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The Women Changing Presidential Campaigns from the Inside


Julie McClain Downey, director of state communications for Senator Cory Booker’s presidential campaign, settled into the couch in her Washington, DC apartment last June—holding her newborn daughter with her left hand, and scrolling through TweetDeck with her right. Technically, she was still on the 12-week, gender-blind paid leave available to all of the campaign’s full-time staffers. But she wasn’t going to miss Booker’s first major televised debate of the election cycle, one that in other circumstances—when she wasn’t in the throes of diaper changes and feedings—she would have watched from campaign headquarters. And so with the baby swing pulled up next to the sofa, she and her husband (also a Booker campaign staffer, also on paid leave) sat in the glow of the TV, cozy in their sweats. “We were like, What is our life?,” says McClain Downey. “It’s so different now.”

It’s so different now could as easily describe the shifting demographics on presidential campaigns this election cycle, where for the first time in history, women dominate high-level positions. Almost a year after a record number of women won elected offices throughout the country (buoyed by female voters), there seems to be an understanding among presidential hopefuls that if you want to win, you better have women on your side—and on your staff. Of the 12 candidates who qualified for the October 15 debate, a third have female campaign managers; women hold more than half of senior leadership roles across the Democratic primary field; and multiple campaigns have teams that are at least 60 percent women.

“When I first started, I think I can remember three or four women who were leaders on campaigns,” says Beto O’Rourke’s campaign manager Jennifer O’Malley Dillon, who has worked on every presidential race for the last 20 years. “You knew who they were because there were so few of them.”

Almost eight years ago, when O’Malley Dillon was deputy campaign manager for President Barack Obama’s re-election bid, she approached older female colleagues about what it might be like to do this work with young children. “I was at that point like five years into my marriage, I was 35, contemplating kids, trying to decide, Can I do this campaign if I’m even thinking about kids? And I had women say to me, not in any other way than just to be supportive, ‘Absolutely no, you can’t do this with a kid,’…or ‘Sure, you can try that, but don’t tell anyone you might get pregnant.’” O’Malley Dillon went ahead with her plans to start a family anyway—soon learning she was pregnant with twins—but she was an outlier. “I really felt like I was a unicorn [working the 2012 race while pregnant],” she says. “People were looking at me like I was crazy.”

That’s hardly the case this election cycle, where multiple women are vying for the Democratic nomination and women have filled key campaign positions for more than a dozen candidates. Already, this increase in women’s representation behind the scenes has had an impact on campaign culture—and understandably so. It would be hypocritical for any candidate to talk about the need for better leave policies or equal pay on the debate stage, but not offer them to his or her staff. And so this has also pushed campaigns to become better workplaces. The difference from what O’Malley Dillon went through just seven years ago to what McClain Downey experienced this year is stark: McClain Downey not only interviewed for her position on Booker’s campaign while very visibly pregnant, she asked during the interview process what the paid leave policy would be before accepting the role.

Julie McClain Downey, back right, joined Senator Cory Booker’s presidential campaign while visibly pregnant. 

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Best Perfume for Women 2019 – 22 Scents Successful Women Love


Historians aren’t sure of the exact origin of aromatherapy, but the practice is believed to date back at least 6,000 years, when it was common among ancient Egyptians to dose themselves in fragranced oils to connect with the gods and cure ailments. While the majority of us no longer crush up plants and herbs to make our own fragrances, you could argue that spritzing ourselves with Le Labo is our modern-day version of scent healing.

Because of the intense connection fragrance has with our emotions, changing your perfume is an easy way to switch up your mood or channel a different part of your persona. There are some scents that are universal, like comforting vanilla or a sexy oud. But when it comes to a fragrance that exudes confidence, that’s in the eyes (nose?) of the beholder. We polled 22 successful women, including Ty Haney, Paris Hilton, and Ashley Nicole Black (to name only a few), on what power smells like to them. Ahead, find the best perfume for women, according to their recommendations.

All products featured on Glamour are independently selected by our editors. However, when you buy something through our retail links, we may earn an affiliate commission.



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The Women of RAICES Texas Giving Immigrants a Voice


For her 27th birthday this past May, Lucia Allain traveled to the border. A citizen now, she’d grown up undocumented in New York City, a Peruvian immigrant whose mother worked so many hours and spoke so little English that it fell to Allain to attend parent-teacher conferences for her little brother. Birthdays weren’t really a thing. But this year, as part of the traveling she does for her job, she went to El Paso to collect the stories of asylum seekers who’d come to the United States for refuge. The people she met had been allowed in, for now—the fortunate few who would get to plead their cases. But with court dates far in the future, the migrants had been deposited at a bus station. These were stories not of the triumphant “good immigrant,” who’d started a small business or become a doctor or an engineer. Theirs were stories like her own, which so often go unheard.

