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Amber Heard Is Really Sick of the Dumb Blonde Cliché


Even if you haven’t seen Aquaman, Amber Heard‘s latest movie, you’ve definitely seen her name in the headlines lately. The actress has been making the news in her other role as a political activist. Of course, political activism is ever more inextricable from women’s activism, and Heard’s been using her voice there too, from making domestic violence PSAs to writing powerfully about sexual violence—and the anger she faced as a result of speaking up about it.

In that vein, #OwningIt might be a rallying crying ready for Twitter, but it’s also part of a new campaign from L’Oréal Paris, which Heard is a global ambassador for. (Her commercial airs for the first time tonight during the Golden Globes.) Glamour spoke with Heard about activism, her wishes for what needs to change in Hollywood, and the joys of truly “owning it,” whether it’s in your work, life, or image. Because if anyone proves you can care about beauty, hair care, and the political issues that matter most to women—that these things aren’t mutually exclusive—it’s the very blond and very vocal Heard. Ahead, she answers our Big Beauty Questions.

Glamour: Your new campaign is all about “owning it.” Tell us about a time where you really felt like you embodied the phrase.

Amber Heard: I’ve gone through times in my life where I was dying my hair a different color in order to alter or control others’ perceptions of who I was—and knowing that being a blond came with its own caveat, there have been times in my life where I’ve had to weigh out the meaning. As I get older, I feel more and more aligned with owning my hair color, no matter what color it is. It feels less as though I’m trying to carry around others’ expectations—or my expectations of others’ impressions of me—based on my physical appearance, and instead I’m truly owning my own color, and whatever I want that color to be. Especially recently, I have felt more and more proud of it, and proud to be me.

Glamour: In 2018, women really owned it—in so many senses of the phrase. What do you hope to see women doing more of in 2019?

AH: Well, for me especially, being able to help other people give back, being able to lend a voice to those who might not have one, or fight for justice where it’s not found or it’s being threatened—that is its own invaluable reward. And in my case, I feel so lucky in this moment to have a platform and to lend a hand and a voice. But the truth is, anybody can make a difference, no matter how big or small the effort. Especially now, the power is in our hands, and we’ve seen the effects of that reality really unfold in the last year and a half or so.

Glamour: What’s your favorite thing about being a blond?

AH: Well, you know, it’s me—I guess that’s what it is. Hair color isn’t who you are, but part of who I am is blond. Your hair color doesn’t make you one way or another—any more than a piece of makeup or jewelry or wardrobe makes you, in the same way that those things can be seen as tools to help you actualize how you act, or how you dress, or who you are, or how you feel like being. These tools can be incredibly empowering. While I’ve been bald or changed my hair all different colors, my blond is my own, and it feels like me.

Glamour: What do you do to keep your hair in such great shape?

AH: I put it through a lot, with the coloring and styling. But on my off days, I like to give it a break. Or I’ll leave a deep conditioner in if I have glam in the morning. There’s a L’Oréal Rapid Reviver Deep Conditioner that has the power of a leave-in, but it washes out just like that in a minute. It can easily fit into your life; you can easily incorporate it into your routine—you don’t need to change your process.

Glamour: What’s your favorite way to take a moment for yourself?

AH: Reading. Poetry. I love poetry. It’s truly a selfish exercise. I couldn’t recommend it more.

Glamour: What’s one beauty rule you swear by?

AH: It’s less of a rule, but you know what I will say? It’s time for all the clichés about blonds to step aside. It’s time to retire stereotypes about blonds—or any woman’s hair color for that matter.

Glamour: What country gives you the most beauty inspiration?

AH: I mean, maybe this is cliché, but French women are incredibly chic. There’s something I really appreciate and identify with in the simplicity of their approach. It’s an elegant simplicity. I try to do that with my look when I can, in real life and on the carpet.

Glamour: If you were stuck on a desert island, what three skin care products would you want with you?

