If you’re trying to make the holidays hotter than chestnuts roasting on an open fire this year—and you and your partner are past the “should you or shouldn’t you buy a sex toy?” stage—consider shopping for one as foreplay. (After all, when’s the last time a present was so good you nearly passed out?)

Whether you don’t know where to begin or you’re looking for a favorite new vibrator, we asked sex therapists, educators, and counselors for their recommendations on the best sex toys for couples—and they delivered. There’s a sex toy for just about any kind of person, budget, and preference. (Oh, and don’t forget about all the attachments.) From vibrating penis rings to G-spot stimulators, finger vibrators that can be used during penetrative sex, and a tongue-like attachment that simulates the real thing, we rounded up sex toys for couples that are just as fun to use together as they are alone. Ahead, 17 expert-recommended sex toys, because good sex really is the gift that keeps on giving.