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Double Cleansing 101: What It Is and How to Do It


Ever feel like you’re the last person on earth to learn about a trend or TV show? Welcome to Late to the Party, where we’ll be digging into widely loved topics and techniques through the lens of someone who just discovered them. Everyone’s invited, because it’s never too late to join the hype.

For someone who isn’t afraid of neon eye shadow or a full contour, the way I’ve washed my face has always been relatively simple: I’ll do a once-over with a makeup wipe, splash some tap water on my cheeks, and call it a day. I never saw anything wrong with this and it had always served me well enough, until a few months ago, when all my friends were extolling the virtues of double cleansing over drinks.

“Double…what?” I asked. I was met with blank stares. Apparently, I was missing out.

What Is Double Cleansing?

As the name of the technique implies, double cleansing involves washing your face with two different cleansers. The process originates from multistep Korean skin care routines. “The first step of double cleansing is using an oil-based cleanser to wash away oil-based impurities such as makeup, sunscreen, and pollution,” says Charlotte Cho, founder of K-beauty retailer Soko Glam. “The second step is using a water-based cleanser to ensure that the remaining impurities are removed from your skin. It’s a gentle way to clean your face and ensure that everything from the day is removed.” According to Cho, double cleansing is also an effective way to remove impurities that can cause acne and premature aging.

I’ve lived in New York City nearly my entire life and my skin is sorta-maybe-definitely coated in a permanent level of subway dirt and car-exhaust fumes. Still, I was slow to try it. Did I really need to wash my face twice? In this economy? Who has the time?

Then on a fateful night a couple weeks ago—with my face covered in pink eye shadow and glitter—I realized I had run out of makeup wipes and searched through my cabinets for an alternative. I reached for an unopened bottle of Glossier’s Milky Oil and Glossier’s Milky Jelly Cleanser, plus some cotton rounds. I had bought them a couple months ago because I drank the Glossier Kool-Aid (it’s definitely pink) and liked how pretty they looked next to my sink. Since I’ve always relied on makeup wipes, I’ve only ever stared at these bottles instead of actually using them.

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Liquid makeup removers have never been very good at removing my thick layers of mascara, so I was surprised to see how effectively and quickly the Milky Oil removed all of my mascara and all of my makeup. I had tons of eye shadow and glitter on too, and yet it took only three pumps and two cotton rounds to remove nearly everything. I followed it up with the creamy Jelly Cleanser, which, at the earlier recommendation of Cho, I massaged into my skin for a full 60 seconds with lukewarm water to reap its full cleansing benefits. My skin immediately felt so fresh and smooth.

The next morning I woke up and didn’t find stray traces of mascara on my cheeks. Usually I wake up feeling groggy and dry (morning person is not a term anyone would use to describe me), but this time was different. I felt refreshed, mostly because my skin felt clean—really, really clean—for the first time in as long as I could remember.

Now that I’m a dedicated convert, I too feel the need to pass the gospel on. Here’s everything else you need to know about double cleansing.

What product should you use after double cleansing?

If you’re following a full 10-step K-beauty routine, Cho says exfoliating would be the natural next step in the process. But if you’ve got sensitive skin or use acids that are only recommended for once or twice a week, she recommends applying a toner (like the Klairs Supple Preparation Facial Toner) afterward to help prep your skin for moisturizer. It’ll also help remove any leftover residue from your cleanser.





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Wedding Trend: Double Proposals Are the Inclusive Trend We Need


It’s been a running joke that I wasn’t allowed to propose to my girlfriend. Since the early stages of our relationship she’s been adamant: she’ll do the proposing one day. I didn’t feel strongly one way or the other, so I agreed. Then, in late August 2018—ten years after we’d met—she got down on one knee on the beach and asked me to marry her. I barely had time to gaze down at my ring or think about the chain of phone calls we needed to make to share the good news before it hit me: Am I supposed to get her a ring, too?

