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Ben Affleck Wants To Be Part of the Sexual Harassment 'Solution'. Let's Hope He Means It.


With holiday movie releases and awards season looming, it should come as no surprise that there are going to be a lot of questions asked in interviews and on red carpets about the Weinstein scandal and all that has come in its wake. It’s also no surprise that we’ll be hearing a lot of canned replies that have “my publicist approved this message” written all over them—though not from you, Uma Thurman! And calls for change. So many calls for change.

Here are just a few of the stars with projects coming out over the next few months to keep an eye on: Matt Damon (“Downsizing”), Greta Gerwig (“Lady Bird”), the entire cast of “Murder On the Orient Express” including (ahem) Johnny Depp, Woody Harrelson (“LBJ”), Julia Roberts (“Wonder”), Margot Robbie (“I, Tonya”), and Anna Kendrick (“Pitch Perfect 3”). And that’s just the beginning.

Yesterday, it was Ben Affleck’s turn as he was out promoting his latest film, “Justice League”. He had a few words to say about the current climate in Hollywood telling the Associated Press that he’s “looking at my own behavior and addressing that and making sure I’m part of the solution.”

It’s probably a good idea that the actor does some self-reflection given the accusations that he groped Hilarie Burton and makeup artist Annamarie Tendler. (He has already apologized for acting inappropriately toward Burton.) And then there’s this video interview from 2004 that recently resurfaced. It’s, frankly, hard to watch.

So, yes, it’s great that Affleck says he wants to be better. (Though it’s more than a little bit distressing that at age 45, he’s just seeing the error of his ways.) That he wants to see “more women need to be pushed to power.” And that sexual harassment also has to be a “men’s issue.” We’re sure to hear many more echo his sentiments.

We just hope they all mean it.



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An Astrologer Explains What Being Born on September 16 Means


Were you born on September 16? If so, you’re in excellent company, my Virgonian friends, because according to Harvard’s Amitabh Chandra, yours is the most popular birthday in the good ol’ U.S. of A. It’s fun to be popular!

Astrology is not just your horoscope. It actually involves lots of math, and your horoscope is the result of your astrologer applying that math to human experience. For every degree of all twelve signs of the zodiac, there exists a Sabian Symbol. These visual representations were originally channeled by a clairvoyant woman (and fellow Virgo!) named Elsie Wheeler, back in 1925.

On September 16 of every year, the Sun falls on the 23rd degree of Virgo. This degree is special—the Sabian Symbol for it is of a lion tamer displaying their skill—and indicates strength of character and a willingness to strive towards self-mastery.

Discernment is a strong quality for Virgos in general, and if you have this birthday, your discernment needs to be applied to your sexuality, not just your mind. Getting embodied, embracing your sexuality, and harnessing your personal power with the radical act of self-acceptance are all parts of being a 9/16 baby. This isn’t about having sex, per se, but the virility that flowers from your sexual center. One of the things that I love about the Virgo sign is that it’s arguably the feminist sign—it’s the only one symbolized by a lady human and known for her wit. For those born on this day, you’re built to stand up to social pressures while in search of what’s real and true. So much of your work in life is in finding your voice. This is kind of a heavy cross to bear, but if anyone is strong enough to do it, it’s a Virgo. You’re likely to have had to transcend personal struggle to find that voice.

What’s so interesting about the astrological birth chart is that it’s kind of a chicken/egg thing. Your birth is the result of actions outside of your control, before you were even a pea. Early conditions in your family, including those related to your conception, shape your birth chart and your nature. So if you were born in September, that means that you were conceived in the cold winter month of December, somewhere around Christmas time. Even if you’re not of Christian origins, you’re still from a place where the whole country stops to celebrate. During this time, most people get a break from work, a reminder to value one another, and the space to drop into the physical act of love (I know I’m talking about your parents doing it—sorry!). People are also inclined to more depression and loneliness during the holiday times, so it stands to reason that they find sexy ways to connect.