AH: Well, no matter where I am or what I’m doing, I always wash my face. I never miss washing my face. That’s a must for me, whether I’m in a hotel halfway across the world or my own bathroom before bed. And when I wake up it’s a must. I use the L’Oréal Paris Pure Sugar Facial Scrub—it’s awesome. And I’m also really loving the L’Oreal Paris Revitalift Derm Intensives Vitamin C Facial Treatment. Dermatologists are constantly preaching the benefits you get from Vitamin C in skin care, so I try to work that in as much as I can. And then of course, SPF, baby!

Glamour: Screw, Marry, Kill: mascara, lipstick, highlighter.

AH: I’d marry lipstick, screw mascara, and kill highlighter.

Glamour: What’s the last Instagram rabbit hole you went down?

AH: Baby drag queens! These amazing, beautiful, sparkly little human queens are not even pre-school age.

Glamour: What’s your beauty mantra?

AH: Be yourself. And find who you are and own it.

Glamour: You have $20 and free roam of a drugstore. What do you buy?

AH: L’Oréal Paris Rouge. It’s got so much pigment in it. If you have $20, and you have one thing you want to buy, that red lipstick fixes everything. And if you have anything leftover, I would go to the snacks.

Glamour: What women are you most inspired by right now?

AH: Well, that’s what’s so exciting about being alive right now and being active socially right now. There are so many incredible groundbreakers, rule-breakers, and game-changers who are shaking things up from the ground up. And at the forefront, I’ve found the most impactful and inspiring people have been women. It’s an incredibly exciting time. It’s no longer about celebrities and public speakers or well-known activists: It’s the Tarana Burkes, the Emma Gonzalezes; it’s Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, the Paula Mendozas, Symone Sanders—those women that are on the ground doing things. They are incredible forces of nature. And there are also celebrities doing things, like Andie MacDowell, Shohreh Aghdashloo…

Also, this is very obvious but very true: shout out to my mom. That is who started this whole thing. I’d be nowhere if it weren’t for me having learned how to admire and adopt a role model. And my mother is the one who established that role model for me.

Glamour: If you could change one thing about the perception of beauty in Hollywood what would that be?

AH: That external beauty should be valued behind someone’s confidence, sense of self-worth, talent, or inner beauty.

This interview has been edited and condensed.



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Carrie Underwood Recently Canceled Two Shows Because She Was So Sick She ‘Couldn’t Stand’


Last week, Carrie Underwood fans in the U.K. found themselves wishing her a speedy recovery after she canceled two performances due to an unspecified “illness.” According to People, Underwood’s record label made the announcement on Facebook, revealing that the singer would no longer be performing at the Long Road Festival or Radio 2 Live at Hyde Park over the weekend.

This week, Underwood shed some light on the health condition that led to her last-minute cancellations. “I don’t cancel shows. Like, I will drag myself on the stage and perform if I have the flu, or whatever,” she told Jimmy Fallon on The Tonight Show Thursday night (September 13). “In the U.K., we had to cancel a couple shows. Basically, I got, like, a viral thing, and I woke up, I had vertigo, and I could not stand up, and it was crazy.”

“I ended up in a German hospital for three days,” she added. “They were so sweet and so nice. And we were, like, in our rooms, like, trying to learn German and trying to communicate with the people….I learned one phrase. ‘Kein fleisch, bitte’—’No meat, please.’ I don’t eat meat, so they would come in—that’s all I learned. That’s all I got.”

Watch Underwood explain this for yourself, below:

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A few months ago, Underwood revealed she had seriously injured herself in a fall last November, requiring 40 to 50 facial stitches and metal screws in her broken wrist.. “I honestly don’t know how things are going to end up but I do know this: I am grateful. I am grateful that it wasn’t much, much worse,” she wrote in a blog post at the time. “And I am grateful for the people in my life that have been there every step of the way…. It’s crazy how a freak random accident can change your life.”

After spending several months in recovery, Underwood returned to the stage in April with a triumphant performance of her new song “Cry Pretty” at the Academy of Country Music Awards, receiving a long standing ovation and later winning Vocal Event of the Year with Keith Urban.

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I’m Too Sick to Work, But I Still Budget Money for Makeup


The other day, I found myself staring at the latest collection from Melt Cosmetics online. I’d been eyeing it on Instagram for weeks. Did I need it? No. But it’d been at least five months since I last bought myself makeup, so I clicked add to cart and got all $200 worth of the line.

