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This Is Why Women Will Wear White to the State of the Union


On February 5, Donald Trump will deliver his second State of the Union address to the American people. (The state of the union is…questionable.) While chances are Trump will stick to his usual wardrobe of wide-legged suits and XXL ties, some of the women in the audience will wear a different uniform.

The Democratic Women’s Working Group has rallied women of both parties to dress in white—in a nod to the suffrage movement as well as to represent the goals of the new congressmen and women who just began their terms in office. The selection (and its significance) will be familiar to those who obsessed over the white pantsuit Representative Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez wore (and paired with gold hoops) and the Ralph Lauren outfit Hillary Clinton wore to Trump’s inauguration.

Florida Representative Lois Frankel, who chairs the group, described what the white ensembles will represent. “It’s about sending a positive message, that Democrats are fighting for the people, by promoting economic security for women and families,” Frankel tells Glamour. “We’re talking about paycheck fairness, combating sexual harassment, family-friendly workplaces, and getting more resources for affordable child care. These are the kinds of issues that will raise the wages of women and help make our families more secure.” This isn’t the first time Frankel has coordinated wardrobes to make a political point. In 2017, for Trump’s first joint address to Congress, women in attendance wore white to take a stand against attempts the Trump administration might make to roll back women’s rights. And in 2018 members wore black to the State of the Union to show support for the Me Too and Time’s Up movements.

Frankel also notes that their message isn’t an attack on Trump but more a celebration of what the Democrats plan to do now that they’ve won back the House of Representatives. “We don’t have to come in on Tuesday and even talk about Mr. Trump,” she says. “We want to talk about what we can do for our country and what we can do for our people.”

In addition to their clothes, the congresswoman have a plan to keep their policies and priorities front and center at the event. Each will bring a prominent figure in the fight for women’s equality as her plus-one. It’s a move not unlike when Time’s Up actresses invited activists to join them at the Golden Globes in 2018.



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Gabrielle Union Just Clapped Back at a Troll Telling Her to 'Dress Her Age'


For the past couple of weeks, actress Gabrielle Union has been showing off looks from her latest upcoming collaboration with New York & Company on her Instagram, which seems to have a “eat/pray/love/travel/chill” vibe going on, in her words. Out in early January, her designs seem to encompass a range of styes, including seriously comfy (and cute) athleisure. But when she posted her latest sneak peek on Friday (December 28), a troll came for the actress with an ageist attack—and you can bet Union had the perfect response ready.

On Friday, December 28, the new mom shared a photo of herself sitting in what looks like a loose-fitting black sleeveless dress and chunky sneakers. She captioned the post: “All my unfinished work/projects from 2018 looking at me as I prepare my vision board for 2019 like ???And a glimpse of my upcoming @nyandcompany eat/pray/love/travel/chill collection available next week! Sneakers by @lining.official.”

But one user apparently wasn’t thrilled with Union’s look. Instead of keeping her thoughts to herself, she let the Bring It On star know it in the comments section: “Can you dress your age please,” they wrote.

Union—who knows her way around a clapback and, in fact, just took down a mommy-shamer on December 7—certainly wasn’t going to let that one slide. “Oh I’d loooove to hear what you think is age appropriate,” the 46-year-old actress responded. “Please gimme allll the age appropriate fashion advise I didn’t know I needed in my life.”

Union’s other followers had her back, too, dropping comments like, “Loving the look, I might steal it,” and “u look you good luv, u killed it ?.” She also got some sweet support from her friend, Khloé Kardashian, who commented this morning, “You look beautiful ?.”

Luckily, all that positivity seems to have shut the troll down. Here’s to Union’s spot-on clap-back talents, all the cute and comfortable-looking dresses a closet can hold, and Internet trolls knowing better in 2019.