In astrological terms, we’re talking about being conceived in Capricorn season, a time when we’re meant to invest in the things that count. Capricorn vibes can be a bit of a buzzkill, what with all the obligation and responsibility that they bring, which accounts for why some people tend to get heavy-hearted around this time. One of the results of being conceived in such an intense time, when the ways in which we’re connected are on everyone’s minds, is that you are a self-reflective, contemplative lover. As a result, September 16 babies need to avoid getting tripped up by ideas of love, and instead strive to be present for the real thing.

So go hug a Virgo! There’s probably one sitting next to you right now. ?

Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer, a psychic medium, and an all-around nice lady who wants to help you help yourself. She gives readings full-time, has lectured extensively, and petted many cats with great enthusiasm. Read her horoscopes, get a personal reading, or take a class with her because it’ll be awesome. Follow her on Facebook and Twitter.*



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What the Eclipse Means for Your Zodiac Sign


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The first eclipse to make its entire way across the U.S. since 1918 (and the first one seen in the U.S. since 1979) will be visible Monday, August 21—and it’s a big deal. Sure, it’s a major meteorological event, but it’s also spiritual for a lot of people.

Glamour‘s astrologer, Jessica Lanyadoo, runs down what the eclipse means for your zodiac sign, what solar eclipses typically symbolize, and how long its effects could last.

This eclipse seems like a big deal to members of the astrology community. What makes this kind of event special to people who do what you do?
Part of what you’re seeing is the uptick in people’s interest and understanding of astrology. Eclipses happen a couple times a year, but not all eclipses are total as this one is. It’s unusual in that it will be visible across the whole U.S. Eclipses create a shadow, and astrologers see that we, in turn, are forced to confront our own shadow. It’s intense, and people are really feeling it.

Astrologically speaking, what are Eclipses known for doing?
Eclipses are harbingers of change. This one marks a time to stand up for what you believe in and to live your life with more passion and integrity.

Could the chaotic news cycle be blamed on eclipse season? Or will it at least affect how we react to the news?
Absolutely! In my opinion, we are being confronted by our shadow. That means different things for different people, but for us as a country, it’s pretty clear: this Eclipse is asking us to investigate our shadow on the collective level. The shame of genocide, slavery, the KKK, anti-Semitism, and institutionalized racism are the shadow of the U.S.A. We as a nation cannot look away or turn our backs on what’s happened in our history or what’s happening in the here and now. My dear friend, astrologer Christopher Renstrom, says, “Solar Eclipses in Leo—especially total Eclipses—are said to presage…the downfall of a person in high office.” And to be honest, I totally hope so!

Do they affect certain signs more, or differently? If so, why?
Astrology is a bunch of math, as unsexy as that sounds. So for anyone who has the math of their chart directly aspected by the math of this Eclipse (the Moon and Sun will both be at 29 degrees of Leo), the effects will be stronger. For people who have Leo, Aquarius, Taurus, or Scorpio prominently placed in their charts, this will be an especially personal event, but no one will be untouched by this Eclipse.

Any Eclipse-specific self-care tips?
We’re all on call to confront our own shadows and bring them into the light. This is an emotional time, and the Sun in astrology is related to the will: it represents our identity and desire to do something. So here’s my tip: choose love, and align all of your actions from that place. There are really only two choices in life: fear and love. If you distill all of your thoughts and all of your actions down to their most essential form, they are the embodiment of one or the other. Fear is pervasive. It promises to make you safe and pretends to be wisdom, but it isn’t. Love is risky and radical and comes from a place of strength; it’s the very force of creation. Align yourself with that, especially when it’s hard.

When can we expect the effects of the Eclipse to wear off? Does it even work that way?
Anywhere from the next six months up to the next year and a half will be marked by the events that happen now. But here’s the beauty of astrology: We look at things as a continuum, not isolated events. So the growth or regressions of this moment are always an opportunity. We can rise or fall (that’s where your free will comes in), but it won’t happen all at once. This is a New Moon, and that represents a powerful new chapter; it’s one we’ll be exploring for a long time to come.

For more eclipse news and info—including when you might be able to see it in your area—NASA has a great tracker.



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