We all remember Lisa Rinna’s wine toss heard ’round the world, the time Teresa Giudice‘s table flip ruined a perfectly good dinner, and when Ramona Singer hurled a glass of pinot grigio at Kristen Taekman’s face and literally drew blood. Nothing brings family and friends together quite like wine—or the holidays—so this year, we asked the Real Housewives to help you give the gift of happy hour, with the best gifts for wine lovers.

Because, aside from ample drama and lots of laughs, Bravo’s Real Housewives franchise has involved many a merlot, and even more pinot grigio. And whether you’re decorating the tree, lighting the menorah, or simply enjoying as many cookies as humanly possible this holiday season—wine will likely make a few (but probably many) appearances amidst the festivities. From Beverly Hills to Atlanta, we tapped five Real Housewives for their must-have gifts for wine-lovers—so read on for all the tea chianti.