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Best Types of Ear Piercings to Try in 2020


If the last time you got an ear piercing was at Claire’s, then we have news for you: cool ear piercings are officially having a moment. Back in the day you could get one or two studs in your lobe or maybe a cartilage hoop to prove how edgy you were. But in 2020, there are different types of ear piercings for every single vibe, along with tons of earrings to match.

“Social media has made it easier to see what types of ear piercings are possible, and the unique, modern jewelry you can wear with them,” says Sam Hayler, lead piercer at London’s Astrid and Miyu jewelry shop and salon. “The fact that you don’t have to start with a plain silver ball helps when getting a piercing to mark a special event or birthday.”

With so many options now, though, choosing where to start can be overwhelming. So we spoke to top piercing specialists about the coolest piercing trends to try in 2020. From tragus piercings to snakebites, scroll on for the earring trends that are about to be everywhere.



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Dermal Fillers: Your Ultimate Guide to the Types of Injectibles


Ultimately, if it sounds too affordable to be legitimate, it probably is. If in doubt, get a quote from several clinics near you. Dr. Golueke warns against injecting products without being able to trust exactly where they came from. “There’s a black market for Botox and fillers, so people get Botox and fillers which look like the original product, but they are fake,” he says. We’ve already seen the many deals floating around online, but this is one case where you should definitely stick to reputable professionals. You just don’t want to risk it.

“Board-certified dermatologists and plastic surgeons are the only providers fully trained and qualified to administer injectables,” cautions dermatologist Dr. Jessica Weiser. “It’s always appropriate for a patient to ask the provider what their training and qualifications are for providing the suggested treatments.”

The consultation should cover a few key things.

We’ve all seen cases of objectively bad injectables. Beyond going to a board-certified expert, it’s always a good idea to make sure you and your derm (or surgeon) are on the same page about what you’re trying to achieve. And in some cases, you might be told that what you’re trying to achieve isn’t possible. While you can do a lot with injectables, they still need to work with the proportions of your features and it’s possible to over-enhance them. Dr. Weiser recommends going for a gradual approach and adding more if needed.

Dr. Golueke adds that you should also feel comfortable about changing your mind. “If you’re unsure, no real, serious doctor would mind if said you needed to think about it,” he says. “If you don’t feel like doing it, don’t do it.” If you do, make sure you take this time to get any remaining questions or concerns addressed. “The doctor may ask you if you have had any adverse reactions to past injections, how long ago the last injection was, if you are taking any medications—those are all important,” he says.

Smoothing wrinkles is just one of many options.

People typically think of injectables as a treatment for wrinkles and fine lines, but there are many other reasons why someone might get them. Dr. Weiser tells us that her most frequent requests used to come from women, typically ages 40 and over. Now, she’s seeing a dramatic increase in their use in patients from 20 to 40 years old, “primarily neuromodulators to reduce lines, but also dermal fillers to soften under-eye hollows, lift cheekbones, and enhance lips.”

You may have heard the phrase “off-label” before, which Dr. Weiser defines as “using products for unapproved indications.” Injectables go through clinical trials for safety, but they’re not technically approved for their full range of popular uses. For instance, the brand Botox is the only neuromodulator approved for use in your forehead and around your eyes, but brands like Dysport and Xeomin are routinely used there, too. Off-label uses for neuromodulators include injecting them into the masseter muscle at the back of your jaw (to lessen clenching and narrow your lower face), on neck bands (to relax them), and in the central jaw (to keep the corners of your mouth from pulling down).

Filler has even more uses. Dr. Weiser sees the most requests around the midface (to define and raise cheekbones), along the nasolabial folds (to soften frown lines), and in lips (to plump them or just to smooth the surface). “Many off-label uses include the hollow under the eyes, the temples, the jawline, and liquid rhinoplasty to finesse the appearance of the nose,” she adds.

In comparison, Kybella is pretty straightforward. It’s approved on-label for melting excess fat under your chin, but derms may also use it off-label in other “small stubborn pockets of fat.”

Pain is usually “minimal.”