Allain is the communications manager for RAICES, the Refugee and Immigrant Center for Education and Legal Services. Founded in San Antonio in 1986 as waves of refugees migrated north, farther from the civil wars savaging Central America, RAICES provides legal services to immigrants in federal detention. It now has 11 offices across the state of Texas. The organization serves a range of clients—unaccompanied children, single adults, and families—but its employees are majority female, and women hold most of the leadership positions. Many come from immigrant families themselves.

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You know them. In April 2018, when the Trump administration instituted its “zero tolerance policy,” referring all adult migrants entering the country illegally for criminal prosecution, the Department of Homeland Security began separating them from their children and transferring children into the care of the Department of Health and Human Services. The nation erupted in collective outrage, and a new sense of urgency transcended borders both physical and political. When a Facebook fund-raiser was set up to help support RAICES bond out parents and reunite them with their children, the campaign took in more than $20 million in just over one week—that’s nearly three times the organization’s 2018 annual budget. It was the largest Facebook fund-raiser ever. Celebrities tweeted. Newspapers ran articles. Politicians took notice. Former San Antonio mayor and current presidential candidate Julián Castro, who’s made immigration central to his campaign, didn’t mince words. In an email he wrote, “At a time when immigrants and refugees are being vilified and attacked daily by the Trump administration, RAICES, and the women behind it, are ensuring the most vulnerable families are afforded their basic constitutional rights.”

It’s been a little more than a year since, and the administration’s assault on the nation’s immigrants continues apace, but so does the work of RAICES. On her birthday, then, collecting stories to help the world better understand that work, Allain wandered through the El Paso bus station, crammed with clusters of families forced into squalid conditions. There she met a young woman, tiny and vulnerable, holding a swaddled baby. Allain could see the journey in her face. The woman—let’s call her Luz—told Allain about the gang violence in Guatemala that she’d fled, and about how she had given birth five days before, on her own. With no one else to do it, she’d cut the umbilical cord herself. Now she needed diapers. She needed to wash. She was hungry but she had no food. Give me your tired, your poor… Allain gave Luz her lunch and held the swaddled baby so she could eat.



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Salons Are Charging Extra Fees for 'Textured' Hair. Black Women Have Had Enough


Even women who have access to top tier stylists and salons say they’ve had similar experiences. Dana Oliver, beauty director at Yahoo Lifestyle, says she’s constantly searching for a salon that she can call “The One.” “There aren’t many stylists who are trained in caring for my thick, kinky coils, or even skilled at arming me with the knowledge and tools to maintain my unique strands at home or in-between salon visits,” she tells Glamour. “This has resulted in a never-ending and extremely costly journey. I don’t trust just anyone with my curly hair.”

Oliver says that, even when she goes to Black-owned salons, she sometimes receives “side-eyes” and “hard glances.” “Because my curls are tighter and require a bit more patience, I’ve been unfairly charged more for a simple wash and blow-dry styling,” she says. “It’s gone as far as salon owners calculating in their head right in front of me the ‘extra charges’ for having to style my curly hair.” It’s a situation that makes her feel disrespected and undervalued. “Wearing my natural hair makes me proud and no one should make me feel less than or question that.”

Khalea Underwood, beauty editor at The Zoe Report, feels the same. Her grandmother was a hairstylist, so she views time in the chair as her safe space, but as someone with “coily and fragile” hair, she frequently feels anything but. “Most stylists don’t know how to do my hair, and I feel like I’m a part of some weird science experiment or class demonstration in those instances,” she says. “I’ve had experiences where I’ve been told flat out that I’d be charged extra because my hair is ‘thick’—coded language for natural and unmanageable in their eyes. But more often than not, it’s the body language and inquisitive stares that makes me feel out of place.”

While many salons will charge additional fees for longer lengths, density is a somewhat murkier classification. Someone with fine hair could have what constitutes “a lot” of hair, but as Underwood’s concern raises, they might not be charged a fee like someone with kinky coils would because of the unfair perception that black hair is “unruly.” “We should be able to go to any salon and get quality treatment at fair price points without feeling ostracized for our textures,” says Underwood. “I shouldn’t be penalized for my natural hair texture. It’s not like I can help it.”