While this might seem like a common splurge for many makeup enthusiasts, it definitely feels like something others might judge me for—honestly, it’s something I judge myself for at times. Despite the fact I that usually only buy makeup around three times a year, as someone who’s unemployed, I don’t exactly have money to spare.

After being diagnosed with multiple chronic illnesses—the biggest being Lyme disease—I’m now living at home with my parents at the age of 27 because my illnesses have taken over my ability to go out and live my own life. While other twentysomethings joke that “adulting” is hard, I’ve had to ration the $12,000 I saved as I pushed my way through internships and entry-level jobs. But I’m lucky that’s not always on my mind. I’ve got too many other things to worry about.

Right now my focus is on being less sick or perhaps just feeling “fine.” I’m often exhausted and lightheaded; starving and completely without an appetite. I have both insomnia and the inability to wake up. Sometimes my joints get so swollen, it hurts too much even hold my phone. And when I’m struck with a bout of intense nausea, I’m just happy I don’t accidentally throw up on my cat. Through all that, though, I still have to muster up the energy to go to weekly doctor appointments and treatments.

Most of this feels like a bearable discomfort, because I’m so used to it all by now. And yet, when I look at myself, barefaced, in the mirror, all I still see is a sick person.

While some may see makeup as frivolous—or worse, a costly, empty pastime that somehow makes you vapid—for me, it’s therapeutic.

I first started caring, like really caring, about makeup when I was 18. I’d just started to develop skin condition on my face. I couldn’t just cover it with concealer; I thought I needed full-on foundation. To not look gaunt, I thought, why not add some blush? Ooh, and highlighter? If I was going that far, I might as well enjoy doing my eye makeup and throw on some lipstick for good measure. Before long, makeup grew into a hobby. And then when I got really sick, my use for it evolved again. It became my armor—a shield to protect my self-esteem. I might be sick, but I don’t have to look it.

More than that, it’s also a ritual that helps calm my mind. While some may see makeup as frivolous—or worse, a costly, empty pastime that somehow makes you vapid—for me, it’s therapeutic. It’s a soothing, creative outlet that doesn’t drain my energy. And believe me, energy is a precious commodity when you’re dealing with chronic illness. One night out, and I can sleep until the evening of the next day, or worse, I’ll wake up in twice my normal pain. As I’m constantly bombarded with the ramifications of my illnesses, finding small things I can enjoy from the comfort of my home is essential.

I think deep down it bothers me because I wish I were well enough to work and actually afford these things like a person in “good health” would.

While I spend time every day, twice a day, on skin care, I only actually do my makeup when someone is coming to visit or when I’m leaving the house. A lot of the time, this means I’m putting my best face forward for my weekly hospital visits, where I get stabbed with a needle to receive much appreciated saline infusions.

I try my best to schedule at least one hour to take my time doing my makeup and I always look forward to it. I find real joy sitting down in front of my mirror, eyeshadow brush in hand to sweep a luxurious shade over my lids, followed by a flick of liner to create the perfect cat eye. When I do this, my illness isn’t at the forefront of my mind. Sure, I think about covering up my dark circles, and my face often looks puffy or swollen because of my illnesses, but apart from that, beauty truly is an escape.

By this logic, I know I shouldn’t feel shame or guilt when I do decide to buy makeup. But it’s the same feeling I get when I travel or go to a concert or even just to the movies. I think deep down it bothers me because I wish I were well enough to work and actually afford these things like a person in “good health” would.

So when I do choose to spend $200 on makeup, that ability comes down to my privilege of having family who can offer the financial and emotional support that every person with chronic illness desires. They worry about me, they care about my overall wellbeing, they make sure I get all the treatments I need, and they try to help me have a semblance of a normal life when they can. But still there’s that little voice in my head that tells me I don’t deserve nice things. Because if it weren’t for my parents’ support, I wouldn’t have them. I’d probably be thousands of dollars in medical debt, except I have zero credit and no job so I’d probably just have to forgo essential treatments and visits to my Lyme-literate doctor instead.