Whenever we’ve brought up the topic in the past, we’ve seen many people flinch at the idea of a huge needle approaching their faces. It can be disconcerting, but it shouldn’t hurt. Dr. Weiser classifies the feeling as “minimal pain.” Dr. Golueke likens the feeling of neuromodulators to “a pinch, similar to when your blood is taken.” Dermal fillers are a step up, but your derm or surgeon will offer a numbing cream before treatment to reduce the insertion pain. Your doctor might also cool the area. According to Dr. Golueke, the two more painful filler areas on the face are the nasolabial fold and the lips. As for Kybella injections, Dr. Weiser says they will sting intensely, but that can be lessened with lidocaine injections and ice packs.

Recovery time is relatively short.

There’s a reason so many patients opt for minimally invasive treatments; they offer fast results and very little downtime. If you get Botox, you might see small pink dots immediately after treatment, but they should go away with 10 to 15 minutes. Dr. Golueke notes that you might see minor bruising in certain instances, but it fades in five to seven days.

Filler does cause swelling and bruising, but it lasts no more than a few days (and can even go away within hours, although you probably shouldn’t make any plans day of). Sensitive tissues will probably swell more—your lips, for instance. Dr. Weiser warns that if swelling doesn’t go away within a few days, you should call your doctor.



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The Best Deep-Cleaning Face Washes for All Different Skin Types


Asking a beauty professional—whether it’s a celebrity hairstylist, makeup artist, or Instagram influencer (hi, 2018)—for advice is always a safe bet. But dig a little deeper, and you’ll find there are plenty of other women out there who are legitimate authorities in their own right. In our new column, Unlikely Experts, they’ll give real reviews and recommendations. Whether it’s surfers on the best conditioners, bikers on the best cleansers, or ballerinas on the best foot creams, it’s fair to say these women know best.

When Lauren Hutton chose to get back onto her motorcycle a year after her coma-inducing, near fatal crash in 2000, she told the Los Angeles Times, “A lot of people think it’s a death wish, but it’s a life wish really.” For the alligator-wrestling, ice-diving, and age-defying model cum mogul, no thrill could replace the feeling of being on a bike. “There’s not a lot of steel between you and the land and the sky,” she explained. The way Porsche Taylor, the founder and editor in chief of Black Girls Ride magazine explains it, there’s not much else either. “Women tend to put everything and everyone around them first. Whether it’s caring for our kids, running a business, or taking care of our elderly, [everything] else seems to be a priority. When you’re on a bike, you must be self aware, with a mind on your surroundings. This calls for you to put yourself first.” She joins and profiles the exponentially growing number of women across the globe who hit the road on their own and in packs to disconnect from their phones, connect with friends, and zero their focus on the present.

Motorcycling’s simultaneous mind-quieting and blood-pumping effects may produce an ineffable glow, but does it have actual skin benefits? “Definitely not. It’s hard on my skin,” says Lanakila Macnaughton, founder of Women’s Moto Expo, who can be found photographing women who ride motorcycles when she’s not on one herself. Even beneath all of biking’s protective gear, a day of pore-clogging dust and sweat and hydration-sapping wind wreaks havoc on your complexion. Which is why motorcyclists provide some of the best market research on facial cleansers. “My skin is usually pretty dirty [after riding], so I have to make sure I wash my face,” says Jeanie Sallings, a dental hygienist by day, unknown legend by commute. If a great ride can wash away worries, here, seven women who ride reveal the best clearing, calming, and hydrating face cleansers that can wash off a full day on two wheels.



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This Shape-Shifting Sex Toy Is Perfect for Creative Types


I had the most romantic night in bed molding voodoo dolls made from the guts of an exploded dildo with my boyfriend. It was so sweet! His doll even has a hat it can wear. I’m gushing, but the Dodil reminded me that we’re the cutest couple ever, even if we enjoyed ourselves for reasons other than prescribed by the manufacturer.

