Having a spa day at home might not be your biggest concern at the moment, but it’s also a perfectly acceptable response to seek comfort in the control of a beauty routine. There are real stress-relieving benefits in taking 20 minutes to draw a bath or light a candle—and that’s certainly something we could all use.
This isn’t to say you need to turn your bathroom into an elaborate wellness retreat, though. A spa day at home can be as simple as popping on a sheet mask or investing in a muscle-soothing soak to ease tightness from sitting at your makeshift desk (read: couch) all day. Plus, if you’ve got the means, it’s also good time to think of your neighborhood spas that have been impacted by the coronavirus pandemic. Right now, you can help keep them in business by purchasing vouchers or ordering some of their in-house products.
Ahead, we asked estheticians, spa owners, and other experts in the art of self-care to share their best DIY spa tips and home spa treatments for you to try. Sure, there’s no comparison to the massage you’d get at five-star resort, but we’ll take all the little luxuries we can get.
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We’ve all watched and read about plenty of kinky sex ideas (we’ll never forget you, Fifty Shades of Grey), but how many of us really take those desires beyond the books we read and into our bedrooms? If you’re looking to shake things up, there are plenty of ways to do it. From the tame to the wild, we’ve rounded up the 31 best kinky sex ideas to try out.
1. Take it to a mirror.
The next time things are heating up, whisper in your partner’s ear just how sexy they look—and suggest you get an even better view. Lead them to a mirror and lean yourself in front of it, allowing them to enter you from behind or reach around to stimulate your clitoris. You’ll get to watch them enjoy themselves, and they’ll get a view of you from the back and front. It’s also fun to lean a mirror next to your bed, so you can watch as you get it on from different positions.
2. Talk dirty.
Turn up the heat on your dirty talk by describing the sensations you’re feeling, giving gentle encouraging directions, and telling them what you want to do to them before you do it. You may also find that whispering about how a touch feels or being forward with what you want enhances what you’re experiencing in the moment.
3. Get icy.
We’re not talking about the old cliché of popping an ice cube in your mouth before giving oral sex. (Though if that does it for you, by all means go for it!) Ice cubes are the cheapest sex toy around, perfect for trailing over your partner’s body when things get steamy for a chillingly good sensation.
4. Send a racy text.
Be as brave as your vocabulary permits. You can send a simple, suggestive message—”I can’t wait to touch you tonight,” for example—or something more bold, such as a step-by-step guide to what you’ll do to them the second they walk through the door. Need ideas? We’ve got ’em.
5. Tie them up.
Maybe you’ve backed off the idea of bondage because buying handcuffs or other restraints is just too freaky for you. If that’s the case, try something a little more subtle, like a tie or scarf. Playfully wrap it around their wrists and secure them to a chair and go down on them. Or, if you want a more submissive role, ask your partner if they’d like to tie you to the headboard and have their way with you. We’re guessing you’re going to get a resounding yes.
7. Use a blindfold.
You can take that same tie and use it as a blindfold, shielding your partner’s eyes from your next moves, or taking away your own sight while he or she goes to town on your body. When you block off one sense, your body intensifies its others. Touch will feel extra electric and surprising.
7. Nibble and bite.
Nibbling and biting during sex is a sign of passion. It’s a little naughty and a lot hot—the perfect way to show how turned on you are. While you’re making out, test the waters to see if your partner is okay with a little teeth by gently nibbling on their lip. You can also gently drag your teeth over your partner’s shoulders in between sensual open-mouth kisses on their skin.
8. Try ultra-relaxing foreplay.
Two words for you: naked massage. In these stressful times, we could all use some extra TLC so offer your partner a sensual massage. For this you need nothing more than the lotion you already keep by your bedside—and to be prepared for things to heat up quickly.
9. Dress up.
If you’re living your days in sweats, dressing up right before you get naked can be a good way to get yourself in the mood. And why not try a uniform? If you’re looking to get out of a rut, dressing up as a doctor or French maid could be a fun experiment.
10. Spank them.
Spanking can be hot. That being said, it’s best not to give a whop out of nowhere that will just startle your partner and kill the moment. Next time you’re having that kind of passionate, animalistic sex, give them a light smack on the butt cheek with an open palm. If they seem into it, you can spank them a little harder. Studies have shown that arousal raises our pain threshold, so get after it!
11. Or pull their hair.
Don’t underestimate the appeal of a firm tug on your partner’s hair. The next time they’re going down on you, run your fingers through their hair and get a grip. Give it a gentle pull and see how they like it. The trick to making it feel good rather than hurt is to grab a bigger handful hair.
12. Get loud.
Don’t be afraid to express yourself. There’s an incredible freedom in vocalizing what you want and how good you’re feeling—and your lover is definitely going to be all ears.
13. Let your partner watch you masturbate.
This definitely requires some boldness but putting on a show by letting your significant other watch you pleasure yourself can be deeply empowering. Look straight into their eyes while you do it, and it won’t be long before they’re begging you to let them take over.