Without my parents’ financial aid, I’d probably be struggling to talk and living with excruciating pain. Once I start thinking of those what ifs, I have to back way up and remind myself I’m lucky. So, yes, still having savings that I can spend on small pleasures is a privilege, but I take it as it is and try very hard to just live my life.

When my package from Melt finally arrived, I could feel the excitement reverberate throughout myself. Once I got the box open, I wanted to touch all the pretty new products, but instead I opened each one with care, looked at it, then put it back. It felt like these were too nice to use, but I waited in anticipation for an outing where I would be able to show them off. As usual, someone would probably compliment my makeup, “Wow you look great, you must be doing better!” and I would give my go-to response, “No, that’s just the magic of makeup.”

May is Lyme Disease Awareness Month. You can read more about it here.




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Kate Middleton Tended to a Sick Boy During a Royal Visit


As any parent can attest, mom and/or dad duty never really ends…even if you’re in the middle of a royal visit. At least, that’s the case for Kate Middleton and Prince William. On Tuesday, People reports, the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge were paying a visit to an elementary school in Coventry when Middleton’s mom senses started tingling. One 10-year-old student had been waiting in the cold for three hours just to see the royals. When Middleton noticed he was looking pale, she came over and bent down to speak to him, according to Carole Flynn, a learning mentor at the school. Middleton then went back to her bodyguards and got the boy a brown paper bag, just in case.

“Princess Kate came over and give him a sickbag,” Flynn told People. “I think he was a little bit overcome.” Totally understandable. Who wouldn’t be? Thankfully, the child wasn’t so overcome that he ended up needing to use the bag. It seems like being taken care of by Middleton herself was a good enough cure.

“It was lovely of her,” Flynn added. “She really took time with him. You can tell she is a mom and has got that caring side.”

Meanwhile, Prince William had a kid crisis of his own to manage. According to People, there was a little girl in the crowd who was in tears because she wanted a hot chocolate. Before the royals left for their next appointment at the cathedral, Prince William reportedly asked her if he should order her a hot chocolate with marshmallows. “With lots of cream,” she answered.

Despite their expert handling of both kid catastrophes, a mom of three in the crowd still gave the royals some advice, just in case. (This April, the couple is expecting another baby, which brings the royal brood count to three.) “I told William ‘I’ve got three kids so get as much sleep as you can,’” Kelly Brown told People. “And he laughed and said, ‘I’m trying.’” Great to see that being a royal doesn’t make you immune from making dad jokes.

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Kim Kardashian Hits Back at People Accusing Her of Leaving Her Sick Son to Party on NYE


Kim Kardashian West is not here for the Internet’s mommy shaming. On Wednesday, the KUWTK star took to Twitter to shut down rumors that she was partying on New Year’s Eve while her two-year-old son, Saint, was in the hospital with pneumonia.

“I haven’t heard this BUT lets get this straight. I did not leave my son for one minute during his hospital stay,” she wrote in response to a tweet from a fan. “We were [at the hospital] Wednesday night to Saturday. NYE WAS SUNDAY NIGHT. People came over when he was already asleep for the night!”

According to an earlier tweet from KKW, Saint spent three nights in the hospital getting “multiple IVs and hooked up to oxygen machines,” an experience that Kim called “challenging” and “scary.” Even though the star usually ignores nasty comments on her social media pages, she refuses to let Internet trolls criticize her parenting. “Don’t even try me when it comes to my kids,” she finished her statement.

Kim is currently expecting her third child via surrogate and has committed to making 2018 “all about [her] family.” Despite how dedicated she is to the youngest members of the West brood, this isn’t the first time the Internet has offered its unsolicited advice on Kim’s parenting: Last year, Twitter went wild after she posted a photo of Saint facing what they assumed was the “wrong” direction in a car seat. She quickly shut that situation down, too, explaining that despite his young age, her son fit the weight and height requirements to sit front-facing instead of rear-facing. “It’s so crazy that people are so quick to mommy-shame when it’s like, I’m just learning it, too, so if anything, maybe people should be like, ‘Hey Kim, mom tip: Here is what you should be doing,’ not like, ‘Oh my god, let’s attack her.'”

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