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The 'Feisty Women' of 'Ocean's Eight' Have No Patience for Sexist Trolls


Like the rest of us, Sandra Bullock remembers all too well the nonstop stream of sexism faced by the cast of the all-female reboot of Ghostbusters last year—but she and the rest of the women of Ocean’s Eight are ready to defend themselves and their movie from any criticisms the trolls throw their way. In a new interview with Entertainment Weekly, Bullock explained why she, Rihanna, Mindy Kaling, Cate Blanchett, and the rest of the cast of the new installment of the (previously all-male) Ocean’s Eleven series won’t be fazed by misogynistic attacks.

Bullock, who plays Danny Ocean’s (George Clooney) sister Debbie in the upcoming film, said that she’s “still trying to figure out why” Melissa McCarthy, Kristen Wiig, Leslie Jones, and Kate McKinnon were the targets of so much criticism before Ghostbusters had even arrived in theaters. “Forget what the final product was! There were four or five of the most talented comedians in that film. Everyone should’ve just taken a breath and said, ‘Let’s see what happens,'” she said. “It doesn’t take just five people to make a movie. It’s pretty much like around 300. So I keep reminding everybody, if you hate my film, remember there’s another 299 people all around me.” She continued, “We’re not a reboot. We’re just a ‘this is what’s happening in 2017.’ It’s not even a passing of the torch. It’s a parallel story of another family member that was raised in the same family Danny Ocean was, and what happens when Debbie steps out of jail with all of these amazing, powerful women.”

Bullock said that the Ocean’s Eight cast has already faced “some” sexism, “but boy, I mean, I’ll tell you, we’ve got some feisty women that will fight right back.” She added, “It’s like, let’s just take a breath and let’s just see if we come up with something fun. There should be a moratorium. There should be a rule: You’re not allowed to say anything nasty until after it comes out. Obviously, that’s never going to happen.”

The Oscar winner also talked about the collaborative environment of the Ocean’s Eight set. “If there’s ever more than two women in the film there’s rumblings of, ‘Oh, they’re having cat fights,'” she said. “[But] there was nothing, because, I think, because of the unique situation of this, and because we all are trying to achieve the same thing, we bonded pretty quickly out of necessity, and just because we like each other.” She continued, “I realized as women we have been isolated for a while. I don’t even want to touch on that other subject, but women are now taking care of each other. We all were like, okay, let’s just take care of each other for these six months and relish this opportunity we’re being given. But we don’t want it to be just for women. This is not a man-hating. We love the men. There’s men in this movie. We love them. But this one heist needs women.”

Ocean’s Eight hits theaters on June 8, 2018—but the first full trailer is rumored to be released sometime this month.

Related: Sandra Bullock Donates $1 Million to Hurricane Harvey Relief



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Plus-Size Model Tess Holliday Just Clapped Back at Trolls Telling Her How to Work Out


She’s shot some seriously gorgeous pics for high-profile brands, but model Tess Holliday has also unfortunately had to deal with an unfair share of trolls in this Twitter age. She’s clapped back at online haters who accuse her of living an unhealthy lifestyle, and she’s even boycotted Uber because of an incident where a driver fat-shamed her. Now she’s an author and an advocate for size inclusivity in fashion—so when people start commenting on her body and telling her how to live her life, she’s not afraid to call them out.

Holliday posted a series of videos of herself at the gym on Friday and the comments blew up thanks to rude Internet lurkers. She reposted a few choice comments in a new Instagram post with a cutting caption, “Y’all just can’t handle seeing someone in a plus size body that isn’t deemed desirable by societies standards THRIVING & it kills y’all. Worry about your own life?? #FUCKYOURBEAUTYSTANDARDS #thenotsosubtleartofbeingafatgirl”

Unless you’re Holliday (or her trainer), it’s no one’s place to tell her—or anyone else—how to work out and what to do with her body. She posted videos of herself working out and was met with criticism and hate rather than love and support. That’s no way to talk to anyone, but thankfully she’s strong enough to call her haters out.

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Mandy Moore Shuts Down Trolls Who Said She Photoshopped Her Instagram Photo


Mandy Moore is currently on a whirlwind press tour for NBC’s This Is Us, America’s favorite form of catharsis, in which she plays the show’s matriarch, Rebecca Pearson. It’s a role that’s made Moore the most visible she’s been in years, and with that, unfortunately, comes online trolls.

Moore brushed with a few of them last night on Instagram. The actress and singer posted a picture of herself on set at The Tonight Show With Jimmy Fallon, encouraging people to tune in. “Love any time I get to hang with the sweetest @jimmyfallon on @fallontonight. Watch us at 11:35 on @nbc,” she wrote.

But a few people on Instagram thought Moore had digitally altered the photo to make her waist look smaller. “Why are the lines of the wood panels straight until her midsection? That’s a very clear indicator of Photoshop,” one person wrote. “Seriously, with a bicep that looks like that, Photoshop took over the waist. Unfortunate from you…no one’s waist is that thin,” wrote another.

To be clear, whether or not Moore Photoshopped her image isn’t the issue here. She has every right to present herself how she wants on social media. The problem is anonymous users on social media thinking they have the right to critique people’s bodies. All this speculation and shaming is just gross.

Moore, for the record, didn’t Photoshop this post and clapped back accordingly. “Not nice or true. Do better,” she wrote in response to one of the comments. She then updated the photo’s caption with,” I am 5’10″ and a size 6. I have NEVER Photoshopped pictures. That’s not what I’m about. If you’re going to be rude about people’s bodies, go elsewhere.”

See the post for yourself, below:

Somewhere in an alternative universe, the Big Three are cheering Moore on.

