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Olivia Wilde's Childbirth Story Is Honestly the Craziest Thing We've Heard Today


Most moms would tell you that they can remember exactly where they were and what they were doing when they went into labor. What’s unusual is, say, if they were breaking it down at a concert when their little one decided it was time to enter the world—but that’s exactly what happened with Olivia Wilde. Just four years ago, she and her partner, Jason Sudeikis, had their first child, Otis Alexander Sudeikis. And in honor of Otis’ fourth birthday, Wilde shared the crazy story of her son’s birth.

The A Vigilante actress shared a photo of her son on Saturday wearing a crown and posing with a birthday cupcake. Wilde’s caption reveals that she was at a Jon Batiste concert at a venue in New York City four years ago when her water broke. She wasn’t in a rush, however: Wilde stayed until the end of the concert before heading to the hospital to give birth to her baby boy.

“4 years ago today we were at a @jonbatiste concert at Webster Hall in Manhattan, and this little one decided he wanted to come out and join the dance party,” Wilde wrote in her Insta caption. “My water broke somewhere up on the balcony. So next time you’re there, think of us. ?. (We obviously stayed til the end of the show. Cuz that’s how we do.) Happy birthday, Otis!!!”

Back to the present: It looks like the family went to Disneyland to celebrate Otis’ fourth birthday. (Or, as Wilde named it, “Mousechella.”)

Weirdly enough, Wilde and Sudeikis almost had their second child, Daisy Josephine, at a concert as well: In October 2016 the couple was on their way to a Beyoncé concert when the actress started experiencing contractions. This time, they skipped the concert and headed to the hospital. Daisy didn’t arrive that night—the contractions wound up stopping—but a few days later, they welcomed their baby girl.

Don’t know about you, but these are some of the Wildest going-into-labor stories we’ve heard.

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The Problem With Men, Michelle Obama Says, Is We've Made Them 'Entitled'


On Wednesday Former First Lady Michelle Obama took to the stage at the inaugural Obama Summit alongside poet Elizabeth Alexander for a wide-ranging discussion on topics like Twitter, raising children and the crucial importance of self-care. But perhaps her most pointed and valuable advice was for men in America and their grave need to get a better group of friends.

“Y’all need to get you some friends,” Obama said to uproarious laughter and applause from the crowd.

Female friends, Obama said, “straighten each other out on some things … Y’all need to go talk to each other about your stuff because there’s so much of it. It’s so messy. Talk about why y’all the way you are.”

From there, Obama explained that all the issues that come with male adulthood stem from the way society raises its boys.

“The problem in the world today is we love our boys and we raise our girls. We raise them to be strong and sometimes we take care not to hurt men. And I think we pay for that a little bit,” she said. “And that’s a we thing because we’re raising them.”

Obama then posed the question asking whether or not we are coddling young men too much “so they feel entitled and a little self-righteous sometimes? But that’s kind of on us too as women and mothers as we nurture men and we push girls to be perfect.”

In her discussion with Alexander Obama added that young girls must be taught from a very young age to stand up for themselves and practice that skill for a lifetime.

“If we don’t ask them to speak up at an early age that doesn’t just happen,” she said. “It takes practice to have a voice… to say ‘no, don’t touch me.'”

As a mother to two young women Obama explained that she is focusing on ensuring her daughters are “sturdy and able to exist” in this world because, as she said, “it is a world that is dangerous for women.”

In addition to her highly useful advice about raising strong girls, Obama also gave a quick lesson to a few unnamed world leaders on how to effectively use social media for god.

“When you have a voice you can’t just use it any kind of way … You don’t just say what’s on your mind. You don’t tweet every thought,” Obama said, again eliciting a huge laugh from the crowd. “Your first initial thoughts are not worthy of the light of day,” she added. But to ensure the audience that she wasn’t talking about Tweeter-in-Chief Donald Trump Obama coyly added, “And I’m not talking about anybody in particular, I’m talking about us all because everybody does that.”

And we’d be apt to believe she wasn’t calling out Trump until she threw out this fairly obvious shade saying that when sending tweets “You need to think and spell it right and have good grammar, too.”

Watch her entire speech below.

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'This Is Us' Directors Explain Why We've Never Met Jack's Brother Before


Tonight’s episode of This Is Us—appropriately titled “Brothers”—packed a lot into 42 minutes. We learned via a super early flashback that Jack has a younger brother named Nicky, which gives us even more insight (and questions) into Jack’s mysterious past. We also saw Kevin struggle to keep up appearances at a charity gala because of his addiction to pain meds. Then, after Kate told Toby she’s pregnant, she sternly instructed him not to talk about their unborn child until after the baby is born. Of course, that was until she decided to bend that impossible rule and let Toby tell one person at a local coffee shop, which then turned into a Hootie & the Blowfish song-and-dance routine followed by an ode to Flashdance. Got that?

Obviously, we needed answers immediately about all of the above—so executive producers Glenn Ficarra and John Requa, who directed the episode, hopped on the phone to fill us in.

So, Jack has a brother. Was there ever any previous reference that this sibling existed?