The Dodil is a dildo that you can mold to your own preferences over and over. The idea behind the product is that you get countless dildos within one, and can mold it to fit your body and mood. Prefer a spiral shape? The Dodil can do it. Interested in twisted tornado penetration? The Dodil’s got you.

I want to clarify that any melting of the Dodil was purely my own fault, and not the fault of the manufacturers. I went rogue with their nice toy and did not follow instructions. This aquamarine pleasure device comes tucked into a thermos with a very detailed instruction booklet. My first thought upon reading the instruction manual was, “This would be a truly depressing night if I were single.” The Dodil makes you work for the dildo shape of your choice. Unlike vibrators (the Dodil doesn’t vibrate) which are more or less instant orgasms right out of the box, you need to take your time with the Dodil. You have to run it a hot bath and then give it some alone time. After that, you have to massage it. And then you have to give it even more alone time. And then, eventually, you can put it inside you. Since I screw up the instructions on Easy Mac, I handed everything over to my partner (who is an excellent chef) and asked if he could “just deal with this.”

After boiling water, you fill up the matching thermos with it (be careful not to burn yourself). Then you plop the Dodil inside the thermos, pour out a little bit of the hot water, and screw on the thermos cap. (The instructions claim that you cannot use the thermos for food or beverage, but it’s so cute I was tempted to—it could theoretically hold a ton of coffee.) After the Dodil is happily relaxing in its bath, it needs to sit there for half an hour. When you take it out the countdown begins, as you have 20 minutes to mold it into whatever shape you like. The toy comes with an orange string that you can use to wrap around the toy and set it to your liking. The Dodil truly puts the “toy” in sex toy. Molding it is fun! It’s like grown-up Play Dough.

Now, the instruction booklet clearly states in step five of the third section: “Do not pull on the Dodil, rather squeeze and stroke, to make the inside material move.” However, it’s really tempting to pull on. When you’re playing with a malleable sex toy, the question “how long can I make this thing?” popped into my head so fast I can only assume it was instinct. I held onto one end; my partner held the other; and we pulled each side, giggling at our dildo tug-of-war.

And that’s when the dildo exploded.

The outer silicone cover burst open with a pop, and the lava-like inner core of (thankfully) nontoxic thermoplastic seeped out. If I had just spent an hour of my time trying to cook myself a dildo I would have been bummed, but my partner was there so it wasn’t exactly a necessity. That’s when we used the goo to make voodoo dolls.

Let me again be clear that it is entirely my fault for not following instructions, and anyone who does follow them could truly have not just one, but multiple orgasmic experiences masturbating with the Dodil.

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The Dodil in some of its variations (when used correctly)

Upon learning what happened to our Dodil, the company quickly and kindly replaced mine. For my second attempt, I was alone and just boiled it in a pot like spaghetti (the instructions say that’s chill). After it was finished cooking, I pulled it out of the hot water with tongs and sat in my bed with the hot orange string ready to create a dildo fashioned from my imagination. I squeezed (no pulling) and shaped it with the orange string in an effort to create a spiral. When it hardened—it took about an hour or two, but you can speed up this process by dipping it in cool water—mine looked like a strangled tadpole.

In conclusion, I am the wrong person for this toy. My dishes look dirty even after I wash them. My cats have better handwriting than me. Attempts at learning to knit have ended in snapped knitting needles. As such, I need my sex toys to deliver orgasms as quickly as possible with minimal effort, which is why I adore wand vibrators.

And it’s a shame, because the Dodil is multipurpose and has a really wonderful, silky-soft feeling. After it hardens into one shape, you can re-boil the toy and harden it into another for endless possibilities and a reasonable price point of about $95 USD for the whole kit (the company is Swedish, so it’s sold in euros from Dodil’s site).

The Dodil would have a good home with someone who excels at crafts and is patient. For those who suck at making macaroni and cheese and enjoy sex toys that don’t make you work for your orgasm, however, skip this one. Fortunately, even an exploded dildo can create a night of romantic bonding between you and your partner. We had such a good time with the dildo goo that I have nothing but love for this product, even if it fundamentally wasn’t the right fit for me.

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