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Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade Opened Up to Oprah About Their Infertility Struggle


Actress Gabrielle Union and husband Dwyane Wade have been incredibly forthright about their experience trying to have a child, from experiencing close to 10 miscarriages to the years-long battle with trying to get pregnant. “For three years, my body has been a prisoner of trying to get pregnant—I’ve either been about to go into an IVF cycle, in the middle of an IVF cycle, or coming out of an IVF cycle,” she wrote in her memoir. In November, they welcomed their first daughter, Kaavia James, who was born via surrogate. And in an exclusive interview with Oprah that aired on OWN, the Union-Wade parents recounted their struggle in the hopes of increasing awareness and visibility around infertility.

Union and Wade wanted to share their story to help those who are dealing with infertility “feel seen,” according to Union: “They feel like they’re not alone,” she told Oprah.

The couple recounted their experience going through IVF—having embryos implanted and take, only to miscarry; trying again and again, thinking “you work hard, you do the right things, you’re a good person,” as Union put it. She “could not let go of this idea of creating this life within me,” she added, feeling there was a “need to be pregnant for everybody, including myself.”

Wade would get concerned about Union: “I’m watching her do things to her body and to herself that it’s getting to the point where it’s not healthy,” he told Oprah. “And as I always told her: ‘I want this baby just as much as you do, but I married you, and you are the most important thing to me.’ So it came to a point where, you know, I started to feel a certain way about that because I didn’t want something to happen to her.'”

Eventually, the Union-Wades opted for a surrogate—though, Union said she still struggles with her feelings around using one: “Did I miss—did I fail in some kind of way? Did I—am I defective in some kind of deep, you know, just—am I defective in some kind of way? Am I less than in some kind of way? Am I less worthy in some kind of way?”

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The couple was involved throughout their surrogate’s entire pregnancy, “trying to feel as a part of the birth process as possible, since it’s happening outside of both of us. But it’s been a long—a long journey,” Union said. They were at the hospital when their surrogate was in labor, and described the experience of being in the delivery room with her and her husband as deeply bonding.

“Everyone’s journey is different. Everyone’s journey to surrogacy is different,” Union said. By being open about their journey, the Union-Wades want to spark hope in couples going through similar circumstances— and break some of the stigma that still surrounds infertility.

“So many people are suffering in silence and every time, when we’re candid and transparent about our journeys, no matter what those journeys are, you are allowing people to be seen and heard and empowered in ways that they’ve never been,” Union told Oprah.

Since the show aired on OWN, people have taken to social media to praise the couple for their honesty and for bringing attention to this incredibly personal subject.

“Oprah and @itsgabrielleu are really on OWN discussing Black women’s infertility, painful periods, and seeking help instead of suffering in silence. What a time,” Evette Dionne wrote on Twitter.

“WOW! I just watched @itsgabrielleu & @dwyanewade special on @owntv and I was soo inspired by their story!I laughed, I cried, I learned so much… my spirit was truly moved,” actress Naturi Naughton shared on Instagram.

“I appreciate how @itsgabrielleu showed us the potential challenges of egg freezing on @beingmaryjane and then shared so much about @DwyaneWade and her personal journey with IVF on @OWNTV. Thank you! Learned a lot from both,” another user posted on Twitter.

“So glad @DwyaneWade & @itsgabrielleu are addressing the boundaries people cross when a couple goes through IVF and other methods to have children. It’s still so dissapointing to know how much people don’t really know about basic genetics,” one user wrote.

You can listen to Union and Wade’s full conversation with Oprah on OWN.

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Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade Announce Birth of Daughter via Surrogate


There’s nothing like surprise celebrity baby news to brighten up a day. On Thursday, November 8, Gabrielle Union took to social media to announce that she and her husband, NBA star Dwyane Wade, were the proud parents to a new baby girl. Their child was born the day before, November 7, via a surrogate.