As is usually the case with viral tweets like Rae’s, Aveda reps reached out almost immediately to have a conversation and try to reconcile the situation. And Rae says she’s been happy with her interactions with the company so far. “They’ve gone above and beyond to make sure my local situation was handled, rectified, and refunded,” she says. Aveda also provided Glamour with the following statement: “At Aveda, we are committed to inclusively delivering the very best in service, embracing all hair types. We in no way condone or tolerate discriminatory behavior or profiling policies of any kind. We are deeply apologetic for this situation as it is not in line with our values. We value consumer feedback and are working with our independently owned salons to prevent this from happening again.”

Still, Rae’s aware the company’s responses, as good as they’ve been, are just that for the time being: responses. “I’m waiting to make sure they follow through with their promises—that it’s not just lip service,” she says.

In the meantime, she hopes a couple of things come out of her situation. First, a greater examination of the policies at all salons—Aveda or otherwise—regardless of who they cater to. “My hope is that salons pay more attention to ensuring customers feel seen, heard, known, and included in the conversation, and that they also feel respected,” she says.

Second, she hopes it’ll shed light on the fact that women who are born with naturally curly hair are not an inconvenience. “I want this to change the language around folks of color’s hair, period,” she says. Lastly, she’s hopeful it’ll push salons that style all hair types to engage in diversity training and educate stylists on cultural awareness and sensitivities. “If they’re trying to serve natural clients, then they really need to do the due diligence and train their front desk girls, their stylists, their managers, to really serve the client that they say they’re serving in the most excellent way,” says Rae. “Regardless of their nationality, anyone who steps in the salon should be treated fairly by all staff.”



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'Glamour' Women of the Year 2019 Honorees


In the 29 years that we’ve celebrated Women of the Year, our honorees have broken glass ceilings, shattered records, and redefined success on their own terms. This year we welcome eight new women into this sisterhood who, like the honorees before them, are using their chosen profession and inimitable spirit to push our culture forward.

Like soccer player Megan Rapinoe, who not only helped pave the U.S. Women’s National Team’s path to World Cup glory—scoring six goals during the competition—but led a tireless fight for equal pay. In March 2019—on International Women’s Day—Rapinoe and the rest of the team sued their bosses for gender discrimination. Flash forward to their epic win this summer, when the stadium started chanting “Equal pay! Equal pay!” as they took their victory lap. Or teenage environmental activist Greta Thunberg, who made a two-week voyage to the United States on a sailboat—and stood up to world leaders everywhere, challenging them to take action on climate change. As well as actors like Charlize Theron and Yara Shahidi, who, while at different points in their careers, refuse to play it safe either on screen or in their individual crusades.

We couldn’t be prouder to introduce you to Glamour’s 2019 Women of the Year. They are a diverse group, including an author, director, actors, and activists fighting to make a lasting difference. But despite their different fields, our honorees have one thing in common: They’re warriors on the frontlines of change.

Below, read about the remarkable women who comprise Glamour’s 2019 Women of the Year, and head here to buy your tickets for our annual summit and awards ceremony celebrating these women in New York City on November 10 and 11.

Charlize Theron, The Rebel

For 25 years, the Oscar-winning superstar has refused to conform to anyone’s expectations of who she should be. And therein lies the secret to her singular success.

Charlize Theron was photographed in London by Miguel Reveriego. Stylist: Leslie Fremar; hair: Adir Abergel at SWA Agency; production: Studio Lou. Dior bodysuit. For her look, try Diorshow Brow Styler ($29), Rouge Dior Ultra Care #328 Bare ($38), Dior 5 Couleurs #157 Magnify ($62; dior.com).

Greta Thunberg, The Revolutionary

16-year-old climate activist Greta Thunberg is on a mission to save the planet—but she can’t do it alone.

Greta Thunberg for Glamour Women of the Year 2019.
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Ava DuVernay, The Trailblazer

As famous as any of the stars she casts, the filmmaker is using her spotlight to fight injustice.

Ava DuVernay for Glamour Women of the Year 2019.
Ava DuVernay was photographed in L.A. by Dana Scruggs. Stylist: Jason Bolden; hair: Nena Melendez; makeup: Adam Burrell at the Only Agency; set design: Evan Jourden; production: Viewfinders. Giorgio Armani top and skirt. Chopard earrings.

Megan Rapinoe, The Champion

The World Cup star and equal-pay hero doesn’t care what the world thinks of her (or her controversial pose). She’s the unapologetic pink-haired icon we’ve needed in 2019.