I hadn’t really thought about the idea that maybe my wife-to-be needs a token to signify she’s engaged, too. Though I was in a same-sex relationship, I was so used to the standard story of proposals that I didn’t stop to consider anything different. But the more I thought about my fiancee and her love of big moments, the more fitting it seemed that I propose to her too. Asking someone to spend their life with you is a hugely important question—why shouldn’t she be asked?

Double Proposals Are Gaining Steam—And Changing the Wedding Industry

I decided to propose back to my partner, not knowing that I was taking part in a growing wedding trend within the LGBTQ+ community called “double proposing.” The idea is fairly self-explanatory: two people propose to each other, either the same day or at different times.

Queer people have been creating our own unique traditions for years, but only since same-sex marriage became legal in all fifty states have marriage traditions—and the wedding trends surrounding them—begun to catch up. “The LGBTQ community is changing the industry by demanding more of the vendors who work in it, being intentional with who they give their money to, and reinventing traditions to celebrate instead of hide their queer identities,” says Ainsley Blattel, a queer and non-binary wedding planner with event planning company Modern Rebel.

For me, double proposing to my fiancee was an exciting and reflective time to really surprise my partner the same way she wowed me. Instead of a ring, I bought her a custom locket she’d been talking about since we’d met. It was amazing to see the genuine surprise on her face when she turned to find me down on one knee nine months after she’d asked me to marry her.

More Proposals, More Power

So many facets of relationships are bogged down by centuries’ worth of gender stereotypes. For those feeling the pressure, double proposing can be empowering way to rethink the way romance is “supposed” to look—especially for those who don’t identify as a specific gender. “I’d often been the partner to buy flowers, and perform romantic gestures,” says Addie Tsai, 39. “I realized when I met my partner that I’d always felt more comfortable in that role but because of gender conditioning. But he allowed me to occupy a different space than I had before and it was through our relationship I started to uncover how genderfluid and nonbinary I truly am.”

Tsai and their partner double proposed two weeks apart over the holidays. “Double proposing neutralizes the way you enter into a marriage from the beginning, without having the gendered burden of proposing on one person or the other,” says Tsai. For many, it’s an antidote to the heteronormative expectations that follow couples of all orientations.

While smashing gender expectations can be fun, a lot of couples double propose simply to celebrate their equal partnership with one another. Rebekah Giley, 30 and her partner Breda, 32, first started thinking about a double proposal when they realized they had totally different ideas of how a proposal should look: Breda definitely wanted someone taking photos with lots of people around, while Rebekah had a totally private proposal in mind.”We kinda looked at each other and then I said, ‘we could both propose to each other,’ and Breda agreed,” Giley says. “I think the biggest thing was that we both got the proposal we wanted. Especially because we wanted such opposite things, it was really lovely and fun to both see our dreams fulfilled.”



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Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas Went on Not One, But Two Double Dates With Sophie Turner and Joe Jonas This Weekend


Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas have been in all the headlines lately, thanks to a seemingly never-ending series of (gorgeous) wedding celebrations in Mumbai. Now, however, it appears that the newlyweds are in London, where they joined Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner for a double date.

The four had a late lunch in London’s Mayfair neighborhood on Sunday—a favorite area for the friends to dine out in. Specifically, they headed to Sexy Fish, and yes, that is the restaurant’s real name.

But that wasn’t the only double date they went on: The four headed out for dinner in Covent Garden on Saturday night, too. The newlyweds were spotted holding hands as they left The Delaunay in Covent Garden, Chopra wearing a neon-green version of the knitted cardigans that have been all over Instagram. They had another guest at the meal too: the Jonas’ younger brother, Frankie.

Date nights aside, Chopra has another reason to be proud of her new husband: Nick was named GQ‘s most stylish man on Friday—and the style icon in her own right is pretty excited about it.

Time will tell if the four are spending Christmas together, but we’ll keep our fingers crossed for more London fun with these four.

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How I Prepared Myself to Have a Preventative Double Mastectomy


Alejandra Campoverdi is the former Director of Hispanic Media for the Obama Administration, a previous congressional candidate for California’s 34th District, founder of the Well Woman Coalition, registered holistic cancer specialist, and a BRCA-2 previvor. Just this month, she underwent a preventative double mastectomy to remove her healthy breasts. This is her story, as told to Glamour‘s Macaela Mackenzie.