Union has been extremely open about her struggles with infertility in the past, but the couple had kept the surrogacy private until she posted pictures of herself and Wade snuggling their new daughter. In the caption Union wrote, “A LOVELY DAY. We are sleepless and delirious but so excited to share that our miracle baby arrived last night via surrogate and 11/7 will forever be etched in our hearts as the most loveliest of all the lovely days. Welcome to the party sweet girl! #onelastdance #skintoskin @dwyanewade”

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The couple are already parents to Wade’s sons Zaire and Zion, from a previous relationship, and help raise Wade’s nephew Zahveon, and they’ve spoken publicly about the desire to have a child together. That wasn’t always the case, though. “I never wanted kids,” she said. “Then I became a stepmom, and there was no place I’d rather be than with them.”

In her book We’re Going to Need More Wine, Union opened up about her IVF treatments and revealed she had multiple miscarriages. “I have had eight or nine miscarriages,” she writes. “For three years, my body has been a prisoner of trying to get pregnant—I’ve either been about to go into an IVF cycle, in the middle of an IVF cycle, or coming out of an IVF cycle.” But she noted that she and Wade “remain bursting with love and ready to do anything to meet the child we’ve both dreamed of.”

Now, they have their “miracle baby” and celebrities and fans alike could not be happier for the couple. “What a blessing!!! I am so happy for you guys!!!” Janelle Monae commented on Union’s post. And director Ava Duvernay wrote, “How wonderful!” See just a few reactions, below:

Wade’s team, the Miami Heat, also weighed in and already have a baby gift ready.

Many congratulations to the happy family! We can’t wait to hear her name and see more photos.

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Gabrielle Union 'Finally Got Some Answers' About Her History of Miscarriages


Over the past few years, Gabrielle Union has been an open book about her fertility struggles. In her 2017 memoir, she wrote about how she’s had “eight or nine” miscarriages throughout her life—most recently with her husband, Dwayne Wade—and she likened her body to a “prisoner” of trying to get pregnant. But now, at the age of 45, she finally was able to get a diagnosis.

“Toward the end of my fertility journey, I finally got some answers. Everyone said, You’re a career woman, you’ve prioritized your career, you waited too long and now you’re just too old to have a kid—and that’s on you for wanting a career. The reality is I actually have adenomyosis,” Union said at the annual BlogHer conference, according to People. “The gag is I had it in my early 20s.”

Union noted how almost all of the doctors she visited disregarded her symptoms and would solely put her on birth control as a treatment. “Instead of diagnosing me, they were like, Oh you have periods that last nine or 10 days and you’re bleeding through overnight pads, perhaps there’s something more there,” she explained. “Every doctor I saw was like, Let me put you on birth control. The pill can mask all kinds of things. It is amazing at preventing pregnancy; not so great with addressing adenomyosis.”

Adenomyosis, which is closely related to endometriosis, involves an overgrowth of endometrial tissue in a woman’s body. This can result in everything from painful menstrual periods, pelvic pain, bleeding between periods, infertility issues—as evidenced by Union—or pain when urinating or having bowel movements. “Adenomyosis happens when that endometrial tissue travels from inside the uterus and grows into the muscle of it,” Kristyn Brandi, an ob/gyn with expertise in heavy vaginal bleeding management from Boston University/Boston Medical Center, told Self previously.

Unfortunately, there’s not a cure-all treatment when it comes to adenomyosis. However, symptoms can be managed by taking nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs, having a hysterectomy, or, yes, taking hormonal birth control.

As for Union, it’s been taxing to constantly be asked about her fertility plans while dealing with adenomyosis. “For so many women, and not just women in the spotlight, people feel very entitled to know, ‘Do you want kids?'” she wrote in her memoir. “A lot of people, especially people that have fertility issues, just say ‘no’ because that’s a lot easier than being honest about whatever is actually going on. People mean so well, but they have no idea the harm or frustration it can cause.”

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Why I Think Trump’s State of The Union Let DownLatino and Immigrant Communities


Even before Donald Trump started talking, it was clear to me that his State of the Union address on Tuesday night was shaping up to be a hostile environment for Latino immigrants. Several Democrats invited “dreamers,” undocumented individuals brought to the U.S. as children, to attend the event and represent the experiences of young people hoping for immigration reform.