14. Drip hot oil on your partner with a massage candle.
Don’t be scared: massage candles are safe and will not burn you. They’re specifically formulated to heat up and turn into a sensuous oil that you can rub all over your partner (just not inside your partner—it’s not meant to be used as lube). After the candle turns to liquid oil, blow it out and it will stay liquefied for 30 minutes, which is plenty of time to gently drip it onto your partner and give them a spicy rubdown.
15. Leave the windows open.
Engage in a little light exhibition by leaving the blinds open or the window cracked, depending on how far you want to take it. The chance that someone could see you—or maybe just hear you—makes things all the more exciting.
16. Experiment with role play.
There’s a reason role play is one of the most common sex fantasies: It gives you a chance to let loose and act in a way that you wouldn’t necessarily behave ordinarily, and that’s incredibly freeing. Whether it’s boss and secretary, doctor and patient, student and professor, or anything else, role play is a harmless way to live out a fantasy and get kinky.
17. Play with sex toys.
Hit up a sex shop or online sex store and stock up on naughty goodies. From edible panties to vibrators, there are plenty of options that will spice things up and help you get your freak on. Not sure where to start without getting a bunch of creepy ads? We’ve got you.
18. Try new positions.
We all fall into routines, even when it comes to sex positions. Shake things up. Need some ideas? We’ve got plenty of suggestions for creative sex positions.
19. Don’t forget the pleasure of oral sex.
Sometimes we get to the main event way too quickly—oral sex can be a great way to slow things down and prioritize your pleasure.
20. Get steamy in the shower.
Start things off (and maybe even finish them) in the shower. Just be careful of slippage.
21. Have some strap-on fun.
Getting a strap on and penetrating your partner is a whole new experience that switches up the dynamic and can lead to some sex sessions you’ll never forget. If you’re into the idea, talk to your partner. As always, healthy open communication is key.
22. Get a sex pillow.
Sometimes angles can make all the difference. With a sex pillow, all kinds of new angles become available and the same-old, same-old suddenly feels anything but ordinary.
23. Make a home movie.
Smartphones make it easier than ever to make an x-rated home movie. Even if you watch it once and delete it, you’ll always have the experience in your memory. Just make sure to keep digital safety in mind—and make sure any content stays exclusively on your phone.
24. Have anal sex.
Add another entrée to the menu: anal sex. With the right preparation and mindset, taking things to the back can be the kinky sex idea you’ll thank god you tried.
25. Watch porn together.
If porn is something you enjoy, why not watch it with your partner? Chances are your attention will quickly turn to each other rather than the screen, and the moans coming from the background will keep the mood ultra sexy.
26. Get down in public.
Whether it’s an elevator, in an airplane, or in the back alley of a bar, there’s something inherently kinky about getting it on where you’re not supposed to. To fake the feeling at home, do it in front of the window.
27. Forego panties.
This is one of those simple but effective kinky sex ideas: Just forget to wear your underwear and casually mention it to your partner. Or, better yet, take them off in the bathroom at dinner and when you return the table, discreetly hand them to your partner with a sly smile. Check please.
28. Have sex on your period.
Period sex doesn’t have to be off-limits. In fact, there are plenty of benefits to having period sex—including increased lubrication and heightened sensitivity. If you’ve never tried it before, or are worried about a mess, start in the shower.
29. Lounge in lingerie.
Wearing underthings that make you feel confident and sexy is the ultimate self-turn on. Even if you’re wearing nothing but sweats around the house, slip on something that makes you ready for action underneath—it will be a sexy surprise for both of you.
30. Find pleasure in the fridge.
Bringing food into the bedroom can be oh so hot. Make an ice cream sundae, but rather than top your vanilla confection with hot sauce or whipped cream, rub a dab on your lips or neck and ask your lover to lick it off. As things heat up, paint some of your other erogenous zones with deliciousness they’ll lap up with pleasure.
31. Did someone say threesome?
This is definitely one of the more wild kinky sex ideas, but we’ve got to include threesomes. Adding another player into your bedroom games can be a memorable adventure—just make sure to communicate with all parties involved, be safe, and find the right person.
Living in a tiny New York City apartment means any open space is valuable real estate—and since we started working from home, I’m desperate for more. I’ve reorganized my closet, cleared out my kitchen, and am now looking for clever shoe storage ideas to deal with the many, many pairs I have lying listlessly around my bedroom. Sometimes it feels like there is just no way of containing them all—and while I do my best to donate or sell pairs I’m no longer wearing, there are definitely some keepers in my shoe collection (even if they’re getting negative mileage right now).