My breasts have been getting a lot of attention lately. To be clear, this is a totally new and strange thing for me. I was flat-chested until I was in my early twenties and after my breasts finally did show up, they were never really a topic of conversation. So, what’s changed? For the past few years, I’ve been planning to have a preventative double mastectomy. Last week, I had my perfectly healthy breasts removed.

I have never known a time in my family without the presence of breast cancer. When I was a baby, my great-grandmother died of metastatic breast cancer (breast cancer that has spread beyond the breast to other organs in the body). When I was 16, my abuelita, who was like a second mother to me, died of metastatic breast cancer. In my early 20s, my mother developed breast cancer, though luckily, she survived. Since then, two of my aunts have also been diagnosed with the deadly disease. (This year alone, it’s estimated that over 40,000 women will die from breast cancer.)

With each diagnosis, it became clear that there was something hereditary going on. But it wasn’t until recently, with genetic tests for risk factors like mutations in the BRCA1 and BRCA2 genes becoming more accessible, I realized I might actually be able to do something about it. So in 2013, I decided to find out for sure—I tested positive for a BRCA2 gene mutation, meaning I had an 85 percent chance of developing breast cancer in my lifetime. (For women without BCRA1 or BCRA2 gene mutations, the risk of developing breast cancer is less than 4 percent.)

Now I have battle scars—almost like a badge of honor. I actually think they’re kind of beautiful.

When I found out, I didn’t tell anyone, not even my mom, for months. I wanted to make a decision about what to do on my own. I was the one that would have to deal with the ramifications for the rest of my life—I didn’t want anyone else’s fears or judgments getting in my head.

In the end, I listened to my gut: The chance to reduce my risk of developing breast cancer from 85 percent to under 4 percent was a no-brainer. I knew I would have a preventative double mastectomy—it was just a question of when.

Since 2013, the surgery has never been far from my mind. To prepare myself, I started a relationship with a breast surgeon a few years ago. I wanted to make sure that I knew the person, and that they knew me—and my breasts—very, very well. My surgeon told me I should aim to have my mastectomy when I was 10 years younger than my mom had been when she was diagnosed with breast cancer. So, we set a date for 2018.

In the meantime, I had to keep up with a grueling yearly regimen of screening tests—breast MRIs, mammograms, ultrasounds, monthly self-exams, and blood tests. Thankfully, I was able to get insurance coverage for the care I needed but navigating the convoluted system made the political firestorm around healthcare—especially for women and people of color—personal.

When my mother was fighting her own battle with breast cancer, I became her primary caregiver, chasing down HMO doctors and persuading them to prioritize her care. She felt like a number. That experience was one of the main reasons that I went to work unpaid on then-Senator Obama’s campaign in 2008. It is why one of my proudest moments serving as a White House aide to President Obama was the passage of the Affordable Care Act and why its potential repeal in 2017 led me to run for Congress. Unfortunately, when it comes to debates over the quality, access, and affordability of medical care, women are standing directly in the crossfire.

Breast cancer has been present in my family since the day I was born, in one way or another. Coupled with the challenges that women of color face when it comes to getting screenings and medical care, that’s why I’ve founded the Well Woman Coalition, a resource to help empower women to have agency over their health by arming ourselves with information and making intentional, empowered choices. There is no right or wrong answer—whether you choose increased screening or to have a preventive surgery, that’s very personal—being informed and engaged with your health is the important piece.

Six years after I first found out about my BCRA 2 mutation, I finally had my preventative double mastectomy—a life altering surgery to remove my breasts that were still healthy—earlier this month.

Now I have battle scars—almost like a badge of honor. Personally, I actually think they’re kind of beautiful. After seeing so many women in my family go through tough battles with cancer and some of them lose their lives, my scars are a symbol to me of empowerment and progress and choice.

Follow Alejandra’s journey on Instagram and at Well Women Coalition.





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Alexis Ohanian Calls Out the Double Standard on Anger Between Serena Williams and Brett Kavanaugh


If you’re a woman, you’re already familiar with the double standards applied to us when it comes to expressing emotions. If you’re a woman of color, you know it’s even more egregious.