Megan Rapinoe for Glamour Women of the Year 2019.
Megan Rapinoe was photographed in NYC by Gillian Laub. Stylist: Savannah White; hair: Lacy Redway at the Wall Group; makeup: Jeanine Lobell at Home Agency. All clothing, Proenza Schouler. Jenny Bird earrings. For her look, try L’Oréal Paris Infallible Flash Cat Eyeliner ($10), Paradise Enchanted Blush ($13), Infallible 8- Hour Le Gloss ($10, lorealparis usa.com).

Yara Shahidi, The New Voice

She can’t even legally order a beer, but the Grown-ish star has already cemented her status as a voice of her generation.

Yara Shahidi Glamour Women of the Year 2019.
Yara Shahidi was photographed in L.A. by Emma Summerton. Stylist: Gabriella Karefa-Johnson; hair: Kendall Dorsey at Factory Downtown; makeup: Emily Cheng at the Wall Group; manicure: Tracy Clemens at Opus; set design: Robert Duran at Frank Reps; production: Viewfinders. All clothing, Prada; Dinosaur Designs and WKNDLA earrings.

Margaret Atwood, The Oracle

Our 2019 Lifetime Achievement winner’s terrifying literary predictions are truer than ever, but so is her faith in women.

Margaret Atwood Glamour Women of the Year 2019.
Margaret Atwood was photographed by Brittany Daigle. Stylist: Jaclyn Bonavota; hair and makeup: Ronnie Tremblay at P1M. Set design: Caroline Pandeli. Production: Plutino Group. Issey Miyake jacket. Wolford top. Salvatore Ferragamo scarf. Cuchara earrings.

Tory Burch, The Visionary

For 15 years she has quietly, carefully ruled American fashion. Now the woman behind the unbreakable brand has designs for global domination.

Tory Burch for Glamour Women of the Year 2019.
Tory Burch was photographed by Pamela Hanson. Tory Burch dress, earrings. Sittings editor: Shilpa Prabhaker Nadella. Hair: Tara Jarvis; makeup: Berta Camal.

The Women of RAICES, The Guardians

Long before the crisis at the border made headlines, a group of activists took a stand for its victims.

The women of RAICES for Glamour Women of the Year 2019.
The women of RAICES were photographed by Marie D. De Jesús.
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Come back each day this week to read profiles of the 2019 Glamour Women of the Year honorees and get your tickets to the three-day event here.



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Miley Cyrus Told Women They "Don't Have to Be Gay" Because There Are "Good Men Out There"


Miley Cyrus has never been someone to shy away from controversy or speaking her mind. And the latest example of this comes from a recent Instagram Live that she did with her new boyfriend, Cody Simpson. In it, the singer joked that women “don’t have to be gay” because there are “good men out there.” People, unsurprisingly, have not responded well to this sentiment.

“Guys, I was being a little too, like…hardcore feminist vibes and, just like, I don’t know, not allowing anyone in, but now I am,” Cyrus said during her live-stream, per E! “There are good men out there, guys. Don’t give up. You don’t have to be gay. There are good people with dicks out there. You just gotta find them. You gotta find a dick that’s not a dick, you know what I mean?”

Simpson then laughed and repeated Cyrus’s “You don’t have to be gay” statement, and she responded with, “I always thought I had to be gay, because I just thought all guys are evil, but that’s not true.”

“There are good people out there that just happen to have dicks,” Cyrus continued. “I’ve only ever met one, and he’s on this live.”

Back in February, Cyrus talked to Vanity Fair about her sexuality in the context of her marriage to Liam Hemsworth. (The couple announced their split in August, and she then dated Kaitlynn Carter before getting together with Simpson.) “We’re redefining, to be fucking frank, what it looks like for someone that’s a queer person like myself to be in a hetero relationship. A big part of my pride and my identity is being a queer person,” she said. “What I preach is: People fall in love with people, not gender, not looks, not whatever. What I’m in love with exists on almost a spiritual level. It has nothing to do with sexuality. Relationships and partnerships in a new generation—I don’t think they have so much to do with sexuality or gender. Sex is actually a small part, and gender is a very small, almost irrelevant part of relationships.”

The reactions to Cyrus’s comments were swift. “Miley, this is so not it. Women don’t ‘have to be gay’ because they ‘can’t find a good person with a d*ck,'” one person tweeted. “Don’t use the queer community as a stop-gap because you couldn’t find a boyfriend. People aren’t queer because they ‘gave up’ on men. This is so insulting.”



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