Pinterest ideas feel too lofty and time-consuming, so I called on my fellow Glamour staffers to see how they’ve been storing their shoes instead. After all, each editor has at least a pair of heels, sneakers, and every day flats at their desk—so I can only imagine what their homes look like. From felt bins to canvas bags, here are 15 clever and affordable shoe storage ideas so that you too can make the most of every nook and cranny in your room. (Hey, we’re in this together!)
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With nowhere to go but our kitchens, those lucky enough to stay at home have developed a newfound love for cleaning or, rather, a desperate need to keep busy by sprucing up. So let’s take a second to give Chrissy Teigen and her brilliant kitchen organization ideas a round of applause—because it’s inspired our next home project. She shared an Instagram post of her incredible pantry transformation back in February, and if you haven’t seen it yet, it’s easily the most satisfying thing you’ll set your eyes on today.
Look at all those snacks. Are those individual Lazy Susans for olive oil and hot sauce? And who knew clear storage bins filled with super grains were so appealing? Her pantry is a Virgo’s dream and, as her caption put it, an “organizational orgasm.”
In the spirit of spring cleaning, we’re channeling our nervous energy into our kitchens, vanities, and closets, bringing some much-needed tidiness to all of our routines. We may not have Teigen’s fairy godmother Ría Safford to re-do our pantries, but there are some ingenious products out there that can help. Ahead, 21 kitchen organization ideas to help you get on Chrissy’s level.
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These are strange times for romance. People are quarantining with matches they just met on Bumble, Zoom happy hours have negated the need to ever wear pants on a date, and the cast of Love is Blind is probably all thinking “told ya so.” Love in the time of the coronavirus is strange indeed.
But you don’t need a bubble like Jeremy to fall in love even in these weird, weird times—socially distanced love is very much thriving. In an era where we do pretty much everything else virtually, virtual dating has quickly become a new norm. To keep your virtual drinks from getting stale, here are 11 creative virtual dates you can go on while maintaining a safe social distance.
1. Tour the Louvre, in pajamas
Museums and galleries—always the classiest of date options—are largely closed due to sweeping shelter in place orders. But that doesn’t mean you can’t still get your culture on with your own private virtual tour of the world’s finest curated collections. It’s like your very own version of a Bachelor date.
There are hundreds of artists performing worldwide, from big stages and backyards that you can stream from home. (See: John Legend’s performance at the Chrissy-officiated Stuffed Animal Wedding.) For a weekend-long Coachella experience, don your flower crowns and neon for the Stay at Home Festival—a music festival on Instagram live on April 3-5—or track the greats as they go live with Billboard’s rapidly updated list. (For local musicians, consider Venmoing a tip, if you can.)
For a more intimate listening experience, send each other an album to listen to during the workday, and discuss it that night. Or use one of NPR’s Tiny Desk Concerts as a nightcap. (Lizzo is our fave, duh.)
3. Invite a guest storyteller
You’ve been swapping stories for a few phone calls—maybe it’s time to turn to the storytelling experts. The Moth, a globally renowned event series and podcast, features live vignettes of real human experiences—you’ll laugh, tear up, and have some new content for your endless phone calls with your virtual lover. You can “buy tickets” by making a gift via The Moth website, and send your date a calendar invite for showtime.
4. Play dinner delivery roulette
This potential partner already knows plenty about you, and you’d invite them over if you could. Instead, send them your address for a surprise takeout night that also helps support a local business.
Set a time for delivery, and schedule your favorite local dish to land on their doorstep. Watching them unbox and enjoy your favorite food—and you, theirs—is perfect whether you’re a plate-sharer or not.
5. Take a long walk on a virtual beach.
No one is going anywhere for the time being but that doesn’t mean you can’t take a virtual trip together (minus the TSA hassle and fights about wakeup times).
Using Google maps, you can revisit a favorite place you’ve been, your date’s old summer spot, or even give each other a tour of your childhood neighborhoods. You can even feast your eyes on global adventure by snorkeling from a resort in the Great Barrier Reef, visiting China’s Terracotta Warriors, hiking through Yellowstone, or exploring the International Space Station.
You’ve color-coordinated your pantry, scrubbed every nook and cranny of your apartment, and finally finished that 1000-piece jigsaw puzzle—so (small) closet organization ideas are the natural next step in your quest for a pristine work from home environment.
The state of your home matters more than ever right now, and aside from keeping you busy, tackling that messy closet could help to quell any quarantine-induced anxiety. You’re probably wearing sweats, leggings, and more sweats these days—but you’ll reap the benefits of a tidy closet when life as we knew it resumes again. When you’re not busy going on a virtual first date or self-pleasuring for a good cause, a closet revamp is a solid pastime. Even for those cooped up in a tiny NYC apartment, smart hacks can instantly transform your space—and few things are more satisfying than an expertly-crafted wardrobe. From multipurpose storage systems to sleek nesting trays, these closet organization ideas will make even the smallest spaces feel dynamic. Make the most of your space with cute and functional close space savers that will abolish dreaded clothes piles for good.
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