Alexis Ohanian, Reddit co-founder and husband to Serena Williams, called out that double standard in a Twitter thread, while also proving yet again that he wins at being the most supportive husband ever. Ohanian first responded to a tweet from Deborah Barros that said, “Funny how a black female tennis player is held to a higher standard to keep her emotions in check than a Supreme Court nominee.”

His comment was short and to the point, “It’s not funny, it’s bullshit.” (Williams, of course, was very publicly criticized by some for showing frustration over a number of questionable calls during her U.S. Open finals match against Naomi Osaka last month.)

But he wasn’t quite finished making his point and proceeded to get specific about the behaviors exhibited by Brett Kavanaugh in his testimony surrounding the sexual assault allegations made against him by Christine Blasey Ford. “Played the ‘father card’,” Ohanian continued. “Cried & screamed + Insulted everyone’s intelligence with lies about the definitions of phrases anyone with Google could debunk + Argued hysterically with sitting Senators, even going so far as to threaten them.”

“If you’re going to be a Supreme Court Justice — a job that requires maintaining sober judgement, it shouldn’t matter what questions you have to answer in your job interview, you keep it together.”

Kavanaugh did indeed cry, yell, and take a fairly menacing approach to being questioned on certain topics. So much so that he (or perhaps the GOP) felt something of a public mea culpa was necessary before the final vote in a Wall Street Journal op-ed.

“I was very emotional last Thursday, more so than I have ever been. I might have been too emotional at times,” he wrote. “I know that my tone was sharp, and I said a few things I should not have said. I hope everyone can understand that I was there as a son, husband and dad. I testified with five people foremost in my mind: my mom, my dad, my wife, and most of all my daughters.”

These are the kind of arguments that society-at-large considers valid for men—not so much for women. Good on Ohanian for calling it out!

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Nick Jonas, Priyanka Chopra, Joe Jonas, and Sophie Turner Went on a Double Date to the U.S. Open


Celebrities appear to have a new favorite pastime: Watching Serena Williams dismantle the competition at the U.S. Open. On Tuesday, two-thirds of the Jonas Brothers made rooting for Serena a family affair, as they were joined by their respective fiancées, Sophie Turner and Priyanka Chopra.

Priyanka commemorated the double date with an Instagram featuring her future husband, Nick Jonas, and future in-laws. She captioned it with, “It’s a #famjam at the #usopen.” Nick also shared the same picture on social media, opting for a simple tennis ball emoji caption. This was the second family double date for Joe Jonas and Sophie in as many days, after they were spotted at the U.S. Open on Monday alongside Kevin Jonas and his wife, Danielle, PopSugar reports.

Since their whirlwind romance began in May, Nick and Priyanka have been putting their love on display for all to see, and Tuesday’s excursion was no different. “Priyanka put her head on Nick’s shoulder — they looked so cute,” a source told People.

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This wasn’t the first time this fabulous foursome teamed up for a night on the town. In July, they were spotted dining at London’s 34 Mayfair, with the oldest Jonas Brother, Kevin, also in tow. Prior to that, Nick, Joe, Sophie, and Priyanka were spotted biking around New York City during Fourth of July weekend, The Daily Mail reports.

Celebrities Attend The 2018 US Open Tennis Championships - Day 9

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Celebrities Attend The 2018 US Open Tennis Championships - Day 9

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In fact, the love these two couples have for each other was apparent from the jump, after Joe and Sophie congratulated Nick and Priyanka on their engagement via Instagram. “I couldn’t be happier for my brother. Welcome to the family @priyankachopra We love you,” Joe wrote, with Sophie adding,”Wow. First I’m blessed with an incredible future brother-in-law, and now such an beautiful, inside and out, future sister-in-law. I’m so excited to welcome you into the family @priyankachopra . I love you both @nickjonas.”

Celebrities Attend The 2018 US Open Tennis Championships - Day 9

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Celebrities Attend The 2018 US Open Tennis Championships - Day 9

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