich, had placed a 911 call months later to report suspected abuse in the Hart household. “I think there’s something very serious going on there,” he tells the dispatcher. Listen to the call below.

Upon investigation, the police said there is “no indication of ongoing issues.”

In pictures and in public the family appeared to be an emblem of warmth, love, and protection, but postmortem accounts of the Hart Tribe, as many called them, paint a very different picture. Who were the Harts? What were they hiding? We delve into that, and more, in episode 2 of Broken Harts, “If Not Us—WHO?” out Tuesday, 12/11.

Subscribe now to our new podcast, Broken Harts, from Glamour and HowStuffWorks and based on this story from the October 2018 issue of Glamour. New episodes will air each Tuesday; find them on Apple, Google, Spotify, or wherever you like to get your podcasts. For the full transcript of this episode, click here.



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