John Requa: I don’t think we have, as far as we can remember. The point of this episode is to show that Jack has been hiding this. He also had a serious alcohol problem that he completely concealed from his wife and his family, and he’s concealed this dark part of his past as well. I think [it’s the same thing as] when we see Kevin keeping secrets and being evasive. We see the weaknesses of the father passed on to the son, so for this episode, titled “Brothers,” it fit nicely into the theme. The reveal informs all the scenes before it.

The way Jack is dealing with Kevin—it’s the first time you’re seeing Jack be a bit short and testy with his kids—and it turns out, there’s a reason because he really wants this brotherhood to work. Once you see he had a brother of his own, well, that raises all sorts of questions: Is there regret there? Is there something he’s trying to replicate? Or something he’s trying to fix?

Should we assume that Nicky Pearson is alive in the present day? Or will that be a mystery solved later in the season?

John: We’re never going to explore the Nicky storyline. [Laughs]

Glenn Ficarra: If This is Us has taught us anything, it’s never assume anything. It’s safe to say, though, that you’ll be surprised.

Fair enough. At the beginning of the episode, viewers are told that Jack’s dad, Stanley, is on his deathbed. We don’t see him die by the end of the episode. Will he be back, or was that it?

Glenn: Well, I think we’re certainly open to come back and revisit him, but the main takeaway is that this man, because of his choices and his relationship with Jack, is going to die alone.

John: Whenever his demise is, it will be a miserable and lonely one. The message of the episode is that there are two sides to Jack: the open, gregarious father, who really works hard to be a good dad and mend the fences between the two brothers, and there’s the side that keeps secrets. Then you see Kevin keeping secrets and going down a dark path. You see Randall being this very involved father, trying to make this relationship work with Déjà, and then you see, if you go down the dark path, where it leads. It leads to you dying alone with your son unwilling to visit you in a nursing home. In the microcosm of this episode, that’s what we’re trying to say.

In this episode, you worked with a lot of young actors—from Jack and Nicky to Kevin and Randall—on some really difficult scenes. What was that like?

John: Milo Ventimiglia has really taken it on to develop relationships with the kids. When we were shooting that really great scene in the tent with Parker [Young Kevin], it was just a great performance, and he’s this little guy! Milo came up to me and said, “Parker’s been working really hard, and he wants to deliver some emotional weight to this scene.” I said, “OK.” When somebody says that—an actor, or in this case, it was Milo—you really get your crew in line and get out of the way and let them do it. He came in there, and in take one he came from a really raw, emotional place. He really delivers a remarkable performance.

Glenn: To watch all the kids grow is a really great thing, but you don’t want them to lose that wildness of being children. We want them to be a family and drive their parents crazy, so you find a way to work with them that keeps them as a tight unit but doesn’t strip them down, either.

John: Milo knows all the rules right now. He’s like half-parent, half-acting coach for those guys. I always say when we’re about to direct an episode, “OK, Milo, what’s the deal?” And he says, “Well, this one, he’s thought about [the scene]…” Milo is a very thoughtful guy and he understands how tricky it can be. He was a young actor himself, and he really deserves a lot of the credit of the level of performances those kids get to.

Let’s talk about Kevin and Sophie for a minute. It’s really interesting to see him unravel just as his career is on the upswing and he’s back with Sophie. What can you share about what’s to come? And what’s Sophie’s role in this?

Glenn: In a lot of ways, he’s revisiting his relationship with Sophie. Kevin isn’t done growing yet. How Sophie factors into it, we’re going to see. Is Kevin on his way up or his way down? Just because he’s going back to this relationship with Sophie doesn’t mean he’s fixed all the problems. That’s really going to inform the next few episodes, and you’ll see where that’s going to go. It’s time he deals with that. Through no fault of her own, Sophie is unaware of what’s going on, just the way that Rebecca was unaware of what was going on with Jack and his problems. These things can be insidious and the shame of having a problem forces you to keep secrets. You can get really damn good at it.

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John: Sophie is what he can lose, and how it affects his family and how it affects his relationship…that’s really what addiction is about. It’s not about wandering the streets. It’s about the people you love, and the damage you do to those relationships that are so vital in your life. Addiction is always an ensemble. It’s never about one person. An addict will say, “This is my choice.” But ultimately it’s not really your choice, because your actions affect the people that you love. The stakes of your actions are that you hurt people you love. In many ways, Sophie is what Kevin has to gain and what he has to lose as he goes forward.

Glenn: We talked with an addiction expert, who said the opposite of addiction is not moderation. The opposite of addiction is connection. The only thing that really can cure you of addiction is human connection, and it’s one thing you lose as an addict. You sever all those connections, and you fold in on yourself.

Finally, I want to ask about Kate and Toby. Who among the writing staff is such a huge Hootie & the Blowfish fan that they wanted that song to play during Toby’s celebratory dad-to-be announcement?

John: [Laughs] Tyler Bensinger wrote the episode, and his favorite band is Hootie & the Blowfish. He actually, for a period, follows them around, like people follow The Grateful Dead. He follows them around, and he wears—to the writing room—a Hootie & the Blowfish hoodie once a week. He loves them. He’s obsessed with them! He’s been lobbying, ever since he’s come on the show, to get Hootie & the Blowfish in there. We love it because it kind of makes sense that that would be Toby’s favorite song. Actually, it’s not his favorite song; it’s his happy song! [Laughs] It makes the scene really funny, I think.



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