But Rep. Paul A. Gosar (R-Ariz.) tweeted just hours before the speech that he’d contacted U.S. Capitol police, urging them to check IDs and arrest any “illegal aliens in attendance.” I could see the lines were drawn: Dreamers, who come from Latin America and other parts of the world, were not welcome here.

From there, things got worse. I can’t say I was optimistic about Trump’s address—after all, he’s continually derided Latino and immigrant communities, like the one I grew up in, by painting us as criminals and leading “build the wall” chants at his rallies. But I wondered, hopefully, whether his recent non-partisan bluster could at least initiate a productive conversation about the future of the Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals (DACA), which he ended last year.

Instead, Trump took the podium and launched into rhetoric that referenced criminals and members of the violent Central American gang MS-13, fixated on the dangers of chain migration, and refused to fully commit to DACA recipients, who have been waiting anxiously for permission to stay in the only country they know. It wasn’t just bad, which I’d prepared for; it was a flaming dumpster fire of mistruths, and a massive letdown for immigrants and Latinos listening. And, while it was par for the course for Trump, it still upset me to watch such a divisive reality unfold.

As hard-working members of society, we Latinos were largely invisible last night. The only time Trump mentioned us by name was when he patted himself on the back and boasted about the Hispanic unemployment rate reaching an all-time low—something that’s has been happening incrementally since before he was elected. He spent more time evoking images of gang violence to justify his anti-immigrant agenda, describing how “open borders have allowed drugs and gangs to pour into our most vulnerable communities.”

“Tonight, I am calling on the Congress to finally close the deadly loopholes that have allowed MS-13, and other criminals, to break into our country. We have proposed new legislation that will fix our immigration laws, and support our ICE and Border Patrol Agents, so that this cannot ever happen again,” he said.

By continuing to discuss MS-13 in this context, Trump conflates immigrants and undocumented individuals with criminals and gang members. As a fact-check from the Guardian shows, several studies, including this one from the 2015 National Academy of Sciences, prove that immigrants are actually far less likely to commit crimes than native-born people. Plus, his claim that his administration has put “thousands and thousands and thousands” of MS-13 members behind bars is unverifiable—and likely an overstatement. His narrative leaves out the millions of families who contribute to the economy and only want to provide a better life for their kids—much like my parents, who emigrated from Nicaragua in the middle of a fierce civil war.

Trump had a chance to frame Latinos in a new light after characterizing them as “rapists” and “criminals” in the past, but he didn’t

Trump also turned the attention on “chain migration,” saying that his immigration plan would “protect the nuclear family” and stop immigrants from bringing in “virtually unlimited numbers of distant relatives.” This, as Politico points out, is just not true, because a massive backlog for family visas keeps immigrants for bringing “unlimited” relatives to the U.S. Plus, the hypocrisy of complaining about chain migration has already come back to bite a few Trump officials, given how inextricably tied to U.S. history immigration is. Journalist Jennifer Mendelsohn recently found that relatives of Dan Scavino, an assistant to the president, came to New York from Italy and eventually brought more of their family to America. “Do you think that would count as chain migration?” Mendelsohn asked him on Twitter.

And when it came to DACA, Trump was ambiguous. This was his chance to offer a real pledge. He said he had framework that “generously offers a path to citizenship” to immigrants brought to the U.S. as kids, but didn’t elaborate on what that would look like. The dreamers who showed up crossing their fingers for a solution got a mere 65 words of a 5,000-word speech.

Trump had a chance to frame Latinos in a new light after characterizing them as “rapists” and “criminals” in the past, but he didn’t. He said he had plans that would help struggling immigrant communities, but all he talked about was limitations. As a Latina watching last night, it was obvious that Trump wasn’t really talking to me at all—he was addressing an audience that doesn’t want to see us as a multitudinous, patriotic community of entrepreneurs, politicians, and, of course, college-bound dreamers. For me, this was an address about division and discord, not union.

Julyssa Lopez is a Berlin-based freelance writer and reporter.



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