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Monica Lewinsky Take on Trolls With New Antibullying Campaign


“It’s a stab in the gut. A punch. Someone hammering you on the head.”

Monica Lewinsky is describing what it feels like to receive the humiliating comments and mocking memes she still gets nearly 20 years after her affair with President Clinton threw her into the unwanted spotlight. Here she is, a columnist, entrepreneur, social psychologist, and activist; yet people still can’t stop clicking and clucking over what happened when she was an intern? It’s hard to believe. But in many ways, she was the first target of what would become America’s favorite leisure sport—cyberbullying. Before Gamergate, before Leslie Jones, before this year, when 41 percent of Americans are [harassed online], Lewinsky was the canary in the troll-mine.

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Despite becoming somewhat inured to the vitriol, Lewinsky has committed to using her voice for all those who haven’t. Today she’s launching a new campaign called “In Real Life” for Bullying Prevention Month, and talks to Glamour about how personal it is for her:

On being patient zero: I kind of tripped into being a public person in 1998. All of the sudden, people who had never met me were taking about me online, on air, making judgments, analyzing me, assuming things about me. It was really challenging. There was no handbook. There was no understanding of what it meant or the consequences. There wasn’t really anyone else in the online space to look at and say, What did they do? How did they get through this?

What it’s like to be cyberbullied: The punch, the stab, the hammer—they are some of the visceral feelings. But the most damaging part is how incredibly isolating it can be. Social ostracizing is at the core of what we all, young and old, feel the most. There was a 2015 study showing that for both targets of bullying behavior and the people who perpetrate it, the risk for suicidality is higher. So this affects us all deeply.

For me, I utilize all the filters on my social media where I can. But even then, I’ll get people I know saying, “I’m so sorry that happened [online].” So it’s hard to ignore. When a meme [of me] is going around and people close to me follow the person who posted it, there’s an additional layer of humiliation and pain. Or when I retweet someone and they get harassed, I know that I’m affecting and hurting other people, even though it’s unintentional; if anything makes me cry it’s those things.

But (and this might be shocking) when you think about all the things that have been said about me online, or in print, or in the news—which over the past 20 years must be in the hundreds of thousands, if not millions—I can count on one hand, maybe two, how many times people have been rude or said something cruel to my face. So we did a video for the campaign to make people aware of the disparity between how we behave online and in person. I think that there is a decency that wells up in most of us when we’re face to face with someone while the anonymity of the Internet has made people feel free to be their worst selves.

Troll Control: If people behaved online more like they do in real life, we’d reduce cyberbullying. Sometimes it doesn’t feel safe to step in when you see someone being picked on, but reaching out to the target even afterwards and offering support is important. That’s what the #Bestrong emojis are about. I conceived them over dinner with a friend and worked with experts to make sure they were recognized as images of support and solidarity around the world. (You can download them free for your phone at Apple Store an Google Play.)

Imagine a gang picking on one girl in the playground and all of the sudden 50 kids come around and just stand by her. The bullying not going to continue. The same is true online. If you see a volley of harassment happening on social media and you flood it with images of support and compassion, that’s going to change the tone.

For the person being attacked, even a small morsel of care and support can make a huge difference. Going back to 1998, there was a period for me when one of the highlights of my day was going to get the mail. Even though some of it was not kind, a majority was from strangers sending support and expressing compassion. And I can’t tell you how there were days that those letters were a lifesaver for me.

#ClickforCompassion. Share the video with that hashtag or join the conversation on twitter (#BeStrong emoji plus hashtag). All of us are collateral damage when it comes to this trolling behavior, even bystanders. You can’t unread what you saw, you can’t unfeel what you’ve felt. Cyberbullying is obviously a complex issue that’s not going to be solved quickly. But looking ahead, I’m excited about how VR is being developed to foster compassion and empathy. And there’s a TED fellow, Rebecca Brachman, who is working on a drug that increases resilience. These are the kinds of broader ideas that give me hope that we will shift the culture.

In the meantime, every one of us can help do that by finding ways to stand up for someone—in real life and online—and let them know they’re not alone.



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Former Miss Universe Alicia Machado Claps Back at Body-Shaming Trolls


Can we give this former beauty queen another crown, please?

It appears Donald Trump isn’t the only person body-shaming former Miss Universe winner Alicia Machado. The actor, singer, and TV host also has an army of trolls to deal with online. But don’t worry—she knows how to deal with them.

Rude commenters came after Machado on Instagram a few days ago, after she posted a photo of herself at the Premios Tu Mundo award show. Amid positive comments like “hermosa como siempre” (“beautiful as always”) and “siempre sera para mi una miss universo” (“you’ll always be Miss Universe to me”), there were messages like “the extra pounds are noticeable” and “you’re overweight in my opinion”—as if anyone asked.

But not only is Machado perfectly happy with her weight—she’s actually looking to put on more pounds, she told the commenters.

“Yes, and I still have another five pounds more to gain to appear even fatter for the next character that I will be playing,” she wrote.

Machado is a seasoned expert at dealing with haters by now. She entered the national spotlight last fall, when then-candidate Hillary Clinton called out Trump for body-shaming her. Trump owned the Miss Universe pageant in 1996, the year Machado won, and he said some horrible things about her afterward, claiming she’d gained 40 pounds and pressuring her to lose them. He even went to a hotel gym in New York with reporters from 90 media outlets to watch her work out. Machado said in a Clinton campaign video that he called her “Miss Piggy” and “Miss Housekeeping,” ostensibly referencing her Venezuelan heritage.

Fortunately, it looks like Machado hasn’t let anyone’s body-shaming—not any Instagram troll’s, and definitely not Trump’s—stop her from looking the way she wants.



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